"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
I think I'm more scared now about moving out and living on my own than I was when I moved out of my parents house and in with H (then BF) 7 years ago. I've never truly been on my own.
I'm also worried that I'm not going to be able to find a place that I can afford that will take cats. I don't like the idea of having to give them up but I'm just not sure it's smart for me to try to take them with me.
I think I'm more scared now about moving out and living on my own than I was when I moved out of my parents house and in with H (then BF) 7 years ago. I've never truly been on my own.
I'm also worried that I'm not going to be able to find a place that I can afford that will take cats. I don't like the idea of having to give them up but I'm just not sure it's smart for me to try to take them with me.
I think I'm more scared now about moving out and living on my own than I was when I moved out of my parents house and in with H (then BF) 7 years ago. I've never truly been on my own.
I'm also worried that I'm not going to be able to find a place that I can afford that will take cats. I don't like the idea of having to give them up but I'm just not sure it's smart for me to try to take them with me.
Hugs.
How you doing?
I'm doing okay. I've pretty much come to terms with it. I haven't told H that I'm looking for a place to live but I think he knows and we haven't really said much the last couple days. I think he's been reading my posts here.
Post by Pixiehollow on Jul 17, 2013 22:29:19 GMT -5
Lazerus - that is so sweet. I was worried about the same thing with my DDs and it was just so natural. I have never seen a moment from DD1 of jealousy and it is amazing to see them together. They fall asleep in each other's arms and wake up in each other's arms (even though they have their own rooms and own beds. I just love when they giggle and run around and today my little one told my big one - "That's what sisters are for." UGH! tears
Thank you lazerus. It's hard. I really haven't had anyone to talk to about it in real life. I guess I'm just afraid to admit to my family that they were right.
Thank you lazerus. It's hard. I really haven't had anyone to talk to about it in real life. I guess I'm just afraid to admit to my family that they were right.
Don't be. Once you get over that fear and let them say "I told you so" the worst is over and you can move on. I speak from Expierence. My family has said that to me more than once. Lol.
Thank you lazerus. It's hard. I really haven't had anyone to talk to about it in real life. I guess I'm just afraid to admit to my family that they were right.
I called off an engagement; the best advice I got was, "you don't need to explain or answer to anyone about your choice. They are yours and yours alone, and only you know the life you have been living AND its no ones business but you and ...." It helped me a lot. Hugs
Thank you for that. It really does help. I've just always been one to please my parents and the wedding was definitely not what they wanted and neither was the birth of Edmund. So it's hard for me to talk to them about this stuff.
I called off an engagement; the best advice I got was, "you don't need to explain or answer to anyone about your choice. They are yours and yours alone, and only you know the life you have been living AND its no ones business but you and ...." It helped me a lot. Hugs
Thank you for that. It really does help. I've just always been one to please my parents and the wedding was definitely not what they wanted and neither was the birth of Edmund. So it's hard for me to talk to them about this stuff.
But now you have your sweet Edmund! So what do they know?
I've emailed 4 places. 1 I can't afford because of the large amount due up front and the fact that it will take me several months to save that and I want out faster than that. 2 haven't emailed me back. The other I like and the contact has been really quick but it might fall through if she has someone that can come up with all the down payments before me. I just need to send her my references. We'll see. They all add a bit to my commute now but I really can't afford to live in the city I work in
I tried a new type of wine tonight, Spanish Cava, Naveran Brut 2010. Like! I've decided sparkling wine is where its at. I think Moscato is sparkling too. I intend to try that as well.
I decided at the last minute to join my family at their beach rental. I was all packed and ready to start driving tomorrow. Yeah, I got the dates wrong. The rental doesn't start for another 10 days. I almost flew down instead of driving, and, if that had happened, I would have been sitting in the airport with nowhere to go and no one to pick me up. At least I'm not out money, but damn I don't want to unpack and repack all of my crap.