I'm so mad I could scream

[bebeetmoi]

I feel like all I do is botch about my XH, but I am livid right now.
I just got a call from my accountant- my taxes were rejected because XH also claimed DD. Granted, a final decision on this hasn't been decided yet- but I have primary custody, make 1/6 of what he does, he STILL hasn't given me a dime of child support, and he claims DD's brother every year. I want to get violent I'm so mad!
I now have to gather up endless paperwork to prove she resides with me and wait 8-12 weeks for the IRS to process everything before I get my return. Aggghhhhh!!!!
I just hate all this. It shouldn't be so nasty and difficult to deal with a person, and this proves that no matter how accommodating and patient I am with him, he's just going to continue to try to make my life as difficult as possible.
Ok- vent over.

[jenbelle]

I am so sorry!!!!! Having been through this, I feel your pain. It totally sucks. ((HUGS!))

[nannerl]

God, what an ass. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this bull.

[TrudyCampbell]

I am going to murder this man.

[pinchofspice]

Omg. I am mad for you!! What an idiot!!!!

[unclejesse]

What a fucking douche. Let Trudy do it.

[Beener]

Boo! He's a jerk

[sunshineluv]

Holy crap, I am sorry he sucks.

[mala]

What an asshole.

[chasbride07]

I'm so sorry - that sucks big time.

[creamsiclechica]

He is such a fucking asshole. I'm so sorry.

[spaghetticat]

What an asshole. I'm sorry you have to deal with it.

[raynes]

He doesn't deserve a junk punch, he deserves a full castration.

[bigapple]

I hate him. HATE.

Hope his ass get audited every year until the end of time.

[thedahliharpa]

Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)

[ruby412]

Wow, this is legitimately terrible. What a jerk! I really hope you can get it worked out and quickly. And I wish a bad case of diarrhea on him.

[cat19]

I file in the first day possible every year so there is zero chance XH can aim Linz. What an asshat.

[laurack]

JERK!

ugh, that is so lame!

[rainbowchip]

How shitty! I hope it gets worked out relatively easily for you!

[melis74]

Wow, what an ass. I hope the IRS sticks him w/a penalty or something...unless that would prohibit him from starting to pay you cs.

[bebeetmoi]

Apr 18, 2014 9:27:49 GMT -5 thedahliharpa said:

Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)

No he can't get out of it. Not unless we get joint custody, which will never happen. And once the judge finally makes a ruling on it, it's going to be prorated from when he was first served with papers back in August. Soooo that's going to suck for him.

[bebeetmoi]

Apr 18, 2014 9:44:22 GMT -5 melis74 said:

Wow, what an ass. I hope the IRS sticks him w/a penalty or something...unless that would prohibit him from starting to pay you cs.

That's what my accountant said, that he'll have to pay a penalty and interest.

[thedahliharpa]

Apr 18, 2014 9:52:02 GMT -5 bebeetmoi said:

Apr 18, 2014 9:27:49 GMT -5 thedahliharpa said:

Ugh what a fuckface! I can't believe is not paying CS, this is his first rodeo...doesn't he know he can't get out of it? (He can't get our of it right??)

No he can't get out of it. Not unless we get joint custody, which will never happen. And once the judge finally makes a ruling on it, it's going to be prorated from when he was first served with papers back in August. Soooo that's going to suck for him.

What a mule!

[laurensmomma]

I'm so sorry he's being a jerk. He sounds like a selfish bastard. How long until the judge makes a ruling?

[bebeetmoi]

Apr 18, 2014 9:39:28 GMT -5 cat19 said:

I file in the first day possible every year so there is zero chance XH can aim Linz. What an asshat.

Yeah I should have done this. But I honestly never believed he would have the balls to claim her. Silly me.

[artgal84]

Ugh that's awul my husband is a CPA and told me a while ago about how many jerky guys do this. I don't understand why because it's not like they are getting away with it and they end up paying more!?

[ashleydl83]

Omg!!! Justifiable homicide...

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Apr 18, 2014 8:53:13 GMT -5 TrudyCampbell said:

I am going to murder this man.

I'll help.


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[bebeetmoi]

Apr 18, 2014 9:53:45 GMT -5 laurensmomma said:

I'm so sorry he's being a jerk. He sounds like a selfish bastard. How long until the judge makes a ruling?

In the NY court system?? Another year or so until it's all done and buttoned up. NYC courts are a nightmare. I mean, beyond anything you could ever imagine. And of course it's attorneys are the most expensive.

[laurensmomma]

Apr 18, 2014 10:07:13 GMT -5 bebeetmoi said:

Apr 18, 2014 9:53:45 GMT -5 laurensmomma said:

I'm so sorry he's being a jerk. He sounds like a selfish bastard. How long until the judge makes a ruling?

In the NY court system?? Another year or so until it's all done and buttoned up. NYC courts are a nightmare. I mean, beyond anything you could ever imagine. And of course it's attorneys are the most expensive.

Damn that sucks. I got divorced in Cali many years ago (but without kids in the mix), and even that took a long time. I'm really sorry you're going through this.