Let's say for a second that ash, and poppy, and bqq and I are telling the truth. Can we all agree, that if we are right, this continued bashing would not be right? And perhaps, if someone is really mentally ill, that perhaps their judgment about continuing to post things here might be off? And that if someone were ill enough to be receiving constant care, that perhaps questioning why they continued to do things might be futile because they might not even know?
I'm pretty skeptical and blunt, and I think calling the kind of bashing that's going on here justified because of your "emotional investment" or curiosity is bullshit. Idk if I believe everything, but on the off chance it's true, I will continue to act accordingly.
Ok, ftr, I dont think you or poppy or bqq or ash are lying. I believe all of you, that you've talked to her and to who you believe is her sister.
I dont agree that I'm bashing anyone. I'm not calling anyone names, making fun of anyone, or being derogatory. I'm saying that I dont believe *something* about what's being touted as fact by people who dont know if it's fact. I dont owe it to anyone to pretend otherwise. She put herself out there and wanted the attention she got. I think scrutiny is part of the attention. And on the off chance it's true, I hope she gets the help she needs. If it's not true, I hope she gets the help she needs.
Oh geez. Just give it time people. WE ALL KNOW HOW THIS IS GOING TO END. Jlm will eventually piss off someone in the inner cirlce, cause she's not all there. Then they will turn on her and create an AE to spill all and there will be a 4 day board implosion. Except this is not the Nest, nor does a BatCave exist this time....
Can I just say that it is the biggest cocktease to pipe up in a post about talking to her then going all Cloak & Dagger? Also using this Kindle sucks dong.
Let's say for a second that ash, and poppy, and bqq and I are telling the truth. Can we all agree, that if we are right, this continued bashing would not be right? And perhaps, if someone is really mentally ill, that perhaps their judgment about continuing to post things here might be off? And that if someone were ill enough to be receiving constant care, that perhaps questioning why they continued to do things might be futile because they might not even know?
I'm pretty skeptical and blunt, and I think calling the kind of bashing that's going on here justified because of your "emotional investment" or curiosity is bullshit. Idk if I believe everything, but on the off chance it's true, I will continue to act accordingly.
Yes we can agree, and why the hell do you guys care so damn much. Over invested much? (not dow, bon, or poppy)
So they can talk to her and post about her and champion for her and that's fine, but asking questions about it is over invested? Perfectly logical! Thanks!
Post by fuckyourcouch on Jan 9, 2013 18:49:48 GMT -5
I don't understand the mystery of "why do you care?".
1. If she's mentally ill, I care because I hope she gets some help and has some IRL support. 2. If she's not, I care because what the hell is going on then? 3. Either way, I care that doc was stiffed. Not cool. 4. If she didn't lie about everything we've discussed, I care because holy shit, girl has a rough life. 5. If she did lie, I care because why the fuck lie about all that? Jesus.
Maybe I just dont get it because I am the biggest asshole of them all and it doesnt weigh on me? I mean when I am here and read her shit I feel bad, but it doesnt go past that I guess? Its just not something I think about unless I am on.
I think more about what you bitches post that you are eating/making for dinner. I mean I can get on board with that. ha
It's a mystery. I like to have answers to mysteries.
I'm a jerk, because I care about her kids, but not her. (I mean, I don't NOT CARE AT ALL about her, but my main concern is the kids if everything she has said about them is true.)
I think it is great that she is getting help. I can't help but sense a bit of annoyed older sister from peeps not interested (even though they're reading this uninteresting stuff)/peeps in the know. It shouldn't be a surprise that people are seeking more details.
I'm on my own here, but I've started to take what DC says on this matter with a grain of salt. I really like her and trust what she says. This is the one exception to that trust. She may believe what she posts, she may not. If she does, she is acting from a place of great kindness. If it's a hoax she participated in, no one was deeply hurt.
I was invested in jlm's well being in the past when I believed what I read. I'm sure there is a real person who posts under the screen name jlm. I'm just not so sure what has been described here, by her or others, is reality. I hope there is more hoax than reality (for jlm and her kids' sake). If it isn't real, I don't really care.
I wish everyone involved well and look forward to discussing other things with all those posters.
There was a similar girl on another board (different drama, same concept) and when she got caught lying, she claimed she was getting help. That turned out to be a lie, too she definitely needed help though.
I have to admit a lot of the comments people have stated have made me truly laugh out loud but if you think about this, the piling on that's been going on (and some, like me, have piled on just by continuing to read about this situation and jlm) seems to be very similar to the bullying that I would think none of us want to see happen in in schools to kids.
I know I'm probably going to hear about it for that statement but Dowager's comments really made me think about this, it had sort of been in the back of my mind but I kept successfully ignoring it.
The comments are funny, they make me laugh but I wouldn't be laughing if it were my sister, my friend or me that they were directed to.
I'm on my own here, but I've started to take what DC says on this matter with a grain of salt. I really like her and trust what she says. This is the one exception to that trust. She may believe what she posts, she may not. If she does, she is acting from a place of great kindness. If it's a hoax she participated in, no one was deeply hurt.
I was invested in jlm's well being in the past when I believed what I read. I'm sure there is a real person who posts under the screen name jlm. I'm just not so sure what has been described here, by her or others, is reality. I hope there is more hoax than reality (for jlm and her kids' sake). If it isn't real, I don't really care.
I wish everyone involved well and look forward to discussing other things with all those posters.
Amen.
Also, if you ever decide to shed your shroud of mystery and want to join in a GTG, we all want you to come! I can vouch for the sanity of the Bay Area ladies - no stalkers or skinsuits, I promise.
Are you sure? Have you talked to any of their sisters? (No, it's not getting old yet)
Post by 2legit2quit on Jan 9, 2013 20:15:56 GMT -5
Did anybody else notice that Dowager was quick to state Doc had presents from special elves on the way? It's almost like Dowager knew the present wasn't going to surface. s
Did anybody else notice that Dowager was quick to state Doc had presents from special elves on the way? It's almost like Dowager knew the present wasn't going to surface. s
Did anybody else notice that Dowager was quick to state Doc had presents from special elves on the way? It's almost like Dowager knew the present wasn't going to surface. s
Omg. Dowager ran SS. She learned about this debacle exactly when everyone else did, and the first thing she did was arrange for Doc to get a gift. Because she didn't want her to get stiffed. That's all.