My grandma died this morning apparently at 7:30AM. GUESS WHAT???? It has been posted on facebook and I didn't see it and MY BROTHERS AND I HAVEN"T GOTTEN PHONE CALLS YET (and the first status was posted 12 hours ago). My husband just said to me "they killed her." We saw her the first week of October and she was not on her death bed. SHE WAS NOT. She was perky, up and walking.I was resisting going to look at my Uncles facebook but I just had to and it is SICK what he has posted. Apparently my SIL saw it, told my brother, and my brother called me just now.
I AM SO ANGRY THAT I AM ABOUT TO FUCKING PUNCH A WALL. They are making arrangements WITHOUT us. The question is, do I call my oldest brother who was raised by her?
Welllll apparently my oldest brother knew. He isn't on FB and revolts against social media. He said he didn't call me because he didn't want me to be upset on Colin's first Christmas. He apologized for not telling me as soon as he found out. Though, why he didn't call my middle brother is beyond me??? Either way, holding back is not cool and my stomach is just turning. My aunt and uncle are such sick people and I think it is really sad of them to post about it all on FB without informing the entire family especially given that we are friends with them on there. I am having to hold myself from really blowing up at them. I am normally a calm and reserved person but I just feel sick over this. Somehow I can't fathom how between the two of them they have the time to post seven statuses regarding my grandmas death but don't have the time to call me???
I apologize for my initial dramatics. I feel embarrassed for that because I do try to stay composed but I was still in shock. I need to let this sink in but I just can't stop being angry.