An update on me.

[iamali]

For those of you who saw it coming or not.

Yep, it looks like my H and I are going to get a divorce. Things have been rough for a really long time, I've actually been posting on ML about it for a while.

I've kept my profile on here low for a few months because I was pretty sure he was reading my posts (most posts about my relationship get poofed by me). I've also been extremely busy with school.

I'm in the process of looking for an apartment right now. He's trying, in last ditch effort fashion, to make it work. I'm 99.99% sure I've moving out regardless.

So, thanks for all the support you guys have/had given me, it was really appreciated. And, if you don't want to offer support and just rub it in (you know, because I'm not feeling bad enough already!), whatever, I can't stop you, it's a open message board.

[karinothing]

Ah Ali I am sorry. ::hugs::

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[heyrebekah]

I'm so sorry to hear that Ali.

You have my support & I wish you the best of luck with whatever comes next for you.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry.

[Willis Jackson]

I'm so sorry, Ali.

[Kore]

I'm sorry, Ali

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry you are going through this ali. Posters who just want to say "I told you so" or whatever should be ashamed of themselves.

[rikki]

I am so sorry. I know how very tough it is. I'll be thinking of you.

[limey]

GL with everything going forward. I read your post on ML and it sounds like this will be the best thing for you, long term.

[dexteroni]

I commented a little bit ago on ML but I'll chime in here too - I'm really sorry about what's going on and I hope you find a better life because you deserve it. I just saw that shitty "told you so" post in the flameful post, and yeah, that was a pretty dick thing to say. If someone has to be all "see, I was right, you were wrong" to make themselves feel better, then they have big problems of their own. Do what's best for you and your boys and try not to concern yourself with the petty gossips.

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry. Hugs.

[Deleted]

Good luck to you.

[SJ]

I'm sorry Ali. I never read ML and have no idea what's going on, but I'm still very sorry to hear this.

[Deleted]

I'm very sorry to hear this, Ali. I hope you are able to come to a resolution that works best for you and your family. Best of luck.

[ijack]

I'm sorry

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry Ali. I understand how much this all sucks. Hugs.

[ssmjlm]

I'm so sorry. I could tell there was something from your posts early on. I wish you all the best.

[statlerwaldorf]

I'm sorry.

[takeonyou]

I'm so sorry you are going through a difficult time. And ignore the assholes. Hold yourself up and look forward to a better life.

[pugz]

((hugs)) I'm so sorry you are dealing with this! Do what is best for you and the boys, you have our support!

[womet]

{{{hugs}}} I am so sorry. Please know that we are here for you.

[auberge]

I'm very sorry Ali.

[aspentosh]

I'm so sorry

[countthestars]

I'm sorry Ali I've caught a few ML posts and I agree that you are doing the right thing. ((hugs))

[80sjunkie]

I'm so sorry Ali.

[Deleted]

Hugs, Ali, I've missed you over here.

Fuck anyone who tries to rub this in your face.

[jene]

Hugs

[Deleted]

I'm really sorry, Ali.

[MamaMaui24]

I'm sorry, Ali. Good luck to you and your boys.