Post by melindafelinda on Sept 20, 2013 1:18:19 GMT -5
I'm sorry. I was married to, and divorced a cheater. It will get better. And when you finally are in a secure relationship someday down the road you will be relieved that he is out of your life and you don't have to deal with that shit anymore.
I'm so sorry. I wish you all the best of luck. Eventually this is will just be a sad story about the asshole you were with, even though I'm sure it doesn't feel that way right now.
Post by mellimel19 on Sept 20, 2013 11:13:16 GMT -5
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. And while I'm sure it may not seem like it now, it sounds like you will be much better off without him. Wishing you happier days ahead.
Post by thinklikeajellyfish on Sept 20, 2013 12:05:01 GMT -5
Thank you everyone so much. You guys are making me cry. @cse1960, yes I am safe and have a job, access to money, currently seeing a therapist, all that. The thing most on my mind right now is finding a lawyer, and I don't know where to start. Any SoCal ladies have any recs? PM me if you do. I can't use the internet while at work, so sorry if I don't reply, but again thank you so much, everyone. I really appreciate everything. I know I will come out of this amazingly, it's just going to super suck for a while.