Someone on my BMB spanked her 5 month old

[lola]

Oct 26, 2013 17:27:23 GMT -5 kooshball said:

Oct 26, 2013 17:16:43 GMT -5 lola said:

But nobody was super duper annoyed until this:

She has a version cry she does only when she's hungry and I would not make her wait because there was still an hour until her next feed. Breastfed babies sometimes eat more often anyway because they digest it faster.

Which seems to say that TCHK knows *exactly* what baby H needs by the tone of her cry. All you moms that hold your screaming baby for an hour after a diaper change, feeding, snuggles, and whatever else makes babies stop crying and none of it worked? Sorry you suck so bad. If only you, like TCHK, knew what your baby wanted by the tone of the cry! Life would be so much easier. 

And plus also throwing in what seems like yet another dig at/against FF moms. "Oh. Well, you probably had it easier with your FF baby because they don't digest as fast a BF babies, so no wonder you weren't stuck feeding every 2/2.5 hours! I wish I had it as easy as you and my baby only needed to feed every 2.5 hours...."

This pisses me off a lot more than anything she said. So basically, no one can post any about themselves and their babies without reading EVERYTHING into it.

I know my babies hungry cry so you dumbasses with the crying babies are idiots!!! (Seriously??? She has been posting for months about her insecurity of feeding/taking care of an infant. I seriously doubt she was really trying to be that much of a douche.)

Oh it was a diss about FF moms because breast milk digests faster! (doesn't though? Is that a problem for FF moms or something? Again, posted for months? about her problems breast feeding/FF so uh, I seriously doubt she was judging FF moms.)

Uh. Ok? 

Just telling ya what I thought did it for me. MY impression of TCHK's superiority isn't confined to this one post. It's a general feel about many of her posts over the past few weeks. 

So with that, I'm outta here because I just don't care enough to fight with you over TCHK since in general, I really like her and think she seems pretty nice. 

[ElizabethBennet]

I am going to laugh and laugh and laugh when shit hits the fan for TCHK.

[Jermys]

The night nurses at our agency stretch out feedings in order to get babies on schedules. Those monsters.

[ElizabethBennet]

Oct 26, 2013 18:05:33 GMT -5 @theycalledherkate said:

Oct 26, 2013 17:59:31 GMT -5 ElizabethBennet said:

I am going to laugh and laugh and laugh when shit hits the fan for TCHK.

Oh don't worry it already has! Revel in the fact that in 4 days I've had a stomach virus and sinus infection and a baby who has been waking up at random several times a night! Wheeeee!

I'm talking about when your kid is screaming because the sky is blue and eating crap off the floor and you don't know what WTF to do because you'll have that realization that you do not, in fact, know everything.

[ElizabethBennet]

Some humility in posting would serve you well.

[iamgrace]

I dont even know why feeding schedules and spanking are being compared in the first place. It's weird.

Anyway!

[gretchenindisguise]

Spanking = bad

Feeding babies = good

End scene.

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Oct 26, 2013 18:53:11 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

I don't even know why infant feeding was brought up in this post.

this is when i say "clap, BAJINGO!" in my head and really miss LTD.  exactamundo.

[Deleted]

Ok everyone 90 % of people are doing there best raising ther kids. Really.

Some other people are wackadoodles who spank a baby or INTENTIONALLY don't feed there kid when hungry ( & I'm not talking about spacing feedings, I'm talking about being a crackhead who does crack & doesn't feed there kid.) Doing a modifyed Babywiise is not being EVEN CLOSE to these things ( & no one said it was!)

Kate is walking a rough rode EPing. I think we can understand if her tone isn't perfect at all times. We've all been there, we've all had less than stellar moments as posters & parents. We are all just fucking trying here.

Cum Bay Fucking Yay People. ' Kay

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Oct 26, 2013 19:23:13 GMT -5 RexManningDay said:

I hate the phrasing of babies "feeding." "She needs to feed." "Oh, he just fed thirty minutes ago."

Like vampires.

Or zombies.

Sometimes that's how I feel like they are. Little adorable zombie vamps. I had the PPD pretty bad but I remember staring at DS asleep one night & being afraid he would bite me. My FFed newborn was somehow going to bite me? 

Adorable little scary as fuck love bugs. Seriously. 

[gretchenindisguise]

Oct 26, 2013 19:23:13 GMT -5 RexManningDay said:

I hate the phrasing of babies "feeding." "She needs to feed." "Oh, he just fed thirty minutes ago."

Like vampires.

Or zombies.

We also put them down for the night.

[iamgrace]

Oct 26, 2013 19:23:13 GMT -5 RexManningDay said:

I hate the phrasing of babies "feeding." "She needs to feed." "Oh, he just fed thirty minutes ago."

Like vampires.

Or zombies.

Parasites. 

[noodleskooze]

Oct 26, 2013 19:35:58 GMT -5 @tambcat said:

H and I used to always say "zombie baby must feed."

Actually, we just said it the other night. She was about to have a meltdown waiting for dinner, and came at me making the "eat" sign and doing the zombie shuffle. It was a little scary. lol

This made me lol for real.

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Oct 26, 2013 20:03:58 GMT -5 @cse1960 said:

Oct 26, 2013 19:23:13 GMT -5 RexManningDay said:

I hate the phrasing of babies "feeding." "She needs to feed." "Oh, he just fed thirty minutes ago."

Like vampires.

Or zombies.

OH I KNOW. My MIL always says she has to 'feed George' (her dh) and it just makes me flinch. 

I just pictured your MIL in her fuzzy PJs BFing her H. Must scrub brain.... OMG. 

[spellingbea]

It was a clumsy comparison, but I didn't read it as scheduled feeding=abuse. I FF and am no cry interpreter, but I did not sense any judgment on TCHK's part.

I've never said dumber, more insufferable shit than since I've had a baby, and so far it has all come back to bite me in the ass, lol. This didn't even ping my radar.

[gmail]

Oct 27, 2013 8:51:00 GMT -5 spellingbea said:

It was a clumsy comparison, but I didn't read it as scheduled feeding=abuse. I FF and am no cry interpreter, but I did not sense any judgment on TCHK's part.

I've never said dumber, more insufferable shit than since I've had a baby, and so far it has all come back to bite me in the ass, lol. This didn't even ping my radar.

I'm sorry, I couldn't hear what you were saying over the WRIST CHUB in your picture.

Because, really...WRIST CHUB. OMG.

[spellingbea]

Oct 28, 2013 10:45:09 GMT -5 gmail said:

Oct 27, 2013 8:51:00 GMT -5 spellingbea said:

It was a clumsy comparison, but I didn't read it as scheduled feeding=abuse. I FF and am no cry interpreter, but I did not sense any judgment on TCHK's part.

I've never said dumber, more insufferable shit than since I've had a baby, and so far it has all come back to bite me in the ass, lol. This didn't even ping my radar.

I'm sorry, I couldn't hear what you were saying over the WRIST CHUB in your picture.

Because, really...WRIST CHUB. OMG.

Lol, baby chub is the greatest. Certainly superior to my regular chub.