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sonrisa Elder Posts: 20,370 Likes: 26,554	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:27:43 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sonrisa on Aug 19, 2013 23:27:43 GMT -5 We told DD, sang songs together, put her to bed and he drove out. We'll go down in the morning.
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bonquiqui Elder Posts: 25,220 Likes: 19,338	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:28:33 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bonquiqui on Aug 19, 2013 23:28:33 GMT -5 I am so sorry hugs
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Deleted Posts: 0	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:28:46 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 19, 2013 23:28:46 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers to you and yours
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sparkythelawyer Elder Posts: 14,819 Likes: 22,846	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:28:53 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sparkythelawyer on Aug 19, 2013 23:28:53 GMT -5 Sorry, Sonrisa.
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TrickyBob Elder Posts: 13,407 Likes: 12,096	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:28:54 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TrickyBob on Aug 19, 2013 23:28:54 GMT -5 I'm sorry Sonrisa.
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mudslide Senior Member Posts: 7,482 Likes: 2,404	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:29:51 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mudslide on Aug 19, 2013 23:29:51 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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wowhead Full Member Posts: 4,722 Likes: 5,991	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:31:08 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wowhead on Aug 19, 2013 23:31:08 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Hugs!
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blueshirt2003 Full Member Posts: 2,114 Likes: 292	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:33:51 GMT -5 via mobile sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by blueshirt2003 on Aug 19, 2013 23:33:51 GMT -5 Oh, I'm so sorry.
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ginandjucie24 Full Member Posts: 3,987 Likes: 3,771	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:34:43 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ginandjucie24 on Aug 19, 2013 23:34:43 GMT -5 I am sorry
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gretchenindisguise Elder Posts: 22,316 Likes: 25,990	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:34:58 GMT -5 via mobile sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gretchenindisguise on Aug 19, 2013 23:34:58 GMT -5 I'm so sorry sonrisa, but I'm so thankful that your H was in town. Big hugs to your whole family.
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Post by W.T.Faulkner on Aug 19, 2013 23:35:26 GMT -5

Oh, Sonrisa. I am so, so sorry. I do want to say, though, that you are such a wonderful mom for working so hard to help your baby through this difficult time. I look up to you so much for being as strong as you are.

You guys are in my thoughts.

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pixelpassion Full Member Posts: 2,059 Likes: 1,224	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:36:42 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pixelpassion on Aug 19, 2013 23:36:42 GMT -5 Sorry for your loss Sonrisa
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kcr1972 Full Member Posts: 1,708 Likes: 452	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:38:24 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kcr1972 on Aug 19, 2013 23:38:24 GMT -5 I am very sorry for your loss.
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sawyerthedestroyer Senior Member Posts: 6,898 Likes: 3,092	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:38:51 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sawyerthedestroyer on Aug 19, 2013 23:38:51 GMT -5 I'm sorry.
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lime Senior Member Posts: 8,197 Likes: 4,891	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:39:47 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lime on Aug 19, 2013 23:39:47 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Aug 19, 2013 23:28:33 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

I'm so sorry. ((hugs)) Did your dd do ok wiht the news?

Right now it's just words. Earlier today she had said "Grandad is dying. He's not sick. Sick is something you get better from. You don't get better from dying" (our mantra with her lately) and then added "But he's going to get better anyways and then we can play together again." I think it will be more real tomorrow when she sees he is gone from the hospice bed (or he and the bed are gone).

We read jellybeans together (a book about death with a cat and a bunny eating jellybeans) and talked about how he can now share jellybeans with grandpa and other friends and family.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:42:42 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Aug 19, 2013 23:42:42 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by sonrisa on Aug 19, 2013 23:42:54 GMT -5

Thank you, everyone.

gretchenindisguise: so am I. And that he got to see him this morning and give him a big hug. And that his last visit with DD on Saturday was so sweet (she held his hand, told him she loved him and blew him kisses)

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ElizabethBennet Senior Member Posts: 8,950 Likes: 5,502	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:43:26 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ElizabethBennet on Aug 19, 2013 23:43:26 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Sonrisa, my thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
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daisyheadmaizie Senior Member Posts: 6,193 Likes: 2,979	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:43:31 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by daisyheadmaizie on Aug 19, 2013 23:43:31 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your family's loss. My thoughts are with you all. It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job explaining things to your DD.
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bluefish Junior Member Posts: 616 Likes: 230	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:43:41 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bluefish on Aug 19, 2013 23:43:41 GMT -5 I'm sorry for your loss.
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montereybride Full Member Posts: 4,013 Likes: 1,869	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:44:21 GMT -5 via mobile sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by montereybride on Aug 19, 2013 23:44:21 GMT -5 I'm so sorry, my friend
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polka Senior Member Fortune, courtesy of cville Posts: 9,159 Likes: 13,678	FIL just died Aug 19, 2013 23:46:20 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by polka on Aug 19, 2013 23:46:20 GMT -5 Oh Sonrisa I am so sorry.
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Post by tdk2 on Aug 19, 2013 23:55:00 GMT -5

I am so very sorry, sonrisa.

I am glad your Dh was around though. And very glad your last visit w kiddo was a good one. It sucks no matter what, but sometimes the sweet memory eases the pain a little later as it will stick out in your mind.

Many hugs to you. I'm sorry.

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gogadgetgo Full Member Posts: 4,403 Likes: 1,676	FIL just died Aug 20, 2013 0:16:41 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gogadgetgo on Aug 20, 2013 0:16:41 GMT -5 I'm so so sorry for your loss
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goaskalice Full Member Logic and proportion have fallen sloppy dead. Posts: 4,581 Likes: 2,085	FIL just died Aug 20, 2013 0:21:12 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by goaskalice on Aug 20, 2013 0:21:12 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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WOT?* Elder Posts: 21,300 Likes: 21,291	FIL just died Aug 20, 2013 0:27:58 GMT -5 sonrisa likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WOT?* on Aug 20, 2013 0:27:58 GMT -5 I am very sorry.
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