Also, if her husband is a doctor, why isn't he paying child support? He's already marrying the side-piece? Surely he's been seeing that woman for longer than the couple of months between her finding out and the divorce.
No if you read closely it seems side piece ditched Dr. Deadbeat and is marrying someone else, presumably with less baggage.
And what a sad letter. I cannot imagine going through a breakup while pregnant, crazy heifer or no. And then bringing home her other children at the same time.
Obviously Heimer has lied in the past but if half of this is true her Ex is a steaming pile of horse manure.
Well, water seeks its own level. I guess I never really assumed he was a catch.
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"I had a massage today. (Whoop Whoop!) She said my muscles were the tightest she had ever worked on. It's called the weight of the world on your shoulders me lovely. Then she said I should take a hot bath every night. Then I laughed. š"
Itās been a few years but I decided to check up on Megan. Sheās still spreading miss-information and...
Apparently she adopted 2 kids from the DRC, decided she couldnāt raise them anymore and re-homed them. The re-home family could no longer raise them and now theyāre in foster care. Megan wants the kids back and started a Go Fund me for $60k to pay for her legal bills (and she still hasnāt taken the bar). Iām at a loss for words....heartbroken for those children and furious at Megan doesnāt even justify how Iām feeling. Long read but so many ridiculous details.
Itās been a few years but I decided to check up on Megan. Sheās still spreading miss-information and...
Apparently she adopted 2 kids from the DRC, decided she couldnāt raise them anymore and re-homed them. The re-home family could no longer raise them and now theyāre in foster care. Megan wants the kids back and started a Go Fund me for $60k to pay for her legal bills (and she still hasnāt taken the bar). Iām at a loss for words....heartbroken for those children and furious at Megan doesnāt even justify how Iām feeling. Long read but so many ridiculous details.
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I know nothing about this woman ( other than she is a piece of work just based on that linked post) , but holy shit those poor children.
I hope DCF finds an amazing home for them and they are adopted into a family that will give them the love they deserve. And that she and her Christian engineer husband stay far away from them.
Itās as sketchy and disgusting as you imagine. Terrifyingly Common amongst religious ārescue the orphanā adopters who donāt do the work to know what they are doing and to understand the needs of the child(ren). They bring these poor kids home and expect them to adjust overnight to a new country/language/culture and when they donāt the parents are over it so find some random family to take them.
I would love to read the perspective of her ex, the GAL, the family that she āre-homedā to, etc. I wonder what they have to say about Megan.
And of the DFS case workers. You abandoned the children for 9 months, what did you think would happen?
She is crazy.
Is the adopting thing a status symbol to show how better and more Christian a family is?
Also she keeps talking about all the resources she should be getting and never got which is most likely a lie. But also she sounds jealous of the other family because they will get the resources like she was just in it for the money. Also how is it thousands of dollars a month on their care in their home country?
I donāt know about you all, but when it takes me 15,000 words and at least three conspiracy theories to explain my side of things, I always sound super legit and believable and totally normal! So normal, in fact, that strangers should give me $60,000!
Post by debatethis on Mar 13, 2019 22:30:52 GMT -5
Gee maybe feeding your traumatized children who were adopted that you had no business adopting and then feeding them a raw vegan diet WASNT a good idea? YA THINK?? I'm team CPS and ex-husband on this one. She's psychotic.
I don't know why I just wasted 15 minutes of my life reading that crap, but I did. I don't believe a word of it. there's something very wrong with this woman.
I don't know why I just wasted 15 minutes of my life reading that crap, but I did. I don't believe a word of it. there's something very wrong with this woman.
Right this story is so bananas. Is any of it even true? She supports herself entirely from her blog now it sounds like so the clicks are revenue.
Post by phunluvin82 on Mar 13, 2019 23:53:53 GMT -5
It's really remarkable how much martyrdom and white savior-dom she manages to pack into every paragraph. For like twenty straight paragraphs. If her bullshit was only impacting herself, it'd be almost entertaining. But there are 5 kids in the mix. Fucking hell.
Ugh, I was excited when I saw this pop up, but I'm heartbroken for these poor children. I won't click on her blog- what you guys posted is enough to know she's even more awful and ungodly than I remember.
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As an adoptive mom, I'm especially horrified at the idea of rehoming. It's been a really long and rough road with DD1, but she is my daughter. Full stop, end of story. We are a forever family. She's an amazing blessing and I know that I was always meant to be her mom.
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I found an interesting site while looking for an update on those poor babies. It has a pretty good summary of both of her blog posts so you donāt have to give her clicks. Plus, this thread is mentioned at the end. www.whatistheharm.com/blog/the-harm-of-megan-heimerredshaw
Gee maybe feeding your traumatized children who were adopted that you had no business adopting and then feeding them a raw vegan diet WASNT a good idea? YA THINK?? I'm team CPS and ex-husband on this one. She's psychotic.
But she learned their native language! And made their favorite foods! And literally didn't leave the house for four months except a few paragraphs later she said they went for therapy several hours a week.... And she said the daughter had RAD from being yanked from her home and being placed with strangers in another country, then later you just dump her on MORE people who are strangers to her. I wonder how long before her good Christian engineer sees that he's on the crazy train and divorces her, too.
I found an interesting site while looking for an update on those poor babies. It has a pretty good summary of both of her blog posts so you donāt have to give her clicks. Plus, this thread is mentioned at the end. www.whatistheharm.com/blog/the-harm-of-megan-heimerredshaw
This is the best way to summarize Megan's posts:
"These posts are in fact so little about these two children that I still have no idea what fatal fate they faced in their home country should they had been forced to stay there. Instead, I hear all about how Megan saved them, it's about her heroic deeds, her martyrdom, it's not about the children or any troubles they faced."
I would love to hear this story from the perspective of anyone mentioned in Megan's posts--the GAL, her husband, the kids, the foster parents, etc.
I found an interesting site while looking for an update on those poor babies. It has a pretty good summary of both of her blog posts so you donāt have to give her clicks. Plus, this thread is mentioned at the end. www.whatistheharm.com/blog/the-harm-of-megan-heimerredshaw
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Holy fuck. I got really excited to see this pop up again because I love watching her mess of a life, but this is not exciting. This is disgusting and horrible. I sincerely hope those poor children get placed with someone else and that they are able to forget any of this ever happened. Megan Heimer Redshaw who spreads misinformation and lies is a shit excuse for a human being.