On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
I wasn't sure if she met her parents or her ILs with that. Though I guess ILs make no such promises.
Yeah I assumed this was her IL's. I assumed they cut her off because they realized she's crazy.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
I agree with you.
Also, it sounds to me like ex-H "moved on" from the mistress and wanted to stay with Megan. However, she decided to divorce him because she wouldn't settle for being second best and he was still wrapped up in the fantasy of the other woman. This is why IL's aren't there for her. They wanted her to stay married to their son and pretend nothing happened. Am I reading too much into this?
That entire letter reads like a terrible LSAT logic problem. No wonder I didn't score very well on that test (neither did she, I guess. #cooley)
This woman is batshit crazy.
I do feel bad her ex cheated on her. NO ONE deserves that. However, the other woman did not deserve this guilt trip letter on her wedding day to someone else. Her STBXH is the ONLY person who deserves a guilt riddled letter from her. This letter just proves she has NOT forgiven and is NOT over it.
Post by Velvetshady on Sept 1, 2016 14:03:09 GMT -5
Either Megan Heimer has 16 children she "cares" for or she still hasn't learned how to write a coherent sentence.
Megan Heimer is a quack.
"Dr." Megan Heimer is neither a doctor nor an attorney
Megan Heimer spreads misinformation and compromises public health.
And for added fun: The rapist Brock Allen Turner did not get sentence he deserved and Judge Aaron Perskey of Santa Clara County goes easy when sentencing convicted rapists as long as they are winning athletes.
On a day that was supposed to be filled with celebration, I was met with disgust and disappointment, because I wasn’t you and I was cut off by the people who promised to love me as a daughter because I wouldn’t accept the way I was being treated and wouldn’t settle for being second…to you. When you decided to move on, I was still no match for the fantasy that was left behind.
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
I also thought this was referring to the day her son was born. However I thought it meant her parents did not support her decision to get a divorce so they were not there to share in the joy of the new baby.
I also got hung up on the phone call. That was the first time you tried to call and he did not answer? You immediately go to cheating from there?
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
I also thought this was referring to the day her son was born. However I thought it meant her parents did not support her decision to get a divorce so they were not there to share in the joy of the new baby.
I also got hung up on the phone call. That was the first time you tried to call and he did not answer? You immediately go to cheating from there?
Yeah, methinks your marriage was not so rosy if that is where your mind first went.
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
I also got hung up on the phone call. That was the first time you tried to call and he did not answer? You immediately go to cheating from there?
My thought is that that's when her gut instinct had proof to back it up. No way she went from everything is fine to he is cheating. But I could see her having a feeling things weren't right before he left and when he didn't answer 'knowing'.
I can also see this being a total lie and they were separated when this happened.
That entire letter reads like a terrible LSAT logic problem. No wonder I didn't score very well on that test (neither did she, I guess. #cooley)
This woman is batshit crazy.
I do feel bad her ex cheated on her. NO ONE deserves that. However, the other woman did not deserve this guilt trip letter on her wedding day to someone else. Her STBXH is the ONLY person who deserves a guilt riddled letter from her. This letter just proves she has NOT forgiven and is NOT over it.
Plus, I had the most laid back wedding day on the face of the earth (and it was before the days of internet blogging but that's beside the point) and I would not have been trolling my ex-bf's ex'w's blog on that day.
I also got hung up on the phone call. That was the first time you tried to call and he did not answer? You immediately go to cheating from there?
My thought is that that's when her gut instinct had proof to back it up. No way she went from everything is fine to he is cheating. But I could see her having a feeling things weren't right before he left and when he didn't answer 'knowing'.
I can also see this being a total lie and they were separated when this happened.
Yeah, again, I'm pretty laid back, but if my h didn't answer his phone I would think "dead in a car crash" before "affair." All other things being equal. But actually, because, unlike Dr. Megan Heimer, Esq., who spreads misinformation and compromises public health, I would actually think, "busy."
Wait she had a c section without pain medication? And then went to the store?
Yes this is the detail I got hung up on.
I'm hung up on something even more trivial. The very first time EVAR that she called and he didn't answer, she "just knew"? The pulling his hand away from her in church is kind of damning, but she must have suspected he was up to no good way before that. I don't wish divorce or infidelity on anyone, but it must be hard being married to someone whose high horse is so much higher than everyone else's.
Seriously! You've been together for many years and he has never ever once not picked up? Really?
I'm hung up on something even more trivial. The very first time EVAR that she called and he didn't answer, she "just knew"? The pulling his hand away from her in church is kind of damning, but she must have suspected he was up to no good way before that. I don't wish divorce or infidelity on anyone, but it must be hard being married to someone whose high horse is so much higher than everyone else's.
Seriously! You've been together for many years and he has never ever once not picked up? Really?
Especially considering his occupation. He isn't sitting at a desk all day FFS.
Post by mrsukyankee on Sept 1, 2016 15:23:11 GMT -5
Megan Heimer who spreads misinformation seems confused and is confusing. I'm sad for her that her ExH is a cheater, but I also think she's insane so not sure we're getting even close to the real story.
maybe this is one of the reasons why God insists that adultery be viewed as a capital felony (one having the maximum penalty being death). Apart from a miraculous and gracious intervention, the cancer tends to spread.
Pretty sure she is referring to the day her son was born, not her wedding day, and that she means her in-laws.
Further proof that Megan Heimer should not be adding MFA to her fake credentials.
I agree with you.
Also, it sounds to me like ex-H "moved on" from the mistress and wanted to stay with Megan. However, she decided to divorce him because she wouldn't settle for being second best and he was still wrapped up in the fantasy of the other woman. This is why IL's aren't there for her. They wanted her to stay married to their son and pretend nothing happened. Am I reading too much into this?
I don't think her husband wanted her back. I think he was all for the separation and divorce once it was on the table.
He was "caught up in the fantasy" of having a mistress and not the reality of a relationship with her; the fantasy of secret meetings and lingerie palls after toothpaste wars and belches and farts.
I think the "love me as a daughter" promise quote reference HIS parents, who promised to treat her as a daughter when she married her husband, but once he wanted the divorce (or she did) she was no longer his wife and their support was for him ("whatever he wants" is what my formerly supportive MIL said when XH and I were divorcing and I was aggravated about his non-support where the kids were concerned) and therefore they weren't supporting her in the manner in which she would like to be accustomed (hell, maybe SHE wanted to stay married to doctor husband and he didn't want her loony-toons antics which is why he had an affair in the first place. Affairs are often about escapism from the "real" world.)
I'm going back to simpler BS blogs like The Art of Making a Baby. Megan Heimer who spreads misinformation is too complicated to keep straight.
She just got a divorce too. Sorry to burst your bubble, lol.
Oh I know! But at least her BS is mostly trying to make her life look more glamorous and easy to follow, if not actually true. I can't make heads or tails of what is actually true about Megan Heimer who spreads misinformation, if anything. lol
Raised like 16 children Stayed at home full time Prayed for 6 hours Ran 5 miles Ran a full time business and Dug wells in Africa
I have her beat! According to this logic,
Today, I raised 45 children (the number I taught plus the number I said "hi" to in the hallway) Stayed at home full time (because I have been here for at least 8 hours) Drove for 6 hours (even though it was only 40 minutes, with traffic, it COULD Have been 6 hours) Ran 5 miles (because I walked a lot around my building today and it was really fast) Ran a full time business by working at my job at least 7 hours and Dug wells in Africa (because I suggested Malawi as a paper topic for a student, and raising awareness helps promote social justice, apparently)
I also: Butchered a cow (made meatloaf) Reared a vegetable garden (chopped and cooked mashed potatoes, spinach, and tomatoes) Helped solve the oil crisis (bought gas) Promoted world peace (mediated an incredibly minor conflict between grad students) Contributed to the decrease in world-wide homophobia (told a gay student from a different part of the state that I liked his new haircut) Saved the bees (ate a locally cultivated piece of fruit) and Instituted new and amazing technological advances (showed my colleague how to send a document to the printer down the hall.)
Post by Velvetshady on Sept 1, 2016 19:29:13 GMT -5
All-in-all, I just hope her ex takes those 16-ish kids to get vaccinated on his "visitation days". Yup, I said it.
Megan Heimer is a quack.
"Dr." Megan Heimer is neither a doctor nor an attorney
Megan Heimer spreads misinformation and compromises public health.
And because this just can be said too many times: The rapist Brock Allen Turner did not get sentence he deserved and Judge Aaron Perskey of Santa Clara County goes easy when sentencing convicted rapists as long as they are winning athletes.
Post by miniroller on Sept 1, 2016 19:33:45 GMT -5
5thofjuly It's like you're pointing to your pupils, then to "Dr." Megan Heimer's pupils. (Referring to the center of your eyeballs, not the multiple people who must be learning from you daily.) You Get Her, man.
5thofjuly It's like you're pointing to your pupils, then to "Dr." Megan Heimer's pupils. (Referring to the center of your eyeballs, not the multiple people who must be learning from you daily.) You Get Her, man.
You have no idea.
Points to you...points to me....points to you.
Except that I'm better in every possible way. I squat more/adopted more not-actually-twins/caught a bigger fish/scored higher on every standardized test/was better at woo/went to an even faker law school.