A girl that I am FB friends just posted that she is pregnant. She is gay and lives with her girlfriend at her mother's house. She has a three year old. The story about how she got pregnant with the three year old is sad. Basically she and her girlfriend decided they wanted a baby so they started sleeping with drunk guys at parties. She got pregnant and they did not tell the father. I am sure they didn't even know who it was. I am very curious about how she conceived this child and trying not to judge her before I know the facts .
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Post by sugarbear on Sept 11, 2013 22:53:17 GMT -5
I have a friend who did something similar. She wasn't in a relationship, was getting older, and wanted a baby. Took a random home from the bar, and Walla! Pregnant.
I judge, a little, but I understand why she did it.
Post by goaskalice on Sept 11, 2013 23:03:48 GMT -5
See, one of the benefits of being gay is getting to choose super sperm. Sure it costs money, but at least I'm not stuck with the DNA of a random drunk guy.
See, one of the benefits of being gay is getting to choose super sperm. Sure it costs money, but at least I'm not stuck with the DNA of a random drunk guy.
I'm really hoping they chose the spending money route this time.
See, one of the benefits of being gay is getting to choose super sperm. Sure it costs money, but at least I'm not stuck with the DNA of a random drunk guy.
Gah, those lesbians, always getting the best sperm.
See, one of the benefits of being gay is getting to choose super sperm. Sure it costs money, but at least I'm not stuck with the DNA of a random drunk guy.
Gah, those lesbians, always getting the best sperm.
Classists! Trying to get the classiest sperm!! lol
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
A girl that I am FB friends just posted that she is pregnant. She is gay and lives with her girlfriend at her mother's house. She has a three year old. The story about how she got pregnant with the three year old is sad. Basically she and her girlfriend decided they wanted a baby so they started sleeping with drunk guys at parties. She got pregnant and they did not tell the father. I am sure they didn't even know who it was. I am very curious about how she conceived this child and trying not to judge her before I know the facts .
Don't judge. This is just sad and pathetic. Did they think its a less expensive route to IVF?
This deserves judging. And it IS a less expensive route than IVF. It's just a stupid route.
See, one of the benefits of being gay is getting to choose super sperm. Sure it costs money, but at least I'm not stuck with the DNA of a random drunk guy.
Gah, those lesbians, always getting the best sperm.
i know a 21 year old who wants to get pregnant with her 19 year old girlfriend. I'm pretty sure they plan to do the random dude method of getting sperm.
Post by wrathofkuus on Sept 12, 2013 6:32:14 GMT -5
I am sure that even with someone you're not attracted to, getting your nethers stimulated for free is better than paying to just kind of squirt it up there. I do worry about disease, though.
Post by SusanBAnthony on Sept 12, 2013 6:41:05 GMT -5
Everyone I know did it at home. It is still 300-700$ but you can make it a little more romantic and you don't have to pay the doctor top squirt it up there.
I think there are states where it isn't allowed, though.
Post by expatpumpkin on Sept 12, 2013 6:43:30 GMT -5
Who are these men who come home and have unprotected sex with strangers? Seriously. Forget pregnancy - she could be on the pill, etc. - what about STDs?
I have a friend who did something similar. She wasn't in a relationship, was getting older, and wanted a baby. Took a random home from the bar, and Walla! Pregnant.
I judge, a little, but I understand why she did it.
I have met several women lately who are trying to do this.
I have a friend who got pregnant from a one night stand. She didn't intend to get pregnant, but when she found out she was, she didn't let the guy know and went on to have the child. The child is now a teenager and asking who her father is. My friend is not sure how to explain to her the circumstances of her conception without hurting her.
I have a friend who got pregnant from a one night stand. She didn't intend to get pregnant, but when she found out she was, she didn't let the guy know and went on to have the child. The child is now a teenager and asking who her father is. My friend is not sure how to explain to her the circumstances of her conception without hurting her.
Post by pantsparty on Sept 12, 2013 8:16:52 GMT -5
Wow, I'm surprised to hear about this, and that others know people who've done it as well!
I would be very, very worried about STDs. Seems risky. I assume they try to time their cycles, but I wonder how many guys they have to sleep with before getting pregnant.
I have a friend who got pregnant from a one night stand. She didn't intend to get pregnant, but when she found out she was, she didn't let the guy know and went on to have the child. The child is now a teenager and asking who her father is. My friend is not sure how to explain to her the circumstances of her conception without hurting her.
Why didn't she tell the father?
Her reasons were that she didn't know his last name and had never met him before that night. I'm not sure if she tried to find him at all or what. I didn't know her back then and I'm not that close to her so I only know bits and pieces of the story. I do know she regrets not telling the father now.
Her reasons were that she didn't know his last name and had never met him before that night. I'm not sure if she tried to find him at all or what. I didn't know her back then and I'm not that close to her so I only know bits and pieces of the story. I do know she regrets not telling the father now.
I kind of feel bad for the guys in these situations.
Her reasons were that she didn't know his last name and had never met him before that night. I'm not sure if she tried to find him at all or what. I didn't know her back then and I'm not that close to her so I only know bits and pieces of the story. I do know she regrets not telling the father now.
I kind of feel bad for the guys in these situations.
I do too. Also, the kid. I wonder if she will resent her mom after she finds out.
I'm sorry, but I am judging. That man has the right to know he has fathered a child, even if he was drunk when it was conceived. What if he would have been a wonderful father? And that child has the right to know his/her father as well.
Some woman out there who wind up pregnant after a one night stand are all over the courts, demanding child support, health insurance, everything possible. The courts declare the father must pay, and those mothers should receive help. Yet others think they have the right to keep that child from the bio-dad if they feel like it? Not right.