I just downloaded a kindle book about compulsive eating and binge eating. I have a problem. I will do REALLY well and then I have a rough day and the only thing in my head that says it will make it better is food. I realized the other night that it is an actual problem when my mom said she was coming over in a couple minutes to drop something off and I rushed around to throw away all the evidence of what I'd eaten.
You're not alone. Lots of hugs. Pm if you ever want to talk.
I just got back from a third date (brunch) with old high school crush. Things are going really well with him. It's really cool. I'm happy about it and it's the first time I've felt confident about someone since I started dating about 6 months ago.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Also I'm researching dog steps for my bed. My dog doesn't have any trouble getting on the bed, but he's 9, so why make it harder for him than it needs to be, KWIM?
Can you let me know if you like the ones you end up getting? I'm thinking of getting some for my pup but reviews are so mixed.
After my marathon week of dating I don't think anything is going to pan out. I really really liked the teacher and I thought we clicked but then ghosted. Oh well it happens. Just like damn! I liked that one hahaha.
Your boyfriend has another girlfriend? Not being snarky, just genuinely curious.
Yeah. . We are poly. It's been an open relationship since it started, almost a year ago.
Can I be super nosy? Do you consider yourself to be in a relationship with her as well, or are you in a relationship with him and she's in a separate relationship with him?
Yeah. . We are poly. It's been an open relationship since it started, almost a year ago.
Can I be super nosy? Do you consider yourself to be in a relationship with her as well, or are you in a relationship with him and she's in a separate relationship with him?
Sure, you can ask whatever you want!
I wouldn't introduce her as my girlfriend, or anything like that. I do take her feelings into consideration and I love her, but we aren't dating (mostly because at the moment she lives in another city, although she is looking for a job here). If she moved here and it felt natural, I would consider having a relationship with her as well, but we'd need time away from BF alone to figure that out. Any time I spend with her now is time as the three of us, and it's hard to get to know someone (for me) in that kind of situation.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Can I be super nosy? Do you consider yourself to be in a relationship with her as well, or are you in a relationship with him and she's in a separate relationship with him?
Sure, you can ask whatever you want!
I wouldn't introduce her as my girlfriend, or anything like that. I do take her feelings into consideration and I love her, but we aren't dating (mostly because at the moment she lives in another city, although she is looking for a job here). If she moved here and it felt natural, I would consider having a relationship with her as well, but we'd need time away from BF alone to figure that out. Any time I spend with her now is time as the three of us, and it's hard to get to know someone (for me) in that kind of situation.
I was curious as to jellymankelly's question as well. I remember you said your relationship was open, but I guess I thought that meant you saw other people..(separately?). Sorry if it seems nosey(or dumb) but do you see other guys as well? And if so, is bf involved? You're not jealous of her being with him when you're not?
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Mar 16, 2014 20:27:38 GMT -5
Mostly we pursue different, separate relationships. But, it's really important to both of us that everyone get along if that's possible. I deal with jealousy like everyone else does, but it's much easier for me to be sympathetic to what another girlfriend needs from him if I know and like her. I get jealous about not getting a lot of attention or time sometimes, but I'm also pretty easily smothered in any relationship so for the most part the space actually works for me.
That said, we've talked about having a "triad" situation, which would basically be a relationship between three people instead of two, and if it worked out that way, I'm open to that, but it would require a lot of work, and I'm not interested in a long-distance relationship right now.
I have had two other relationships since I've been in this one - both of which fizzled out after a couple of months. The first relationship, BF met the guy, and actually dated the guy's girlfriend for a little while. (Yes, I know it sounds complicated). I broke things off in that relationship because the guy was a little too intense for me. The second relationship I had, BF didn't meet the guy, just because it was more casual and there wasn't a lot of time/opportunity.
Currently, I am open to dating other people, and have had one or two dates with other guys since all of that, but haven't met any other people I like a whole lot. BF only is dating me and the girl in another city right now, and is pretty "full." For now. If he decides to date more in the future, I'm okay with that.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Long story short, I just saw something online exSO related. I wasn't digging, it was just there. And it's crushing. I'm so sick of being hung up on this undeserving person.
All kinds! I am freezing spinach + 2 fruits ... mixing banana, strawberry, pineapple, mango, and blueberries. Then I add either almond milk or non fat greek yogurt + flax seed + acai powder (just bought this).
It's makes breakfast take about 2 minutes, to throw in the blender and go. No excuses! I love it.
Talk to me like I'm 4...you freeze the spinach/fruit in a baggie(?) and then toss in the other stuff in the morning?
I had a really long, exhausting day. J and I fought until we both cried and it was awful. I hated it so much. We never fought or argued our entire relationship and it was cold and mean.
I went shopping with my BFF for apartment essentials like a trash can and toilet brush. I also got the keys today. I'm just so ready to start moving stuff over.
S had her first baby play date today and it was so cute. Her and Izzy got along so well and they hugged and kissed each other! So cute.
I'm having a tough time dealing with all if these changes. I guess I haven't been dealing with everything at all bc I'm awesome at avoidance, but yesterday it hit me hard and I literally was so depressed I couldn't get out of bed for a while.
Talk to me like I'm 4...you freeze the spinach/fruit in a baggie(?) and then toss in the other stuff in the morning?
Yes!! I freeze the individual smoothie portions in a small Baggie - so I grab one bag that has three items in it (spinach and two fruits) and I throw it in the blender. You don't need ice this way. Then add yogurt or almond milk or water, whatever. And blend!
Post by verycontrary247 on Mar 16, 2014 23:07:12 GMT -5
I got my gnome tattoo finally tonight.
This week I'm committing to not eating out/picking up Starbucks at all. My costs in that department are astronomical right now. It's embarrassing.
I'm also going to start 30 day shred. I've been feeling mopey and fat these past few weeks and I know it's because I've been eating awfully and haven't been as active. Time to get off my butt!
I'm having a St. Paddy's Day party tomorrow night and I'm so excited. Green everything including brownies with Andes mints. Who says it can't be fun even when it's on a Monday?
Post by camelblossom on Mar 16, 2014 23:50:41 GMT -5
After using frozen fruit, I will never understand why people would want ice in their smoothies. I recently broke my Ninja blender and I am devastated. My housewarming gift to myself is going to be a nutribullet I think.
I never ordered a copy of DS' birth certificate after he was born, and didn't notice until now when the state preschool is asking for it. Oops.
This week I'm committing to not eating out/picking up Starbucks at all. My costs in that department are astronomical right now. It's embarrassing.
I'm also going to start 30 day shred. I've been feeling mopey and fat these past few weeks and I know it's because I've been eating awfully and haven't been as active. Time to get off my butt!
This week I'm committing to not eating out/picking up Starbucks at all. My costs in that department are astronomical right now. It's embarrassing.
I'm also going to start 30 day shred. I've been feeling mopey and fat these past few weeks and I know it's because I've been eating awfully and haven't been as active. Time to get off my butt!