Yay! I'm in such a good mood. I woke up on my own at 5:30 after a good night's sleep and did my walk/run with the pups. It was so nice this morning and quiet - I had forgotten what morning runs are like. It has put me in such a good mood.
It's a gorgeous day today! I think I want to grill tonight. I'm hoping that if I make one of our summer meals, it will just invite spring to officially come. It will work, right?
It's a gorgeous day today! I think I want to grill tonight. I'm hoping that if I make one of our summer meals, it will just invite spring to officially come. It will work, right?
My dad is taking me to the secret DMV for state employees so I don't have to wait in line. I think he's doing it so he can drive my car though but it is worth it because the DMV is a PITA.
Unrelated, but match keeps sending me emails even though I suspended my profile and I looked at one this morning. One of my mutual matches is a guy from work who I think is really cute (mr. Peacoat and glasses). So weird!
Coffee really is needed for me to poop on a regular schedule. I drank some this morning and by my 30 minutes commute I needed to poop unlike Tuesday where I didnt drink any and therefore didnt poop ALL day long so I felt bloated, gross and had serious cramps. TMI people TMI sorry!
My dad is taking me to the secret DMV for state employees so I don't have to wait in line. I think he's doing it so he can drive my car though but it is worth it because the DMV is a PITA.
Coffee really is needed for me to poop on a regular schedule. I drank some this morning and by my 30 minutes commute I needed to poop unlike Tuesday where I didnt drink any and therefore didnt poop ALL day long so I felt bloated, gross and had serious cramps. TMI people TMI sorry!
Post by starrieskies on Apr 3, 2014 11:10:53 GMT -5
stbx decided to get into it last night about the evaluations that he still hasn't done. I don't know what he thinks he's going to gain by having this (one sided) conversation over and over again. And he says that he hasn't done them yet because he's been working as much OT as he can get because he can't live off of the money that is left after CS.
Then I get home and dirty dream guy starts messaging me... I don't know what to think about this, and I'm not sure how I feel about it either. I kept it very casual, and he kept on trying to steer it in another direction.
My mom and I got into it again this morning. DS told her not to do something and I told him that he was being rude and if he wanted people to listen to him he needed to use nicer words. So, he took a deep breath, changed his tone and used his please and thank you's and she cut him off and yelled at him and basically told him "It's my house, I'll do what I want." I get that it IS her house, but come on. He was trying to do what I suggested and did it the right way...
So because of that, DS had a melt down. I got him to daycare and he wouldn't let me go, like literally latched onto my leg and sat on my foot. I finally got out of there and was late to work.
Almost immediately after sitting at my desk, my cell phone rings. Its the mortgage company. stbx hasn't paid the mortgage since the last payment that I made in September and they're going to foreclose. Awesome. I told them that stbx and I are in the process of getting a divorce and that he has been awarded the house so anything that has to do with the mortgage needs to be discussed with him because I don't know what his plans are. The gal was really nice about it and offered to remove my number, but I'm annoyed that he's not dealing with this shit on his own. Not surprised, but annoyed.
There's more family drama too, but this has already turned into a novel.
Long story short, I just want to pack a bag for myself and DS and run away.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 3, 2014 11:19:43 GMT -5
I just need a few days with no drama. I think I'm going to take myself to get a pedicure after work today just so I can sit in the chair and get a massage... I'm ridiculously tense today.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 3, 2014 11:42:36 GMT -5
Luckily, my mom is going OOT for at least a week starting Saturday morning. So I'll get a little bit of a break on that front. I think we'll probably stay home for the weekend, but we'll spend a lot of time out doing things. Maybe a day trip or two.
This weekend is also the Les Mis concert that I was invited to. I still haven't decided if I want to go...
starrieskies, whoa. That is a LONG time to go without paying the mortgage. He is a lying liar....the mortgage is the biggest chunk of your paycheck! Where is he spending all his money?
Yeah, get out this weekend and get some fresh air and a change of pace. I got tired just reading that.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 3, 2014 12:02:21 GMT -5
Yeah, he also tried to tell me last night that since CS has started coming out (2 whole months ago), his paychecks are now $600 less per pay period so he can't afford anything... Umm... that's more than the entire month of CS per paycheck... and he's on a bi monthly pay period so I don't buy that for a second. Especially after he'd just brought out the two new guns that he'd bought last week to show me. He must really think I'm stupid.
Did I mention to you guys that I installed a model apartment last week. I think I did. It's part of all the renovations we are doing at a property. Well I got a call this week that someone snuck in and had their way with the master bedroom. Getting make up among other things on the linens. They want me to replace them. Who does that!? So icky.
partiallysunny, in Utah there is a DMV station that will only do specialty things (I'm not entirely sure what..) But they will do regular things for state employees so there is usually only one person in front of you if it is a busy day. It is really convenient.
starrieskies, where is all his money going if he isn't paying anything? WTF?!? He is so consistent in his really high level of stupid.