C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
I'm having a lot of anxiety about finding something WHITE to wear for these effing family photos. My mom is making it 100% worse and yesterday said "can't you just buy a white dress?" when she nixed the cream-colored one I found.
I never wear anything but black. Sometimes green or red.
So being in something light-colored is making me have bad feelings about my body. That really never happens anymore and it's really affecting me.
Get something fabulous, white, and 100% cotton. That way, after the family photos, you can dye it a color that you'll feel good about.
You're gorgeous no matter what color you wear!
This. And if you don't want to dye it yourself just bring it to me.
I'm having a lot of anxiety about finding something WHITE to wear for these effing family photos. My mom is making it 100% worse and yesterday said "can't you just buy a white dress?" when she nixed the cream-colored one I found.
I never wear anything but black. Sometimes green or red.
So being in something light-colored is making me have bad feelings about my body. That really never happens anymore and it's really affecting me.
I really liked the short dress you posted on Facebook. Did she nix that?
Not everyone looks good in white. I look sick. Cream for life and also creamsiclechica for life too.
Yeah, she nixed it! And I thought I looked great in it!
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
well she is beautiful adn knows it. when you are out of your comfort zone (non dark clothes in her case) you often don't feel like yourself.
Yeah! This is totally it. I already feel uncomfortable and ridiculous buying any article of clothing that is one-time-use. ANd I had to do that for me and both girls! And then I couldn't find ANYTHING plain white or even tan colored (which Mom said was OK. Then I find a dress that's cheap (right one $14.50) that looks good and she says NO WAY. The white one was $40! I was really hoping she'd just offer to buy it for me when I told her I didn't have $40 to spend on a throwaway dress because we're paying RENT and OUR MORTGAGE and OUR SECURITY DEPOSIT plus MOVING COSTS plus VACATION this month. But she didn't offer and just said "can't you find a plain white dress?" NO, I CANNOT, I'VE BEEN ALL AROUND TWO COUNTIES AND SUCH A DRESS DOESN'T EXIST!
So all of that has my anxiety leve (and self esteem) super low these days. It's vacation and I'm supposed to be excited, but I'm not.
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
dixeedeluxe do you have a White House Black Market nearby? They'll have tons of options and you're likely to find something you'd wear again.
I can't wear white because my hair bleeds. This new color line is totally amazing and keeps my hair vibrant a whole 6 weeks, but bleeds the whole time. So this dress will be one time use because it'll be wrecked! You should see my pillows/couches/chairs.
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
you look realllly good in the short white dress. After you can spruse it up with some turquoise accessories adn maybe belt it with a a colored belt or ribbon. I would go get that one.
Post by orriskitten on Jun 28, 2013 8:06:48 GMT -5
The Hershey thread just gave me major sads. We were supposed to leave at 3 today and I'm now sitting here crying because we aren't. I found out after canceling the room that we could have gone.
Related to that, I'm just so down the last few days. I feel like I bust my ass for nothing and get nothing in return. DH says he will "spoil" me this weekend, so I get to sleep in Saturday. If I don't tell him more things, that will be the extent of it. I just don't feel like telling him what might make me happy because then if it doesn't happen I'll be sad.
I don't know if I'm meant to be happy and that I should be punished this way for something I did (don't know what the universe is punishing me for). I don't think I deserve to be happy- I try so hard to be happy and nothing. So the universe thinks I deserve it and who am I to say otherwise?
so the dress on the right is cream? I would never have known. Looks white to me. I would wear that in a heartbeat. its cool and beachy and you look great.
I love the cream dress. But the white kinda makes you look all Grecian goddess-like. Maybe with your hair up and gold accents and you would look beautiful.
The Hershey thread just gave me major sads. We were supposed to leave at 3 today and I'm now sitting here crying because we aren't. I found out after canceling the room that we could have gone.
Related to that, I'm just so down the last few days. I feel like I bust my ass for nothing and get nothing in return. DH says he will "spoil" me this weekend, so I get to sleep in Saturday. If I don't tell him more things, that will be the extent of it. I just don't feel like telling him what might make me happy because then if it doesn't happen I'll be sad.
I don't know if I'm meant to be happy and that I should be punished this way for something I did (don't know what the universe is punishing me for). I don't think I deserve to be happy- I try so hard to be happy and nothing. So the universe thinks I deserve it and who am I to say otherwise?
Post by skiesthelimit on Jun 28, 2013 8:17:40 GMT -5
This is probably more of a UO but I can't stand Desiree on the Bachelorette. I find her really shallow and annoying this season. I liked her on the Bachelor but I just can't get into this season of the Bachelorette because of her.
so the dress on the right is cream? I would never have known. Looks white to me. I would wear that in a heartbeat. its cool and beachy and you look great.
Yeah, it's more of a yellowy cream than a brown cream. Next to the white it looks pretty yellow. But seriously, it "matches" her khaki/white theme.
I'm going to ON and Burlington at lunch. If I can't find anything, I'm going with the cream.
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
I've been a really bad pet mom since Pilar was born. My bird rarely gets out of the cage and my dogs are raged. They also haven't been on walks forever. In my defense, at least for the walks, it has been so smoky around here that I can't be outside long. I have no excuss for the other things. I'm going to Petsmart to get training treats today and maybe a different brush. I also feel bad about leaving the dogs outside all day. They have shade, but the smoke has gotten out of control. The older dog comes in more if I'm home, but the younger on refuses to come in until the evening. I could go get him, but I figure he's happier outside because he wants out almost immediately.
orriskitten I'm sorry. You are taking on a lot of stuff right now and are a great person!
It's just that it's all for nothing. Gg is going back to live with my bitch of a grandmother and then I get to be the bad person for not wanting grandma around and I can't have just gg around so she won't get to see Mel and will die sad and alone, thinking she is unloved. I feel like such a failure and a means for everyone's ends.
Post by The Foozzler on Jun 28, 2013 8:23:10 GMT -5
I am actually sad to be taking Tyler out of daycare today. He loves it there. I am looking forward to spending the summer with him, but I wonder if he is going to miss his teachers and friends. What will I do with him for 8 weeks?
There is a girl I am facebook friends with that I knew in high school. We weren't close though. She currently has two kids and they live with their father and she lives in another state. I NEED to know why. I am sure there has to be a compelling reason why any woman would live apart from her children and it is killing me that I don't know why she does (and it makes me a little sad).
A lot of men leave their wife and children. It does occasionally happen the other way around.
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
It's just that it's all for nothing. Gg is going back to live with my bitch of a grandmother and then I get to be the bad person for not wanting grandma around and I can't have just gg around so she won't get to see Mel and will die sad and alone, thinking she is unloved. I feel like such a failure and a means for everyone's ends.
Wait, did I miss an update? Why is GG going back to gma?
The home we found (one of the best ones in the area) will require her to be in a wheelchair for everything. She can walk but they won't allow her, just if she asks for specific times and they will trail her with a wheelchair the whole time. Being in a wheelchair 24/7 will be the end of any and all independence when she doesn't need the chair. She isn't in a fighting place, so she'll let them keep her in the chair and/or sit in her room all day everyday.