I'll tell you a story of what happens to these kids when the grow up (and also reminded me of all the cake stories):
At my step-dad's first wedding, his ILs called the cake baker and CHANGED THEIR WEDDING CAKE. Because FIL wanted a rum cake. They didn't tell anyone. When the bride and groom cut the cake and tried to feed it to each other, the bride almost threw up. She's allergic to rum. ALLERGIC! And her own FATHER had the cake changed to something she's ALLERGIC to. JFC.