Post by HoneySpider on Apr 17, 2014 15:53:10 GMT -5
I'm really tired of all the mommy martyrs on FB who post all the time about how being a mom is the hardest job ever blah blah blah. Yes, clearly posting photos and memes all day about your child/being a mom is HARD WORK!
I'm annoyed that ever since my D&E I now spot for a few days before AF and a few days after AF. I bleed for about 10 days total. F that. It used to come and go in about half that time.
Girl....are you trying to light this board on fire? Cause I can go ALL DAY!
1. My Bank: Sent me a letter yesterday saying I was past due on paying for my safety deposit box. I will swear to you they never sent a first notice because I rarely get mail from Regions. I NEVER have late payments. I would have noticed that right away. I know it's just a $10 late fee but I am NEVER late with payments. I've spoken with the manager, corporate, and everyone has said tough cookies. I even offered to cut them a separate check for $10 just so I'm not paying a late fee. I'm closing my box this weekend since we now own a safe....it's just the principle I'm peeved about. Flame away.
2. My realtor is being shady. Since our first offer fell through, they've told us this second offer is a DONE DEAL! They told another realtor we were under contract, thus causing him to cancel showing the home to his clients. Now, we learn their "client" that is supposedly about the sign the contract is now in the "hospital." I'm irked.
3. Our contractor making home repairs on our current home was supposed to be done today. Instead he tells me he's not coming today but will finish up tomorrow. We have showings tomorrow. I promptly told him that buyers would be there and he would have to work around them.
Of course, I handled all these people with my sugary sweet, passive-aggressive, Southern self....while privately steaming.
I'm really tired of all the mommy martyrs on FB who post all the time about how being a mom is the hardest job ever blah blah blah. Yes, clearly posting photos and memes all day about your child/being a mom is HARD WORK!
I'm annoyed that ever since my D&E I now spot for a few days before AF and a few days after AF. I bleed for about 10 days total. F that. It used to come and go in about half that time.
PREACH!!! I get angry tears from stuff my SIL posts along these same lines. ANGRY.TEARS. I tell God I would have GLADLY had those twins in her place. grrrrrr......one day, we will conceive our happy, healthy babies and this will all be well (smile). She stays home with her babies.....so taking the time to complain on Facebook is probably making her busier.
Edit: Before I get flamed to high heavens, I realized being a SAHM is a hard job....but trust me, it takes time to actually login to Facebook to complain about it for all of us to see.
Post by HoneySpider on Apr 17, 2014 16:13:51 GMT -5
I don't know if my body is just oddly shaped right now or what, but I cannot seem to find any clothes that fit! It seems I am in between sizes sometimes but that can't be the case in every store since sizing is different. It's just really annoying. I really need a few new things and can't find anything to buy!
I plan to SAH with my kids and I just cannot fathom complaining about how hard it is being a mom, etc. Yes, it's not going to be the easiest job but I'm sure all the positives will far outweigh all the negatives. I just don't get it but sum it up to the fact that these moms haven't been through what we have to have our kids. TTTC/losses has really changed my heart and given me so much gratitude for when we do have our kids (we made the decision for me to SAH before TTC but it was never something I 100% wanted until after our first loss).
Really sorry about your spotting too @honespider- that would frustrate me to no end (my period also changed after my first pregnancy and it caused RAGE every.single.month).
MrsMB- Hope your contractor gets his work done in time. So sorry you are having to deal with all this chaos regarding the sale of your home. Praying that it ends soon.
EVERYONE except my mom (meaning brother, aunt, uncle, and their kids) suck. Nobody besides me and my mom have spent any real time visiting my grandma. My brother is going up for the first time today, my cousin (who works at the hospital) didn't go see her until today (even though she has been there since Monday and cousin has worked some of those days), and even my uncle has only stopped by like 5 minutes a day. It doesn't help that I usually don't like my aunt, uncle, cousins, anyway.
My DH and I have been fighting. He started throwing a bitch fit the moment I saw him after work yesterday. He had to work at the new house (OMG BIG FUCKING DEAL) and freaks out when I ask him to do ANYTHING over there during the week. Not to mention I had been busting my ass working for 6 hours there when he showed up (after being at the HOSPITAL in the morning) - see previous bitch fit. It was so bad I had to go sit outside because his parents were there and I didn't want to yell at him in front of them. Though, when he did say one thing I said "Don't even get me started on that" before he starting going "Oh forgot it, nevermind, GRRR".
MIL bailed on helping me today. We were suppose to get things done for this weekend, but she took longer getting things done this morning then planned and didn't want to come help me this afternoon. I'm not angry about this, but annoyed because now I have to go back tomorrow to finish. Truthfully, I could have done it all today by myself, but I only did the bare minimum of what I had to because I was in no mood to do it.
I'm just an angry person today. This week has been a mix of angry, scared, and sad.
I plan to SAH with my kids and I just cannot fathom complaining about how hard it is being a mom, etc. Yes, it's not going to be the easiest job but I'm sure all the positives will far outweigh all the negatives. I just don't get it but sum it up to the fact that these moms haven't been through what we have to have our kids. TTTC/losses has really changed my heart and given me so much gratitude for when we do have our kids (we made the decision for me to SAH before TTC but it was never something I 100% wanted until after our first loss).
Really sorry about your spotting too @honespider- that would frustrate me to no end (my period also changed after my first pregnancy and it caused RAGE every.single.month).
MrsMB- Hope your contractor gets his work done in time. So sorry you are having to deal with all this chaos regarding the sale of your home. Praying that it ends soon.
I am frustrated for you especially w your realtor MrsMB
HoneySpider mom martyrs make me rage as do most martyrs in general. I am trying to do everything I can to ensure I stay positive through pregnancy and motherhood. I don't ever want to forget how blessed I am.
I don't really have a vent right now bc I think H had food poisoning not the stomach flu so I am just thanking my lucky stars for that.
I am frustrated for you especially w your realtor MrsMB
HoneySpider mom martyrs make me rage as do most martyrs in general. I am trying to do everything I can to ensure I stay positive through pregnancy and motherhood. I don't ever want to forget how blessed I am.
I don't really have a vent right now bc I think H had food poisoning not the stomach flu so I am just thanking my lucky stars for that.
Oh sorry for your H but sooo good for you! At least it is not contagious!
Post by luv2rn4fun on Apr 17, 2014 17:07:41 GMT -5
HUGE HUGE ((hugs)) bk1. So sorry you are having a really rough week. Please have a drink (or 5 for me too)!
I agree with jjwritergirl- we all need to be in the same state and have a girls night out! That would be awesome!
melsamoony- Boo for your DH but so happy and thankful that you don't have to worry about catching the flu. I agree with you completely...I do my best to just enjoy being pregnant and am just so thankful! Honestly, the worst for me are the shots but those were my choice and a healthy baby is so worth my butt cheeks hurting for a couple months (DH caused a bruise last night but I refuse to say anything because I don't want to scare him out of giving them to me)!
DH and I are never going to see eye to eye on this TTC thing. He wants to take a break for a while. (Don't prevent but stop charting etc.) WTF does he mean when WE need to stop doing this shit?? I do it all and most of the time I don't even mention it to him, because he doesn't want to know about it. He was so sweet when he first got home yesterday and I was upset but after that he's all "we just need to relax and let this happen!" I am so pissed off at him. I'm really struggling right now and he just doesn't seem to care.
DH and I are never going to see eye to eye on this TTC thing. He wants to take a break for a while. (Don't prevent but stop charting etc.) WTF does he mean when WE need to stop doing this shit?? I do it all and most of the time I don't even mention it to him, because he doesn't want to know about it. He was so sweet when he first got home yesterday and I was upset but after that he's all "we just need to relax and let this happen!" I am so pissed off at him. I'm really struggling right now and he just doesn't seem to care.
I'm really tired of all the mommy martyrs on FB who post all the time about how being a mom is the hardest job ever blah blah blah. Yes, clearly posting photos and memes all day about your child/being a mom is HARD WORK!
I'm annoyed that ever since my D&E I now spot for a few days before AF and a few days after AF. I bleed for about 10 days total. F that. It used to come and go in about half that time.
Every time I see this type of stuff (especially that hardest job ever thing that was going around late last week) I want to scream MUST BE NICE.
I've been very introspective lately, and it has been hitting me kinda hard how much our lives/plans have changed in the last two years. It shouldn't be this complicated.
awick14 I am so sorry your H and you are struggling. (((Biggest hugs))) It is the absolute worst when you aren't seeing eye to eye with your DH. I hope you two can find a balance and be able to get more in sync with each other.
jjwritergirl Good thing you got him to follow up! That is crazy! I can't believe they are that unorganized. Hopefully it's just that part of the company that is that bad.