I cannot believe that after all that has been revealed, that a woman with dark hair at a gas station is causing doubt.
It's not causing any doubt (for me, anyway). I'm more just like wtf at the whole exchange. It shouldn't surprise me that jlm had inflated confidence; she just seems so sure about it, despite the fact that she knows she looks nothing like Jen.
I know homegirl isn't sane & nothing should surprise me. It's just another "whoa" thing for me, how far she was willing to take it.
Right. But RL's sister said she saw a "dark haired" woman while pumping gas.
DUDE. Don't you know the game? Bait people into revealing all the details themselves.
:-(
My H is forever telling me I'm the least-slick person alive. I'm the one who's all, "Where?!?!" when he tells me to play it cool & look over at someone.
jlm: "It's crazy how many people on the board are local. It makes me wonder about all the crazy lurkers and whether or not we have interacted with another nestie without knowing it.
And later:
jlm: "There's no way that I would ever be able to approach a nestie IRL. "
L-O-L! Reading old jlm posts knowing all this is ... kinda freaky.
Apparently I look a lot like a lot of people. IRL from people I ACTUALLY KNOW, I constantly get "I saw you doing X at Y this weekend!" No you didn't. I was at home doing my laundry.
I thought it odd that she didn't remember which gas station. I mean, I don't think it would have stuck out to me had I read the thread when it happened, but now that we know she is a fake, I think she didn't remember which one it was because it obviously didn't happen!
jlm: "It's crazy how many people on the board are local. It makes me wonder about all the crazy lurkers and whether or not we have interacted with another nestie without knowing it.
And later:
jlm: "There's no way that I would ever be able to approach a nestie IRL. "
L-O-L! Reading old jlm posts knowing all this is ... kinda freaky.
As someone who only posts randomly on ML (and it completely entertained by this situation) I think about how the Chicago girls all mentioned she helped plan the GTGs but never showed up. She probably was at the next table the whole time listening to the GTG. Creepy.
Okay so I got up to page 55 and then jumped to page 141 because I have work to do damnit. But I missed a shitload in between and that makes me sad. I don't know how I can ever catch up
jlm: "It's crazy how many people on the board are local. It makes me wonder about all the crazy lurkers and whether or not we have interacted with another nestie without knowing it.
And later:
jlm: "There's no way that I would ever be able to approach a nestie IRL. "
L-O-L! Reading old jlm posts knowing all this is ... kinda freaky.
As someone who only posts randomly on ML (and it completely entertained by this situation) I think about how the Chicago girls all mentioned she helped plan the GTGs but never showed up. She probably was at the next table the whole time listening to the GTG. Creepy.
wooooooah. Ladies, to your pictures! Check the backgrounds for either blonde- or dark-haired lady-types!
Okay so I got up to page 55 and then jumped to page 141 because I have work to do damnit. But I missed a shitload in between and that makes me sad. I don't know how I can ever catch up
Okay so I got up to page 55 and then jumped to page 141 because I have work to do damnit. But I missed a shitload in between and that makes me sad. I don't know how I can ever catch up
jlm: "It's crazy how many people on the board are local. It makes me wonder about all the crazy lurkers and whether or not we have interacted with another nestie without knowing it.
And later:Â
jlm: "There's no way that I would ever be able to approach a nestie IRL. "Â
L-O-L! Reading old jlm posts knowing all this is ... kinda freaky.
As someone who only posts randomly on ML (and it completely entertained by this situation) I think about how the Chicago girls all mentioned she helped plan the GTGs but never showed up. She probably was at the next table the whole time listening to the GTG. Creepy.
Okay so I got up to page 55 and then jumped to page 141 because I have work to do damnit. But I missed a shitload in between and that makes me sad. I don't know how I can ever catch up
I know from previous posts that's she's had an 815, 847, and 779. They're all Chicagoland area codes.
The weird thing to me is that 847 is definitely Chicagoland. I don't know about 779, but 815 is the other side of Northern Illinois.. like 3 or more hours from Chicago? I find it strange.
This may have already been addressed, but 815 is probably a Crystal Lake area code. I grew up in the same county and always had an 815 area code. It does stretch all the way to the Iowa border for some reason though.
Last night, I had an anxiety attack that left my hyperventilating and completely freaked out. I don't know what brought it on because I don't really have anything that's stressing me out right now but I was reading this thread. Coincidence? lol
I was one of the people that spoke/texted with JLM. I don't know if I ever told anyone that. I feel duped by her lies, but I also felt sympathetic because I could only think "What if this is really true?" I didn't want to be cruel to someone who was so emotionally fragile. The only thing it cost me was the time it took for the conversations and the texting which never got out of control. She never called me in the middle of the night, she never became hysterical via text. This person obviously has some serious mental issues going on and I felt obligated to be kind to her. I guess that makes me a bit of a sucker but I can handle that.
LASTLY, I want everyone who had JLM's number to post the area code of the number she gave you. I want to know if she went as far as using different phone numbers for everyone who she was in touch with. I'll go first.
I am a infrequent poster on PC&E. Of course I've been glued to this thread. I don't know if this was posted, but I did find an obit for what I think is her dad.
That is the local paper of the town I went to college . MAYBE I AM VABA! (huh)
I guess we went to the same college Have we talked about this before?
"So I'm walking down the street today, and some lady that I've never seen before in my life drives next to me and stops. It was kind of creepy. She rolls down the window and says, "Excuse me, I know that I'm being really forward, but I was wondering if you could babysit for me." Who does that? I could have been some psycho, and she wants me to watch her kids. Wow. Sometimes the wierdest things happen to me."
apalettepassion.wordpress.com/ WHO IS BONQUIQUI!?!?!?!??!
"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Post by PeonyParty on Apr 17, 2014 12:14:40 GMT -5
Shit guys. I have been gone the past few days and come back to THIS shit. I started last night and am still only on page 70. It doesn't surprise me about vaba but I am pissed on @jermys behalf that she now feels like she shouldn't be nice. I am also quite surprised that so many people are upset about the $280 dollars raised by vaba but everyone laughed at me about pointing out the $250+ worth of stuff that Otter got shipped to her and was balked at with sarcastic "Dream Big!" commentary. So there, I guess. Boy in a few hours when I make it to this post, I will probably feel silly!
"So I'm walking down the street today, and some lady that I've never seen before in my life drives next to me and stops. It was kind of creepy. She rolls down the window and says, "Excuse me, I know that I'm being really forward, but I was wondering if you could babysit for me." Who does that? I could have been some psycho, and she wants me to watch her kids. Wow. Sometimes the wierdest things happen to me."
I love how she thinks she is okay to throw shade. She is a psycho.
Here's what I don't understand about this person. Presumably, attention is a huge currency for her, so wouldn't she want to be here now, answering questions and soaking up all the attention? Also, why would she decide to troll as herself instead of making another persona? I need information on these people and what makes them tick.
This has probably been answered (I'm not done with the thread yet). But I think a part of it, is getting away with it. That's part of the thrill. Also, not just getting away with it, but pretending to actually BE that person that they've created. They can believe for a few hours to be Jamie or Lace or Vaba rather than living in reality. Sort of like people that play Second Life or WoW get to be their characters. Doing an AMA or just getting the attention, with their cover blown, wouldn't be satisfying to them, I don't think. Obviously, this is all just my own speculation to what her (and other catfishers) motivations are.
Agree. Biggest difference between her type & MM Bliss.
As someone who only posts randomly on ML (and it completely entertained by this situation) I think about how the Chicago girls all mentioned she helped plan the GTGs but never showed up. She probably was at the next table the whole time listening to the GTG. Creepy.
wooooooah. Ladies, to your pictures! Check the backgrounds for either blonde- or dark-haired lady-types!
$1MM Next dollars that she's in the background of those GTG photos.
I think she's probably basking in the glory of being the topic of a 135 (and growing) page thread. We've all kind of got our panties in a twist over her. I imagine that watching this has to be some kind of fun for her. I don't think she has to be 'in it' to enjoy.
1. I have my twistless panties on today, I came prepared.