Can I complain here?

[Odonata]

Because I think I need to suck it up and need to complain somewhere.

I'm so tired tonight because I was up since 4 am and today was a long ass day. Also I'm feeling nauseous again (booo) so I just want to lay here and call asleep soon. I truly feel like shit tonight.

H had this old work friend whose husband does our taxes. When we dropped the of the papers at their house the other day we stayed and chatted for about 4 hours. These people are retired and enjoy the company and to catch up.

He just told me they will be here at 8:30 to drop off the tax docs. I cannot entertain right now. One: i have no food in the house, no coffee, just water and milk to drink. And I feel like I might die. I want to tell him to tell them I'm ill and can't join them downstairs but I feel rude doing that.

Ug. I don't know what to do. I just showered and just want to sleep. And I can't believe I feel like puking again. I can't make small talk for hours. And H is on spring break where I have to work tomorrow.

[hillarywhitney]

((hugs))

I'd have your husband tell them you are not feeling well and went to bed early. If they know you are pregnant, they will understand. And if they don't know, I'm sure they will understand as well. I don't think it's rude.

[Odonata]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. The thought of putting a bra back on just put me over the edge.

[hillarywhitney]

Apr 14, 2014 19:17:45 GMT -5 Odonata said:

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. The thought of putting a bra back on just put me over the edge.

I vote you give yourself permission to stay in your room and not visit tonight. Take care of yourself! 

[Odonata]

That's the plan. But I really think I'm going to puke. We have a small house. I don't want them to hear me puking up here!

[hillarywhitney]

Can your husband tell them he isn't able to visit much tonight, but would like to schedule another time to see them?

[Odonata]

Probably but he tells me this last second so they are probably on their way. I'm just going to lay up here. They're is a nice strong breeze outside so I'm laying neae an open window listening to the trees now and my cat purr. It's making my stomach feel better.

[hillarywhitney]

I hope they don't stay long and that you are able to rest/feel better.

[Odonata]

Thanks!

[starfish79]

I do this all the time. DH has clients over at the house in the evenings to drop things off, meetings,etc. and though we're friends w many of them, he just tells them I've gone to bed or have retired for the evening and I shut myself in the back of the house when I don't feel chatty or am tired... and I do that when I'm not pregnant. It's not a big deal. Don't be overly hard on yourself!

Take good care!

[flamingeaux]

You could turn the shower on if you have enough prepuke notice.

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