Brought to you by the number of people who have insisted that I will cry my eyes out when my baby turns one. Vote for your reaction either on the actual birthday or at the party, whichever one you want.
Post by matildasun on May 27, 2014 17:45:50 GMT -5
I did cry on A's birthday, because her birth was tricky and somewhat traumatic, so the memories brought up complicated emotions. Honestly, her fourth birthday was the first one where I didn't cry. I think this is different from what you are talking about though.
Post by blueberry10 on May 27, 2014 17:47:19 GMT -5
I did - but not in front of anyone. I was just fine all day and then when I was nursing her before bed I suddenly got all teary and emotional. For a non-crier, it caught me off guard!
I was a little nostalgic on both birthdays (more so with YDS). I don't believe I shed a tear with either, but I definitely had some sadness realizing that I didn't have a "baby" anymore. With YDS, it has been a little rougher because I don't know if we will have a third. So, with him, I always have to wonder, is this my last time doing X?
Hysterically so. The night before, alone, not at her party or anything.
I cried because I wanted a do-over. I wanted to do the first year again and enjoy it. I was such a hot mess most of her first year I just wanted to do it right.
Yes. But only because I was dumb enough to read her "On the Night You Were Born" as her bedtime story that night. That book always makes me a little teary-eyed anyway, and the meaning was even more special on her birthday, so I had some waterworks.
Yup. The transition from baby to toddler makes me sad. I know it's a lot to look forward to, but it's been an incredible year and I wish I could freeze our lives right now in a lot of respects.
No, and I'm a big crier...just not at milestones. I was so excited for each new step in development & parenting. Now that DS2 is getting close to 1, I can see where we I might get a little choked up. We don't plan to have any more kids, so he's my last baby.
On the other hand, there may be extra celebrating BECAUSE my last baby is one. Who knows?!?
Not specifically because she turned one. I was just crying a lot around that timeframe because I had just lost my dad. I'm sure I cried the day of the party because he wasn't there.