Post by Jalapeñomel on Dec 18, 2012 20:39:54 GMT -5
I'm thinking that if I take the new job, I will wait to tell my current school I'm quitting after I get paid at the end of January. Because if I tell them now, I know they won't pay me, even though my contract says they are supposed to (shady, shady)
My husband and I have barely said anything to each other since our fight last night and I'm kind of okay with it. There's no fighting and no words being said that either of us regret.
Edmund and I are baking cookies to keep my mind off of the bad things.
Post by ashbridemd on Dec 18, 2012 20:45:37 GMT -5
I kinda don't understand making fun of someone for wearing sunglasses at a casual summer birthday party....But ooooookay....Again...Keep grasping at straws.
I know how it is with people who can't plan shit until the very last second, and it blows ass. That's how I got stuck doing christmas last year and this year. My mom won't host dinners at her place. My IL's can't put anything together until literally the day before the expected dinner, and I'm just sick of it. SIL won't do it because, well, I don't know why. In the history of 6 years I have been with my h she has never hosted a dinner or anything. But whatever, I'm not interested in eating triscuits for my Christmas dinner anyway. So here I am, working my ass off for yet another year. Oh, and I did thanksgiving this year as well.
DH has a presentation and a bunch of other schoolwork due this week and he is on a business trip in Puerto Rico. I offered to help, he sent me info for the presentation and he is going to do fhe other stuff. I'm trying to balance LO crying, he hates to be put down at all, our dog (who keeps peeing and pooping everywhere) and work on the presentation. I call him to ask him a question and he is on a tourist boat looking at bioluminescent fish. WTF. So I yelled at him. Now I feel bad for yelling because I have been short with him for the last week or so...but I don't feel that bad because WTF.
Another one, I schedule LOs baths around my moms visits. After she leaves, LO stinks of perfume that makes my throat burn. He's getting a bath tonight!
I am trying really hard not to snap at H about all of this. But, Jesus H. Christ.... I feel like it's his fault that we have to do all this shit. And even though he IS being helpful around the house, I still feel like there is a lot to be done, and I don't want to be stretched so thin in the next couple of weeks. Like, literally, we have stuff going on every night this week, then Christmas, and I just don't feel like doing any of it.
Post by ashbridemd on Dec 18, 2012 21:00:49 GMT -5
Spending a ton of money on a professional photographer for a child's birthday party? Why? LOL. Something like a wedding is a little different, donchathink?
Hang in there. Those first couple of months with a new baby are rough. I yelled at my H more than I care to admit. PM me if you need to talk.
He just doesn't do it right! I never thought I would be like this but when DScries, he bounces him all over the place. DS still cries so he bounces him a different way. I grind my teeth watching this, he is probably crying because he has motion sickness from bouncing and flying all over the room! He just doesn't do stuff "right". Thats so assholish. I need to get a grip.
Lol! Omg, my H was the same. During her crying fits, he would be all over the place with her - "maybe she needs a diaper change, nope not that, maybe she needs to walk around, nope, maybe she needs to be rocked..." OMG. No, just shut up, calm down, and soothe her. Lol. I feel your pain.
Another one, I schedule LOs baths around my moms visits. After she leaves, LO stinks of perfume that makes my throat burn. He's getting a bath tonight!
People in my family (Mom, Dad, Sister) also wear too much smelly stuff. I told them that LO's Dr said it was bad for him to be exposed to it. It worked, they didn't wear anything around him for almost 6 months.
LOL at if I get him to marry me. Why would he waste money on a ring, and a wedding if he wasn't planning on really marrying me? He's probably one of the most financially responsible people I've ever know, so I don't see him throwing away tens of thousands of dollars just to shut me up lol.
I think a lot of people are so desperate to shut you up that they'll do pretty much anything.