Post by sillygoosegirl on Jan 30, 2013 13:00:55 GMT -5
I've always been so lucky, it's hard for me to feel really proud of anything I've accomplished. I've done a lot of cool things, but that's largely because great opportunities always seem to fall in my lap.
Post by fuddyduddy on Jan 30, 2013 13:08:12 GMT -5
I think these are noteworthy:
I became a Marine and deployed to Iraq during the height of the war.
I moved across the country with my ex and got a divorce. What could have been a disaster has turned into anything but. I made a conscious effort to make the most out of living here and, as a result, I have met so many wonderful people, built a community for myself, volunteered, started nursing school, and found employment at a hospital.
Post by orangeblossom on Jan 30, 2013 13:09:20 GMT -5
Like pp's have said, I kind of just think of myself as a cog in the wheel. A friend just yesterday told me to stop selling myself short.
I had a full ride for undergrad. I also participated in a training program that only accepted 5% of the applicants that year after grad school. That training program, plus grad school has served me well in my career, especially when I've had gaps due to moving for DH a couple of times.
Does learning from my mom's mistakes and avoiding them count? I didn't grow up in the healthiest environment relationship-wise and am pretty damn proud to keep growing with my husband, who I have been dating since I was 16.
My kid is pretty awesome .
Finished college in 3 years while working crazy hours to support myself.
Ran with some professional opportunities despite not knowing a damn thing and they all worked out somehow. I might be miserable again, but I'll figure it out.
Not being afraid to get out of my comfort zone. I think this one is the key to most of my successes.
I think I've figured out what I want to do with my life. I'm almost 35 and it has nothing to do with what my master's degree is in, but at least I know now. I'm excited to start taking the first steps to pursue it.
Personal: -A healthy marriage (so far ). I wasn't given the best examples growing up. -My kid (heart)
Professional: -I'm happy about what I was able to accomplish in dance. I didn't start training until I was in the 9th grade. I also met my husband while in NY dancing, so its full circle. -In my mid 20's I chose to do a career change to education and it was the best decision I could of made for my family.
In general, I am proud of myself for being a stable, happy person with a great relationship and a job that I (mostly) love. I'm also proud to have experienced and travelled much of the world in an engaged and active way.
My proudest single accomplishment was training for and running a marathon. I did it on my own and didn't know anyone in the race...it was scary!
Post by midnightrae on Jan 30, 2013 16:44:04 GMT -5
Mine would be having a book of poetry published. In the next couple of months, I'll be sending out some new poetry for a second publication. Wish me luck!
Taking care of an ailing parent and grandparent while working full-time and in grad school. Looking back on those days maybe I should have taken a break from school or work, but at the same time staying busy kept me sane through those tough times.
Oh an a more positive note, I completed a marathon last fall.
I have a lame one: I still can't believe I have a college degree and did it within 4 years. I had a lot of personal, mental health, and academic problems in late high school and all through college (arguably extending to the present). Somehow I managed to pull it together enough to graduate with a C+/B- average. I wake up some mornings and look at my diploma on the wall and think "how the fuck did that get there?"
I am pretty proud of my academic credentials and of the fact that my H and I managed to pay for my JD and his MBA without taking out loans (my dad paid for a semester of law school, and our parents paid for our undergrad, so I am fully aware that we are lucky and had a leg up that many people don't have).
Personally- my relationship with DH. We have gotten through a lot together and we always manage to come out stronger then before. I am also really proud of myself for allowing myself to be so open with DH. (Which has helped out relationship a lot)
Professionally- going for what I actually want and landing my dream job at the age of 22. (Even though I only work casually for them)
Is it bad that I can't think of any one thing? B/c I can't. I'm definitely what people would outwardly consider a "high-achiever" but I don't feel particularly proud of any one accomplishment. I most feel like I've just been doing what's expected of me all my life.
Wow, that's sad.
Maybe it's my development in my relationship with DH. Every BF I ever had before him told me I was not affectionate enough, didn't show love enough, etc. It all stems from not wanting to be the first to "blink" and show how much I care about someone and lay it all out there, risking getting hurt. I also am a bit of a loner, and like my own company a lot, don't always "need" other people. With DH, I think I've really blossomed (for me) and he's really stuck by me and tried to get me out of that shell. I probably have a long way to go, but I think I've really come a long way.
Post by awkwardpenguin on Jan 30, 2013 18:25:30 GMT -5
Going to grad school and getting my Masters Degree. ExH told me he wanted a divorce the day after I found out I'd gotten in to the program I wanted to go to. I negotiated a better scholarship deal based on my changed circumstances and moved across the country to a completely different life I wasn't expecting. Grad school was really hard but I found my way and have done pretty well in my field.
Being able to be there for my parents as my dad died of cancer, and that we were able to honor his wishes until the end.
Riding the 109 mile El Tour de Tucson in 7 hours and 1 minute. My training pals told me to set a 7 hour goal and I didn't want to because I didn't think I could do it. Turns out I could.
Post by whosthatgirl on Jan 30, 2013 18:33:43 GMT -5
Earning a full ride scholarship for Division 1 athletics and starting all 4 years. I still remember the shock/nerves/excitement/pride I felt when I first saw my number on the lineup at my first collegiate match.
Giving birth to two children without meds and raising those kids. They are such amazing and intelligent little people. They are my world.
Post by RoxMonster on Jan 30, 2013 18:51:42 GMT -5
I'm really proud of my academic achievements--graduated undergrad Summa Cum Laude and graduated Grad school with a 4.0. I have always excelled in academics more than anything else.
ETA: Losing 80 lbs by eating healthier meals and working out 5-6 days a week. I was SO proud of myself when I ran my first 5K nonstop.
Having my life together - a good marriage, a good job, friends, a house, etc. This allows me to not need a financial help from my family (parents & grandparents), as much of my extended family has.
Post by FishChicks on Jan 30, 2013 21:05:37 GMT -5
Completing my Master's and Doctorate degrees from a top tier school in 4.5 years while working full time the last year. That is closely followed by running my first half marathon for my 30th birthday. I always detested running, so hitting that goal was an awesome challenge.insert code here
Post by emilyinchile on Jan 30, 2013 22:16:22 GMT -5
I just read all of these, and they honestly made me smile. So many of you have done really amazing things.
I think mine is running a half marathon. I've gotten through personal troubles and had professional accomplishments that might sound more impressive to someone else, but for me the fact that I trained for and complete 13.1 miles of running without walking is something I am SO proud of. It took a hell of a lot of effort.
I love reading things like this and I think some people need to give themselves more credit.
I'm still a little surprised that I had the wherewithal to immigrate as a student for college. I had lots of good options locally, but I really wanted to go to Canada and I did. Also, that I chose to marry and stay here. Even an "easy" immigration like mine takes a lot of time, money, and determination.
I'm really proud of my marriage and the maturity in both of us over four years. We are a kick ass team and I feel like I can take on the world with h by my side.
Since starting my job in August, our bottom line has increased by about 15% each month. There are several factors in that, but my boss gives me 95% of the credit. Our bottom line translates directly to meals served to the homeless in our city. I'd like to think that I kick ass at my job and I'm making a tangible difference in the lives of people in need.
Last year in 8 months I lost 40 pounds. I am continuing to focus on my health this year. I'm proud that I've changed many (but not all) of my unhealthy habits and have focused on physical health.
I was courageous enough to fly by myself at 21 to meet a guy I only knew online. What an adventure.
I'm pretty proud of my money management. We have a bit saved and I'm saving 15% + pension for retirement. I feel ahead of the game compared to many/all my friends.