AH, if you join JL here, I will apply with you. The JL in California was a really cool group (I didn't join, but was looking into it and went to a few events with a friend) but I think out here they are a little more uptight.
I'm sort of interested in trying Junior League, but the application process stresses me out. I am not sure I could handle the rejection.
I belong to a local chapter of the Greater Federation of Women's Clubs (GFWC). There are many GFWC Junior clubs. They tend to be less, um, snobby, then the Junior League.
My club is comprised of amazing ladies, and we do great work in our community. Another option if Junior League is not your thing.