DH just showed me this article. Apparently the grandpa thought it would be funny to send that picture to the dad. I don't know if it is my current state, but I would NOT have laughed and would have deemed them to immature to watch my baby again. :::clutches pearls:::
Well, guess this is just more proof I'm going to be a horrible mom. I would think that was hilarious. I also thought the knife against the parasailing rope pic was a riot.
Post by birdistheword on Nov 10, 2012 15:43:50 GMT -5
Sometimes I think I'm broken, because this doesn't really bother me. It's obviously a joke. But I'm also not a parent. But then again, there are sickos in this world who have for real put babies in ovens/micowaves, and that makes it significantly less funny.
I guess my question is... What's the real harm? The oven isn't on... There's no weird way the oven could accidentally turn on, the door shut by itself and the baby get locked in there. There's no potential harm in taking this pic.
Post by EmilieMadison on Nov 10, 2012 15:45:58 GMT -5
While I can see the humor in the idea behind the picture, this was the FIRST TIME these brand new parents left their baby with Grandpa. WTF was he thinking? This is not the way to ease their minds about leaving their baby with him.
Obviously he wasn't going to hurt the baby, but holy shitty judgement. And THAT is what would worry me.
I guess my question is... What's the real harm? The oven isn't on... There's no weird way the oven could accidentally turn on, the door shut by itself and the baby get locked in there. There's no potential harm in taking this pic.
I think my problem is I can't help but picture what would happen if the oven were on. +o(
I can't get worked up about this. I am pretty sure Grandpa didn't turn on the oven, and I'm sure he took that baby right out as soon as the picture was snapped.
It looks like Grandpa even put a blanket in the pan before putting baby down. How considerate ;-)
I dunno. It's not hilarious but it doesn't bother me.
While I can see the humor in the idea behind the picture (the pan...not the actual oven part), this was the FIRST TIME these brand new parents left their baby with Grandpa. WTF was he thinking? This is not the way to prove to them that they can feel good about leaving their baby with him.
Obviously he wasn't going to hurt the baby, but holy shitty judgement. And THAT is what would worry me.
My take is that he did it because it was the first time they left the baby and were so nervous about it, kind of making fun of them (with love) for their anxiety and thinking it would be hilarious. Did it say the parents were upset about it? Or did other people who saw the pic get upset and kind of run with it?
While I can see the humor in the idea behind the picture (the pan...not the actual oven part), this was the FIRST TIME these brand new parents left their baby with Grandpa. WTF was he thinking? This is not the way to prove to them that they can feel good about leaving their baby with him.
Obviously he wasn't going to hurt the baby, but holy shitty judgement. And THAT is what would worry me.
My take is that he did it because it was the first time they left the baby and were so nervous about it, kind of making fun of them (with love) for their anxiety and thinking it would be hilarious. Did it say the parents were upset about it? Or did other people who saw the pic get upset and kind of run with it?
Because this was the very first time they'd left their brand new baby with him (or anyone, it appears). It might have been funny if they had already left the baby with him and didnt have all those "OMG, we've never been away from this tiny, helpless creature" feelings that almost all parents of newborns (esp. first borns) have.
The shitty judgment was that grandpa didnt take into account that they were still developing that trust with him where he was proving to them that he was a capable, level headed caretaker.
While I can see the humor in the idea behind the picture (the pan...not the actual oven part), this was the FIRST TIME these brand new parents left their baby with Grandpa. WTF was he thinking? This is not the way to prove to them that they can feel good about leaving their baby with him.
Obviously he wasn't going to hurt the baby, but holy shitty judgement. And THAT is what would worry me.
My take is that he did it because it was the first time they left the baby and were so nervous about it, kind of making fun of them (with love) for their anxiety and thinking it would be hilarious. Did it say the parents were upset about it? Or did other people who saw the pic get upset and kind of run with it?
Yes, the parents were upset about it. The way to ease a nervous parents mind isnt to make fun of them by using their baby to play on their fears.
I know that the oven isn't on and the baby isn't in any real danger. BUT that poor baby looks terrified. Not that he has a clue what's going on, but still. Doesn't look like fun to me.
My take is that he did it because it was the first time they left the baby and were so nervous about it, kind of making fun of them (with love) for their anxiety and thinking it would be hilarious. Did it say the parents were upset about it? Or did other people who saw the pic get upset and kind of run with it?
That's how I interpreted it, too.
Me too, and unless the oven could turn on magically and heat up to 350 degrees in a matter of seconds while simultaneously locking the oven door, I don't see the big deal.
Sometimes I think I'm broken, because this doesn't really bother me. It's obviously a joke. But I'm also not a parent. But then again, there are sickos in this world who have for real put babies in ovens/micowaves, and that makes it significantly less funny.
This where i am at. It doesn't bother me. It was a joke
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Shocker that this turned into being about "smug laidbackness". God forbid that some people just thought it was funny.
Toledo, I mean we got the memo years ago that you're always right and people who disagree with you are just brainless morons. But does it ever get old having to constantly revisit it?
This comment sums it up nicely for me "It is funny how new parents can be so nervous to leave their children with the very people who raised them"
Well, I don't necessarily agree with that. While they're okay now, I'm not sure I'd feel 100% comfortable leaving my kid with my mom when she was smack dab in the middle of her crack addiction. My sister and I just got REALLY lucky... Had nothing to do with their abilities as parents. Lol!
This comment sums it up nicely for me "It is funny how new parents can be so nervous to leave their children with the very people who raised them"
Sometimes WITH REASON. Hello, who hasn't heard "You rode on my lap in the car and were fine" "This baby would sleep better on his belly" and my personal favorite "Try dipping the paci in honey, then he will take it".
Sometimes it is a miracle that we survived with those 70s parents, lol
Shocker that this turned into being about "smug laidbackness". God forbid that some people just thought it was funny.
Toledo, I mean we got the memo years ago that you're always right and people who disagree with you are just brainless morons. But does it ever get old having to constantly revisit it?
8-D Wasn't that the whole crux of the post? That some people thought it was bad judgement and some just thought it was funny? Toledo is right. Anyone who said they thought it was in poor taste/etc was met with "OMGz, it's just a joke. I thought it was funny and I dont get the big deal!"