Poll: Your place or mine?

[sacattack]

I prefer theirs because I can leave if things get weird vs. having them hang around all day.

[jellymankelly]

Theirs, but it's because I work from home, so I am here 24/7. If I'm here, I'm stressed. It's much easier for me to detach from the work/mom/housework/stress stuff when I am not here. I'm also not a huge fan of people in my personal space, but somehow I'm okay with invading someone else's.

[suebee]

I would rather sleep over rather than at my house. If there are any issues I can just go home with no big scene. Does that way of thinking mean I am damaged? Always preparing for something to go wrong

[mcc]

Theirs generally. I used to be weird about having people over to my place because it's my solace but I've gotten better. Most people have larger beds than I do so that has always been a good reason for me staying over.

[kjh]

I haven't crossed this bridge yet but I have a dog so that will complicate things

[kaneen]

I'd much rather be at my place because I LOVE my place. I have a king size memory foam bed that I ADORE. I like my stuff. My house is clean and I know that I have the stuff/food I want at any given time. I'm also a control freak though so there's that...

[cuddlyevil]

I don't care because right now, I'd just settle for getting the chance at a sleepover.

[Deleted]

My place for sure. I have dogs so that's an issue, and I really sleep horribly when I'm not in my own bed or at least a very familiar place (like my parents' guest room).

I think I spent exactly 3 nights at my BF's place (my own Brit ). He has essentially moved into my place now so it's no longer an issue, but I hated sleeping at his place because I felt bad leaving my dogs and my bed is nicer. I slept very little when I was there.

[kitkat1502]

I prefer mine for three reasons right now:

1. While I have this apt for the remainder of the lease I spend about 90% of my monthly income on rent, so I'm getting my use out of it.

2. I hate packing an overnight bag.

3. My place is nicer and way more convenient to bars, transportation, and NYC.

Althoughhhhh BF has cable and I don't...so thats a big selling point for when we do sleepovers at his place.

[berbles]

I have a dog. I have a huge, comfy bed. I take pills at night and need my stuffs.

But I also live with my sister, BIL, and niece, so I don't like bringing randoms over. Partly out of respect for them and mostly because we live across the street from my mom and my sister likes to talk.

[helpinghands]

I haven't had to deal with this since I got my dog, but I would assume that we would sleep at my place, unless he also had a dog. Then I don't know.

[naeljun]

I feel more comfortable in my house.

[llh0211]

I don't have a huge preference. Overall, I prefer my house. But, I won't not sleep over at someone elses place

[Deleted]

I don't care either way, but I hate cleaning for company, so he needs to not care about a spotless house.

[dani29]

Ditto on the dog thing! Plus we usually end up doing stuff the next day and there is more to do here than where he is (30 minutes away). And plus I need more stuff to get ready for bed/doing stuff the next day, and again dog, so we stay here!

[Deleted]

Apr 15, 2014 13:38:56 GMT -5 sacattack said:

I prefer theirs because I can leave if things get weird vs. having them hang around all day.

THis

[melmel48]

Apr 15, 2014 13:44:23 GMT -5 FormerlyRR said:

I prefer my house. Partly because of the dog. But I like knowing it's my bed with clean sheets. :-)


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

The first time I slept over my ex boyfriends house I made sure he put clean sheets on his bed.  I just didn't trust that his sheets would be clean! I watched him put them on, so I knew for sure they were clean. 

[starburst604]

Until I knew I liked someone and felt comfortable with them being in my space, I was more of a his place person. I liked to be able to leave if I wasn't feeling it. Wishing someone would just leave is the worst feeling.

[gault]

I'm all over the map with this. In the last year it's all been at their places, unless my folks were out of town.

[riverpestie]

It's both for us. When I go to his place, I just bring the dog with me.

[1confused1]

I have my kids 99% of the time, so it's pretty much always my place.

[lookingup]

Meh, depends on the dude's place. If he has roommates or just doesn't have a lot of privacy in general, I would rather hang out at my place since that's pretty much where I'm most comfortable anyway. But if the guy's place is clean and there is plenty of space for us to hang out, I don't mind going there.