I think we have to do the Saturday before the 23rd of April because the following weekend is my friend's wedding (Sat) and we are all going to that so I'm not sure I will have the energy to do the party the next day.
Sat the 27th, his actual birthday. We really want to do it the following Sunday (cinco de mayo) and have a fiesta and the weather will hopefully be warmer but I will be ku so we will wait 6 yrs til its on a weekend again and do it then.
We will likely have hers on her birthday (Saturday April 13th). I will want Sunday all to myself to snuggle her and cry because I will be back at work on the 15th or 16th.