Post by starrieskies on Apr 1, 2014 10:21:24 GMT -5
I made an appointment to get DS registered for kindergarten yesterday. OMG!
I need a vacation like Whoa! I just want to escape to somewhere sunny and warm for a few days and turn off my cell phone. There's been a lot of family drama the last few days and I'm so over it!
DS #2 said "you da best Mom" this morning when I told him he could go with me to buy juice later.
DD left an "I love you" note in my work bag.
I looked up my dream, I need to find a better dream dictionary but it all was pretty positive. At least according to the one dictionary, I am embracing more of my personality but I need to drop my guard with regard to a person. The shower thing may mean I am feeling exposed or like my privacy is being invaded.
partiallysunny you can tell him the entire internet thinks he's wrong about those shelves. And that all your Internet friends think he's wrong for not trying the new ADs. What is it with these men and their denial?
Stbx and I talked last night over chat, initiated by him, re:our taxes. We're getting back nearly double what he originally thought, so we'll just split it in half. There ended up being some conversation about future contact and it felt really good to tell him that I have no desire to have contact with him once the divorce is over except for returning his half of the security deposit on this apartment. I think he was hoping we could be friends/maintain some contact. His bucket of denial is pretty small compared to others' stbxhs though.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 1, 2014 10:50:01 GMT -5
I wish I could tell my stbx that I never want to talk to him again... I really am happier the less contact I have with him and his ridiculousness...
He has great plans to sign DS up for wrestling, football, soccer, and t-ball this year. But tells me that since I am taking so much of HIS money in child support, he won't be able to help me out with the cost associated with all of these sporting activities, nor will he be the one carting DS around to any of these events (unless they fall on one of his days, of course). I want DS to be involved in these things as well, but only if he wants to, and he hasn't really shown much interest in anything except swimming. I hate that stbx seems to be projecting his wants onto DS already...
TONIGHT WHEN I GO TO SLEEP I WILL BE SNUGGLING THE TITLE OF MY HONDA S2000!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That did need to be shouted.
cuddlyevil - official dream analysis: you would like to explore the idea of furries. You want furry sex. YWIA.
Yeah. No. Besides the guy wasn't even in a furry kitty costume, it was a full bodysuit thing and was blue--didn't really even look like a cat except for the ears.
It is infuriating... the only thing DS has specifically asked to do is swimming lessons, but that's the one thing stbx would throw a fit about.. Dammit, just let the kid do what HE wants to do!
H said "all your friends on FB are jerks" and then threatened to show you all pictures of what it looked like before.
You could tell him we all think they should just go in DVD wallets instead, so he should stfu and be glad you're willing to consider the cabinet option.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 1, 2014 16:23:34 GMT -5
I went to Barnes & Noble on my lunch break today and spent so much time looking around that I didn't have time to eat... I could spend DAYS in there, I swear! But now I'm hungry.