I saw she's still here, with a new avatar and sig pic. Is she still welcomed or has she been shunned from candy mountain?
Is she still here? I've been too busy propping up my fat rollss so I can get it on with my H.
I saw her respond somewhere the other day. I laughed when I noticed she changed both the avatar and sig pic (I'm not sure if it was in hopes to fly under the radar more, but I assume it was and that makes me LOL)
I'm willing to guess that most of the people on here have done similar, but didn't get busted.
To deny that would be really naive.
Jesus, how cynical. And see, I'm guessing most of the people who were so taken aback by Dowager's AE were people who never have and wouldn't stoop to it.
This is me. I was so disappointed that it was her (like she cares but still). I don't like being mean IRL, so I don't like being mean here.
I'm willing to guess that most of the people on here have done similar, but didn't get busted.
To deny that would be really naive.
Jesus, how cynical. And see, I'm guessing most of the people who were so taken aback by Dowager's AE were people who never have and wouldn't stoop to it.
well look at how she reacted to everyone about the JLM beating. And then she turned around and created an AE to make fun of someone's hair.
I completely disagree with you. respectfully, of course. Please don't hunt me down with an AE. lol. jk
I like my naive bubble. I'm not saying no one has made an AE to make fun of someone, because that's obviously wrong. But I don't think MOST people have done it.
I don't believe for one second that this was her first AE to do this like she claimed.
I think all of us have been mean at some point. I know I have. But most of us have been mean under our normal screen names. I think it takes it to a whole new level when you have to create an AE to be mean to someone, but I don't think most of us have used an AE to insult someone else. I'm of the opinion that if you're going insult someone, do it under your own name.
So though I see where thebamker is coming from, I don't agree that most people have used an AE.
Yes, we all have moments but this was more than a moment. It was an ae created to just bash someone's looks and then she created a poll about it.
yes, I don't think everyone on here has done exactly that. which is why I said similar. similarly mean.
honestly - 1 million of you could come in here and dispute this, but I won't change my mind b/c I don't believe anyone would actually come in and say... "oh yeah - I did that too".
I have quite a few things that I wish I could 'un-say' to people. I was totally ok with kicking people while they were down back in the old days. not proud in the least.
And while I'm at it, if she was so disenchanted with the board and the jlm situation why not go after the ones who doubted jlm from the start? (who actually were onto something) Why pick sake??
because they all have awesome bangs? idk. People are unpredictable... see what I mean?
from what sake posted, they have history so it wasn't nearly as random as it seemed. and i went back and reread that thread, and i really don't think it was about the jlm situation. she was bored. she made an ae. she said she couldn't have cared less what most people thought about her doing that, because of the actions of the bored as of late, but not that she did it BECAUSE of that situation.
Nothing will justify that level of asshole behavior to me. Also, 'board behavior' makes us sound like some sort of borg, when in reality we all disagree daily.
See - i don't think it's justifiable. Not in the least. But I do think it's forgivable. That's all.
Post by cheeseandcrackers on Feb 4, 2013 13:33:13 GMT -5
I like to give people the benefit of the doubt... but I cannot figure out for the life of me why someone would think it's appropriate to make a fake name to bash a chick's bangs that JUST had a baby. It's just cruel and there's nothing more to it. If you are that bothered by her hair, just message her and give her some advice, geez.
Nothing will justify that level of asshole behavior to me. Also, 'board behavior' makes us sound like some sort of borg, when in reality we all disagree daily.
See - i don't think it's justifiable. Not in the least. But I do think it's forgivable. That's all.
I agree with this, but it didn't seem like DC cared about being forgiven. She was so 'Eh' about the whole thing.
Has anyone ever discussed the SS list of addresses? Wasn't DC in charge of SS?
What discussion would we have had about that? I don't know how elfster works, so I'm not sure how much access DC had to everyone's private info if that's what you're getting at.
I like to give people the benefit of the doubt... but I cannot figure out for the life of me why someone would think it's appropriate to make a fake name to bash a chick's bangs that JUST had a baby. It's just cruel and there's nothing more to it. If you are that bothered by her hair, just message her and give her some advice, geez.
Sometimes you can have an off day. You can be a nice person and act like a jackass on occasion. I thought it was mean but I'm not carrying around a pitchfork.
See - i don't think it's justifiable. Not in the least. But I do think it's forgivable. That's all.
I agree with this, but it didn't seem like DC cared about being forgiven. She was so 'Eh' about the whole thing.
Yeah, I don't think anyone views this as unforgivable, but the lack of a sincere apology leaves a bad taste in the mouth. Not that DC cares what I think. lol and I do like her, a lot.
I agree with this, but it didn't seem like DC cared about being forgiven. She was so 'Eh' about the whole thing.
Yeah, I don't think anyone views this as unforgivable, but the lack of a sincere apology leaves a bad taste in the mouth. Not that DC cares what I think. lol and I do like her, a lot.