"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
There is a difference between restarting his heart in the OR (considering it is a heart procedure) and reviving him when there is only a small chance of a viable outcome. Talk to the doc tomorrow and I am positive he will put you at ease about it. FYI - my MIL had a heart cath a month or so ago and when home the same day.
I think that since you are the PR, you get to make the decisions, but if he wants to put specifics, he can. I'm no lawyer--I'm just basing my opinions on my own living will. I'm leaving those types of decisions to my son.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny