I went to Chicago last weekend to celebrate my brother's graduation. He pulled a bunch of bullshit before we drove down and was acting like a total fucking spoiled brat, so I refused to attend the one event he permitted me to attend. He moved overseas this week and I don't feel one bit guilty about not seeing him last weekend.
I'm dealing with stupid work stuff this week and I told a guy in upper management that the situation "is a clusterfuck". This is NOT going to help me remove the "angriest employee" title from my name.
My old BF post-divorce contacted me this week for the first time since his breakdown. We talked via text the past couple nights, mainly about therapy (on either side) and what not. Both of us just need to work on ourselves right now and "we" won't be anything for a long time if not ever, but I have a lot of love for him as a person if not possibly more still. Currently learning what "I can't quit you" means. Darn it.
I have a great relationship with DD's dad BUT this time I wanted to be a bitch. At school, Valeria (DD) made a card and something fun that was intended to be for her dad. She chose to give it to my dad.
She saw her dad on Skype on father's day as she does any other Sunday. I did not tell her to say Happy Father's day to him and didn't even mention anything just because he didn't acknowledge Mother's day.
He is flying in on Thursday to pick her up so I'm still debating if I'm going to make her do something for him.
I am trying really flipping hard not to go off on my friend (shoegate lady). I know that she's stressed, and I know that with her FI working out of town (they see each other on the weekends) it's tough, but this Bridezilla crap is getting old. (Obv, shoegate isn't the only instance of this BS)
Also, I'm pissed that this house isn't closed yet. It's my last instance of having to deal with XH in any way, and I'm just ready to be done with his dumb ass.
I am trying really flipping hard not to go off on my friend (shoegate lady). I know that she's stressed, and I know that with her FI working out of town (they see each other on the weekends) it's tough, but this Bridezilla crap is getting old. (Obv, shoegate isn't the only instance of this BS)
Can you please point me to the shoegate post? I must have missed it on vacation
I'm going in to work today without showering first because I didn't wake up as early as I wanted to, and it was more important to me to cook a delicious breakfast. I plan on washing my face and redoing my makeup, but I really don't give a shit about the rest.
I actually don't even feel like this is flameful. lol
As much as I tell myself I wouldn't, if my ex came back and agreed to go to therapy, I'd probably take him back.
My awful one is that I hate living at my parents' house. And I have no choice because no one will rent to me with my dog. I love her dearly, but this is why I wouldn't adopt out fosters to people who rented. It's really hard to have to choose between housing and your pet, and I actually have somewhere that I can go, even if it sucks at the time.
Annnd to kind of tie those together, I am SO afraid I'm not going to find anyone to date me because I'm in my mid/late 20s, living at home, and in grad school (ie. poor).
As much as I tell myself I wouldn't, if my ex came back and agreed to go to therapy, I'd probably take him back.
My awful one is that I hate living at my parents' house. And I have no choice because no one will rent to me with my dog. I love her dearly, but this is why I wouldn't adopt out fosters to people who rented. It's really hard to have to choose between housing and your pet, and I actually have somewhere that I can go, even if it sucks at the time.
Annnd to kind of tie those together, I am SO afraid I'm not going to find anyone to date me because I'm in my mid/late 20s, living at home, and in grad school (ie. poor).
Oh, I know I am an idiot. Hence why I threw myself onto the pyre. I accept my flaming with grace.
I'm sorry you are having an hard time renting! Have you check out craigslist? And I totally hear you! Although my fear is "Oh my god, I am 33 and have 3 dogs. Who the hell is gonna want into this shit show?" You will be FINE, hobs. I promise.
Post by udscoobychick on Jun 22, 2012 13:26:06 GMT -5
Bad girl, Bully! Ladies, please talk some sense into her when she visits!
I skipped out of work today for 2.5 hours to go teach lyra (aerial hoop) to a bunch of 5-10 year old kids. I stayed late earlier this week to make up for it, but I came back to a big deadline, so I feel bad that I left.
And the second half of that is that I need to write a section of a proposal, which I've never done, and I'm scurred. I don't want to fuck it up. I mean, it will go through multiple reviews and drafts, so there will be people who are more experienced than me to fix it, but I want the first draft to be good and make a good first impression! And said first draft is due by the end of the day on Monday. I have exactly 0 words written. Drat.
As much as I tell myself I wouldn't, if my ex came back and agreed to go to therapy, I'd probably take him back.
My awful one is that I hate living at my parents' house. And I have no choice because no one will rent to me with my dog. I love her dearly, but this is why I wouldn't adopt out fosters to people who rented. It's really hard to have to choose between housing and your pet, and I actually have somewhere that I can go, even if it sucks at the time.
Annnd to kind of tie those together, I am SO afraid I'm not going to find anyone to date me because I'm in my mid/late 20s, living at home, and in grad school (ie. poor).
Oh, I know I am an idiot. Hence why I threw myself onto the pyre. I accept my flaming with grace.
I'm sorry you are having an hard time renting! Have you check out craigslist? And I totally hear you! Although my fear is "Oh my god, I am 33 and have 3 dogs. Who the hell is gonna want into this shit show?" You will be FINE, hobs. I promise.
lmfao...I'll see your baggage and raise you a: 34 year old, 2 kids with different dads, twice divorced and my mom lives in my basement!
Oh, I know I am an idiot. Hence why I threw myself onto the pyre. I accept my flaming with grace.
I'm sorry you are having an hard time renting! Have you check out craigslist? And I totally hear you! Although my fear is "Oh my god, I am 33 and have 3 dogs. Who the hell is gonna want into this shit show?" You will be FINE, hobs. I promise.
lmfao...I'll see your baggage and raise you a: 34 year old, 2 kids with different dads, twice divorced and my mom lives in my basement!
As much as I tell myself I wouldn't, if my ex came back and agreed to go to therapy, I'd probably take him back.
My awful one is that I hate living at my parents' house. And I have no choice because no one will rent to me with my dog. I love her dearly, but this is why I wouldn't adopt out fosters to people who rented. It's really hard to have to choose between housing and your pet, and I actually have somewhere that I can go, even if it sucks at the time.
Annnd to kind of tie those together, I am SO afraid I'm not going to find anyone to date me because I'm in my mid/late 20s, living at home, and in grad school (ie. poor).
Oh, I know I am an idiot. Hence why I threw myself onto the pyre. I accept my flaming with grace.
I'm sorry you are having an hard time renting! Have you check out craigslist? And I totally hear you! Although my fear is "Oh my god, I am 33 and have 3 dogs. Who the hell is gonna want into this shit show?" You will be FINE, hobs. I promise.
Oh yeah, I'm really not going to find anywhere. Maryland's high court recently stated that pit bulls are inherently dangerous and even landlords are subject to strict liability. So yeah, until the legislature finds a way to change that, I'm stuck at home. It certainly could be worse, but I really miss my space.
My best is 28 yrs old, a 10m old, a dog, and a brother who lives with me.
Though I will say, it is nice having him live with me. I just really wish someone would ask me out....
My FFFC... I just had to pay $100 for a new car battery. Though I can't really afford it, I am debating driving to the renaissance festival this weekend just so I can get away and spend some time with my best friend. I really need a vacation with the stress of these last 2 weeks.
What about getting an indemnity clause in the lease?
I don't know that it would matter because that's what brought the case to the court to start with. Dog attacked kid, owner/tenant had no money, family tried to sue landlord, landlord had indemnity clause in lease, family appealed and said that shouldn't matter because pit bulls are especially dangerous, court agreed and said all pit bulls are inherently dangerous and anyone that is handling them or has the ability to control their presence at any particular place is liable for any damages.