Tonight: After work I am hitting the laundromat and then going to a cd release party where I'd hope to find someone to make out with but I am probably not going to be hipster enough for the people at the bar. Tomorrow: Bridal shower in the am, shoe/easter basket shopping after that and then get the kids back in the evening. Sunday: Basket hunting, baking cookies, maybe going to stbxmil's but I doubt it as there are relations in from out of town.
Tonight: probably break-up conversation with M, even though I wish the convo this morning had sufficed. Also cleaning. Tomorrow: My parents will be in town celebrating their anniversary. Not sure whether or not I'm invited. Also cleaving and organizing. Maybe picking out and installing curtains. Sunday: Easter brunch with my parents. Curtains this day if not the day before.
I am going out tonight maybe to see a movie with H. tomorrow I am heading out to dinner with FSIL and staying away from my house for the bachelor party festivities. Sunday I'll be at my parents so perhaps brunch with them.
Thank you. Honestly, I feel at peace with it. He told me this morning that something's been off and he can't tell if we're not a good fit or if there's something wrong with him. I think we'll both be better off not trying to make something work that clearly isn't supposed to work. I'm irritated that we couldn't just end it this morning and that it has to drag on until after work.
Tonight: I get to climb Mt. Laundry. I don't do laundry when my dad's home because he always brings his laundry home with him and picks the most inopportune times to try to get it done...
Tomorrow: I might take DS to an Easter Egg Hunt in town. But we may just hang out and make Jello-Eggs instead.
Sunday: My oldest sister and her kids are coming to our house for Easter. That should be interesting.
At some point I really need to get it together and write a blog article for Earth Day for our company website... I keep trying but I'm coming up with nothing... And I need to watch some training videos too... I should have done that while I was at the beach, but I didn't.
Thank you. Honestly, I feel at peace with it. He told me this morning that something's been off and he can't tell if we're not a good fit or if there's something wrong with him. I think we'll both be better off not trying to make something work that clearly isn't supposed to work. I'm irritated that we couldn't just end it this morning and that it has to drag on until after work.
I'm glad you're at peace. It is good that both of you are aware enough to acknowledge what's lingering under the surface. Maybe you two will end up as friends?
I signed the lease and moved in some kitchen stuff on Tuesday, but I'm still living with the fam. Tomorrow is when I'll have help to move furniture and heavy stuff, including my bed. Then all will be complete. Moving part 2!
Post by captainmel on Apr 18, 2014 12:17:28 GMT -5
Yesterday: comicon! (I was two feet away from Edward James Olmos!) Today: Comicon (Nathan Fillion and Patrick Stewart!) Tomorrow: comicon! (Karen Gillian) and my brother is coming and dressing up like Doctor Who so I'll be Clara. Followed by the symphony.
Sunday: brunch at a super fancy restaurant that is up a canyon followed by a car meet up/show off.
Yesterday: comicon! (I was two feet away from Edward James Olmos!) Today: Comicon (Nathan Fillion and Patrick Stewart!) Tomorrow: comicon! (Karen Gillian) and my brother is coming and dressing up like Doctor Who so I'll be Clara. Followed by the symphony.
Sunday: brunch at a super fancy restaurant that is up a canyon followed by a car meet up/show off.
I love my weekend.
I love your weekend too! It sounds like so much fun!!
Yesterday: BFF and her H came over for dinner. I got to meet their new puppy. She is so cute and crazy! Today: Laundry, cleaning, reading, etc. It's rainy here, so we'll be staying in. Saturday: An afternoon walk and lunch out, then a nice prime rib dinner at home. Sunday: Easter at the IL's house
I could see being casual friends with him in the future, since neither of us want to rip the other's clothes off.
cuddlyevil I think this means that if coworker asks to meet up I can go into it freely. So I hope he asks soon!
Slow down, Casanova. I like Peacoat so you better figure out your hang ups before you start anything serious with him.
I mean that with love.
I'm not wanting it to be an actual date with kissing and all, I'd like it to be a chance to just get to know each other outside of work.
It wasn't insecurity that was triggered the other day, it was a flashback to something else that actually was giving me good information, but I had to tune in to it. The conversation that M and I had this morning confirmed the feelings I had that passion had waned and it wasn't just his work stress. It also confirmed that we're not the right fit and the feelings we've both been having are evidence of that. So the bottom line is to trust my gut instead of over-analyzing my motivations.
Yesterday: comicon! (I was two feet away from Edward James Olmos!) Today: Comicon (Nathan Fillion and Patrick Stewart!) Tomorrow: comicon! (Karen Gillian) and my brother is coming and dressing up like Doctor Who so I'll be Clara. Followed by the symphony.
Sunday: brunch at a super fancy restaurant that is up a canyon followed by a car meet up/show off.
I love my weekend.
Fuuuuuuuuun! There's a con here in a couple weeks but I don't think we can fork over the money right now. Sad trombone.
The only thing I have planned this weekend is a clothing swap tomorrow night. Yay new clothes!
Yesterday: comicon! (I was two feet away from Edward James Olmos!) Today: Comicon (Nathan Fillion and Patrick Stewart!) Tomorrow: comicon! (Karen Gillian) and my brother is coming and dressing up like Doctor Who so I'll be Clara. Followed by the symphony.
Sunday: brunch at a super fancy restaurant that is up a canyon followed by a car meet up/show off.
I love my weekend.
I have always wanted to go to ComicCon. We have DragonCon here. It's a lot of fun.