I don't care about regular pictures. Like I know DH has an old prom picture in a drawer. But naked/dirty pictures? I'd probably be bothered if he still had those. I don't know that I'd "make" him get rid of them, but i'd ask him how he felt if I had naked pictures of an ex hanging around. I know he wouldn't like it.
Post by cinnamoncox on Mar 6, 2014 15:26:52 GMT -5
Yes it would bother me very much. If they were in a box in his parents attic and he forgot about them that'd be one thing, I'd just laugh (as he threw them away lol). But if he knew about them and was actually keeping them? Fuck that, I'd be wicked pissed.
Funny side note and lesson learned (for me): About 8 or so years ago, maybe longer, I had my H's phone and was looking at his pics (of us and our one child at the time) and I saw a pic of a close up of boobies, like shirt pulled down and the edges were showing but the pic was zoomed in on these really obvious boobs right. So of course I freaked out immediately, then after staring at them fuming, I realized they were my boobs :/
Funny to me after the fact but boy I wa really beside myself for the five or so minutes it took me to realize.
Yes, that would really bother me. I think he would get rid of them if I asked him to. We've moved several times together though. Id on't think he has any.
I'll add that if MH had pictures of his ex before me they would probably be classified as child porn because she was 16 when they dated. So was he.
Weird question - If 16 y/o boy has naked pictures of his 16 y/o girlfriend, would he suffer the consequences of having child pornography in his possession?
I'll add that if MH had pictures of his ex before me they would probably be classified as child porn because she was 16 when they dated. So was he.
Weird question - If 16 y/o boy has naked pictures of his 16 y/o girlfriend, would he suffer the consequences of having child pornography in his possession?
Post by thatgirl2478 on Mar 6, 2014 15:41:55 GMT -5
yes, it would bother me. especially considering the last person he had sex with before me (MAAAANY months before he met me) was described as having 'pretty eyes'... meaning that's all he could compliment her on... and before that it was some random girl he lived with who kept switching teams.
When H moved in with me and we were reorganizing stuff, we came across a batch of pictures he had taken on a boys' trip to Mardi Gras years earlier. Only about half of those pictures still exist.
That being said, DH married his high school girlfriend. If he had pix from girlfriends before her, that would be gross. If he had pictures of her (on purpose, not that were in a box and he forgot they were there or something) I would do some serious cussing. We see her whenever we exchange the kids.