Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Jul 7, 2014 6:17:24 GMT -5
I'm still FB friends with my XH, and most of his family. They frequently post pics of Babycakes, and it doesn't bother me. He doesn't always talk to me about stuff he did with his dad on their weekends together, so with the pictures I can see what they've been up to. I kind of like it.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by stephreloaded on Jul 7, 2014 10:48:45 GMT -5
My ex doesn't have FB but his friend (DD's godfather) and ex's siblings do. They post pictures of Valeria and I never think much about that. That is her family after all.
I should add that stbx is not on FB, but I am FB friends with a lot of his family. Though I have moved a bunch of them to the restricted list lately (basically if they haven't been active on FB or on my page in a while, I moved them). I am on good terms with all of them.
I hate when my mil takes photos I posted and then re-posts them with statuses indicating she took them or was with DD when the photos were taken. I've been a little radio silent on fb during my separation which has helped this, and I now tend to only post pics of me and DD together which mil will never steal
In general, it bothers me but I realize I have bigger issues to focus on and will grumble in privacy about this.
I tried to be careful right after the separation and my subsequent relocation, just because I didn't know who knew and didn't. Now I have no more fucks to give.
It bothers me because the pictures are public. I don't have a relationship with any of them anymore (their choice, not mine) so I don't think an email would be well received. Guess I will just need to accept it.