katespade ((hugs)) fx for everything working out. I hope they are able to provide you some reassurance today.
I'm not very worried about the actual lump. I'm sure that it's just a cyst or something from all of the hormones I've been taking. I mostly feel guilty that I had to worry my mom yesterday by having to tell her about it and asking her for details about her breast cancer (because I know they're probably going to ask me about the details at my appointment today).
I am really struggling today. Dh's start day got pushed back again, and he is so frustrated and handling it poorly. At the same time, he just had FIVE MONTHS to look for a different job while he waited for work to come up in the union list. I know his depression is kicking his ass, but he won't take any steps to deal with it. Watching him go from happy to self destruct mode is pushing me over the edge.
((@mrschicken)) I'm sorry. Has he gone through this before or is this new?
It's always been a something he has dealt with on a smaller scale, but it has gotten so much worse in the last year (and with good reason--there has needn't a lot of bad stuff process.)
ginkgoleaf - I agree with melsamoony. That thread took a weird turn that doesn't really seem to make sense. There's nothing wrong with lurking anywhere, especially a board full of information that you might need in the future.
((@mrschicken)) I'm sorry. Has he gone through this before or is this new?
It's always been a something he has dealt with on a smaller scale, but it has gotten so much worse in the last year (and with good reason--there has needn't a lot of bad stuff process.)
I am questioning how much more I can take.
I'm so sorry. Is there anyone you can talk to, a counselor, etc? Even if he won't help himself you need to help yourself.
I hate this board war between WC and TTTC. I post on both so I hate to see fighting. and I don't appreciate being one of "those fools." TTTC is generally a very welcoming place and I think things have been misconstrued. ahhhh! why can't we all just hug it out and say TTC sucks, whether you've been trying 6 months or 2 years plus?
I hate this board war between WC and TTTC. I post on both so I hate to see fighting. and I don't appreciate being one of "those fools." TTTC is generally a very welcoming place and I think things have been misconstrued. ahhhh! why can't we all just hug it out and say TTC sucks, whether you've been trying 6 months or 2 years plus?
I know, I feel like we've beat this issue to death, but it still crops up every couple months. Why? Let's move on people!
If we ignore this and let it die....it will. It we keep fanning the flame (and the other board through X-posting) it will continue.
Does that make sense to anyone else?
unfortunately, I think ignoring the issue is what is causing it to crop up every couple of months. like bottling up your emotions, it eventually comes out. there is tension between the boards and it causes things to become misconstrued and misinterpreted. TTC is a very emotional issue for all of us, and it doesn't help when we're all fighting. I want actual peace, not sweeping it under the rug.
pooh8402 I have to respectfully disagree with what you on several counts. If we don't fight, we don't fight. If we all have peace (Someone admitted to lurking. Don't like the post and move on.) then we will all have peace.
Fighting = Fighting Peace = Peace
Let's be done. I'm not going to continue to respond to this either.
It's 11:15 and the potential tenant is not here. ETA : she was supposed to be here at 11.
I'm sitting here waiting because I want to start reading a text book a friend have me for a course I am thinking of taking in sept but I don't want to start it and then her get here.
Maybe she got lost? Idk she should at least text me if she is running late, or got lost. (Not that my place is hard to find)
It's 11:15 and the potential tenant is not here. ETA : she was supposed to be here at 11.
I'm sitting here waiting because I want to start reading a text book a friend have me for a course I am thinking of taking in sept but I don't want to start it and then her get here.
Maybe she got lost? Idk she should at least text me if she is running late, or got lost. (Not that my place is hard to find)
If we ignore this and let it die....it will. It we keep fanning the flame (and the other board through X-posting) it will continue.
Does that make sense to anyone else?
unfortunately, I think ignoring the issue is what is causing it to crop up every couple of months. like bottling up your emotions, it eventually comes out. there is tension between the boards and it causes things to become misconstrued and misinterpreted. TTC is a very emotional issue for all of us, and it doesn't help when we're all fighting. I want actual peace, not sweeping it under the rug.
I'm new, so I think I might be missing some background. Why is there tension between WC and TTTC?
unfortunately, I think ignoring the issue is what is causing it to crop up every couple of months. like bottling up your emotions, it eventually comes out. there is tension between the boards and it causes things to become misconstrued and misinterpreted. TTC is a very emotional issue for all of us, and it doesn't help when we're all fighting. I want actual peace, not sweeping it under the rug.
I'm new, so I think I might be missing some background. Why is there tension between WC and TTTC?
it's difficult to explain. I think it's mostly misinterpretation and people getting feelings hurt. I know I've been the recipient in the past, and have accidentally hurt others' feelings before, so it's easy to do. it's a by-product of the medium in which we are all communicating, very hard to interpret tone. but there seems to be an "us vs them" mentality and I hate it.
It's 11:15 and the potential tenant is not here. ETA : she was supposed to be here at 11.
I'm sitting here waiting because I want to start reading a text book a friend have me for a course I am thinking of taking in sept but I don't want to start it and then her get here.
Maybe she got lost? Idk she should at least text me if she is running late, or got lost. (Not that my place is hard to find)
I foresee rent payment problems in the future.
Ugg I just want this thing rented. Should I wait a bit then text her and are what happened?