I have another one. My long time friend, texts me 5 minutes ago to wish me a good day and he tells me he's moving in with his gf. THEN tells me that he's had a crush on me forever and thinks I'm gorgeous and now has the balls to tell me when we're both dating other people. I told him I'm really glad we're friends and left it at that. I don't want our friendship to change! Men are stupid.
PS. He's really hot, nice, gentlemanly, and covered in tattoos. Oh well LOL.
Okay, this is pretty much exactly the opposite of nice and gentlemanly. What a cheaty asshole.
I have another one. My long time friend, texts me 5 minutes ago to wish me a good day and he tells me he's moving in with his gf. THEN tells me that he's had a crush on me forever and thinks I'm gorgeous and now has the balls to tell me when we're both dating other people. I told him I'm really glad we're friends and left it at that. I don't want our friendship to change! Men are stupid.
PS. He's really hot, nice, gentlemanly, and covered in tattoos. Oh well LOL.
Okay, this is pretty much exactly the opposite of nice and gentlemanly. What a cheaty asshole.
Agreed in that sense, Kuus. I thought he was nice before all of this. I still think he's nice, but am not interested, at all.
Ok ok, you girls just reminded me of another really juicy confession. The guy I met downtown last weekend is really awesome. I like him a lot. He's very respectful, has a great sense of humor, cooks and cleans, has his shit together, and is covered in tats (which I find super-attractive). At this point, though I know it is still super early, I'm thinking this guy definitely has long term potential. I feel like I'm in a good place right now to start maybe casually dating, and this guy would be at the top of my list.
Confession: At this point though, no matter how much I like him now or come to like him in the next couple of months, I can't get anywhere with him beyond casual. My trip to Colorado is happening at the end of August, and my friend that I'm going to visit and I are going to rip each other's clothes off the first chance we get. I don't believe that any relationship right now would be worth missing that.
I feel like a total prude. XH sent me a dick pic one time and it made me want to vomit. But maybe that was because I had this sneaking suspicion that I was just one of many who'd received the same text. It might have been a group MMS or something.
So now I have a slightly sour view of the whole thing.
Sometimes I wish XH would just disappear and never come back.
I don't blame you AChase! It would make your life so much easier and P is too young to really remember him. I'm evil!
I don't blame you one bit. I feel this both for you and on my side too. I want to shout this to my xDB even if DD never gets to know him. Here is a hint DBs: don't drink and drive, don't lie, feed/change the child if they are crying if nothing else, don't watch movies with pot fields in them with a baby and your mother in the room, say goodbye to your kid when you leave, and just fing leave or choose to love your damn kid!
"Everything happens for a reason, people change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so you can appreciate them when they're right, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together." ~Marilyn Monroe
I have another one. My long time friend, texts me 5 minutes ago to wish me a good day and he tells me he's moving in with his gf. THEN tells me that he's had a crush on me forever and thinks I'm gorgeous and now has the balls to tell me when we're both dating other people. I told him I'm really glad we're friends and left it at that. I don't want our friendship to change! Men are stupid.
PS. He's really hot, nice, gentlemanly, and covered in tattoos. Oh well LOL.
I say this in the nicest way possible-you ma'am are a douche magnet.
I have another one. My long time friend, texts me 5 minutes ago to wish me a good day and he tells me he's moving in with his gf. THEN tells me that he's had a crush on me forever and thinks I'm gorgeous and now has the balls to tell me when we're both dating other people. I told him I'm really glad we're friends and left it at that. I don't want our friendship to change! Men are stupid.
PS. He's really hot, nice, gentlemanly, and covered in tattoos. Oh well LOL.
I say this in the nicest way possible-you ma'am are a douche magnet.
I agree. It really sound like you don't have a lot of good people around you despite what you may think. He would have been a "nice and gentleman" guy if he had never said anything, out of respect for you and his GF. He sounds like an ass. Also, I think you totally look like Bjork.
I have another one. My long time friend, texts me 5 minutes ago to wish me a good day and he tells me he's moving in with his gf. THEN tells me that he's had a crush on me forever and thinks I'm gorgeous and now has the balls to tell me when we're both dating other people. I told him I'm really glad we're friends and left it at that. I don't want our friendship to change! Men are stupid.
PS. He's really hot, nice, gentlemanly, and covered in tattoos. Oh well LOL.
I say this in the nicest way possible-you ma'am are a douche magnet.
I say this in the nicest way possible-you ma'am are a douche magnet.
I agree. It really sound like you don't have a lot of good people around you despite what you may think. He would have been a "nice and gentleman" guy if he had never said anything, out of respect for you and his GF. He sounds like an ass. Also, I think you totally look like Bjork.
I think I am a douche magnet. Anyway for the BJorkness, cool!