Post by gretchenindisguise on Apr 15, 2014 15:35:57 GMT -5
this isn't flameful - just a random: H talked to our CPA this morning and didn't ask if we're getting a refund or if we owe. I will find out after 5 tonight when we go see them. I still can't believe he didn't ask.
"You. You and your crazy life. You and your geographic anomaly. You and your drunken lesbianic ways and terrible navigational skills." - ProfArt and her holy baby
When I want advice on my birth control options, I go to my doctor. This is not a new issue for me. My flameful is that I have seriously considered risking a pregnancy we cannot afford right now, not that I do not know my options.
Post by janiejones on Apr 15, 2014 15:48:27 GMT -5
namasteak my friend's H had success by holding the bottle in his armpit, with his shirt off. It was a long process to figure it out, but her DD finally took a bottle.
When I want advice on my birth control options, I go to my doctor. This is not a new issue for me. My flameful is that I have seriously considered risking a pregnancy we cannot afford right now, not that I do not know my options.
if you know your options, how in the world do you think your choices are either to take the pill or risk a pregnancy...? Find another doctor, eesh.
When I want advice on my birth control options, I go to my doctor. This is not a new issue for me. My flameful is that I have seriously considered risking a pregnancy we cannot afford right now, not that I do not know my options.
if you know your options, how in the world do you think your choices are either to take the pill or risk a pregnancy...? Find another doctor, eesh.
So, I have an acquaintance who is due the same day as me. She found out today that she's having a boy. My H really doesn't want to find out the sex, but knowing that we could know RIGHT NOW makes me really want to just find out and not tell him.
So, I have an acquaintance who is due the same day as me. She found out today that she's having a boy. My H really doesn't want to find out the sex, but knowing that we could know RIGHT NOW makes me really want to just find out and not tell him.
Except I'd tell him. I can't keep secrets.
wait .... I think you and I are due around the same time and it's still a month before *I* can find out what sex our baby is... how can you find out now (other than the Mt21 or the Harmony blood test)??
wait .... I think you and I are due around the same time and it's still a month before *I* can find out what sex our baby is... how can you find out now (other than the Mt21 or the Harmony blood test)??
I think they make guesses pretty early these days. They're probably wrong a lot of the time, but my doctor said they're usually pretty confident by 16 weeks. Probably due to pressure of crazy women wanting to know asap.
I think I'd wait until closer to 20 weeks (even though I'm DYING to know) just because I'd hate for them to say 'oh it's a boy', go out and buy a bunch of boy stuff and then at delivery be all 'ooops, guess it was a girl'.
I think they make guesses pretty early these days. They're probably wrong a lot of the time, but my doctor said they're usually pretty confident by 16 weeks. Probably due to pressure of crazy women wanting to know asap.
I think I'd wait until closer to 20 weeks (even though I'm DYING to know) just because I'd hate for them to say 'oh it's a boy', go out and buy a bunch of boy stuff and then at delivery be all 'ooops, guess it was a girl'.
They'll reconfirm at your anatomy scan. Our tech wrote "no doubt a boy!" on the ultrasound picture. We didn't find out the first time, but we did the time. Actually, I had an amnio but waited until the anatomy scan to find out.
I think I'd wait until closer to 20 weeks (even though I'm DYING to know) just because I'd hate for them to say 'oh it's a boy', go out and buy a bunch of boy stuff and then at delivery be all 'ooops, guess it was a girl'.
Blood test can tell super early.
Yep, I know. I *almost* paid the $100 copay to have the test just so I could find out... but then the MM part of my brain kicked in and I realized I had a LOT of other stuff that I needed that $100 for...
I'm going to be in Vegas that weekend for work. Maybe we will spot each other across a crowded casino and wave awkwardly.
did you forget we’ve already met? We lunched together!
I know we had lunch silly. That's why I'd know what you look like. You are going to be there being all fabulous and swimsuited and I'm going to be in a suit and comfortable shoes for walking the convention center floor - I wouldn't want to harsh your vacation buzz.
When I want advice on my birth control options, I go to my doctor. This is not a new issue for me. My flameful is that I have seriously considered risking a pregnancy we cannot afford right now, not that I do not know my options.
Please don't come here when you're knocked up with your planned pregnancy, that you knew you couldn't afford, complaining about how stressed you are.
I have spent the day boxing up and shipping out sixty boxes' worth of files. I emailed The Boss, who isn't in today, asking to take tomorrow off because I am DONE.
I can see he's read it but hasn't answered. This is making me ragey. I AM SO TIRED.
New carpet is being put in at work, and all things must be packed up in every office.
I feel terrible for my assistant. She is doing it all for me because I'm on leave. I should return to the office with a big gift for her, right?
I don't actually plan to. It just feels like it would be really nice to take a break from the hormones, reactions, side effects, etc. Realistically, not taking anything would most likely cause just as many problems as continuing to attempt to find one I can tolerate. It just sounds really good after the past six months.
I guess my flameful is that Katespade is really pissing me off.
I haven't been able to have kids and she is all "la di da, let's not use bc because hormones and too much work" so you are going to risk getting pregnant with a kid you don't want.
And I'm sure once you get pregnant, you will come back here whining with "omg, how did this happen?!" and "what do I do?"
A friend is coming over soon to look through my closet to borrow a dress for a wedding, and I am really worried she's gonna want to stay and chat. I don't wanna chat. I wanna order a chicken cheesesteak, watch RHONY and go to bed.
I guess my flameful is that Katespade is really pissing me off.
I haven't been able to have kids and she is all "la di da, let's not use bc because hormones and too much work" so you are going to risk getting pregnant with a kid you don't want.
And I'm sure once you get pregnant, you will come back here whining with "omg, how did this happen?!" and "what do I do?"
No, no. I apologize. I understand that what I said is flameful, and that's why I posted it in the flameful post, but insinuating that I'm, "la di da," about it was not my intention at all. My situation is complicated and I don't want to get into the whole back story behind it or make it seem like I'm just throwing excuses at anyone to back peddle, but I promise you that I did not mean it in that way. I'll just say that it's been 12 years of complications and different medications and bad reactions and I'm emotionally and physically exhausted. I don't mean to say that I don't want children, that we would be homeless if I got pregnant, or that I assume I would automatically become pregnant. I was just acknowledging a ridiculous thought that I've had out of frustration and cannot voice IRL.
I truly apologize if I offended you. That was not my intention at all.
Despite the entertainment value of the JLM thread, the excessive use of the word "catfish" is about to push me over the edge. Can't we just say "fraud", "liar", or "fucking psychopath"?