how do you keep everything tucked up and not flopping all over the place?
This was another thought I had. If bear were to try to wear my underwear, they'd be really stretched out and I really can't comprehend where he'd put all the parts.
Do guys that tuck have really small bits and pieces?
So many questions...
very good questions.
The drag queens that I have seen are usually small in the hips and thighs so I think as long as they get the right size in underwear, they should be semi ok in the comfort dept. Or so I assume.
Come on doriswe! I'm waiting for answers to all questions. And I don't think there are any TIPers who would be easily offended. That's why I like it around here.
Did he wear your clean or dirty underwear? They were clean Did he wear them all day or was this just a thing around the house? He'd wear them all the time. Even to work under his uniform. After you say him in them would you burn them or did you keep them and rewear them? I was all of 19, so forgive me for being insane...but we'd sort of share them. I'd still wear them. He'd wear them.
They were always the satiny type of bikini underwear. He liked the feel. He also liked wearing my satiny pj top so I have, in a box tucked away, a picture of him lounging on our couch...wearing my pj top and a pair of panties. He wasn't a big dude (height or otherwise) so there wasn't a ton of tucking.
Post by partiallysunny on Jul 9, 2014 13:21:45 GMT -5
I'm so amused.
I'm actually really glad he didn't seem ashamed of it at all. I don't think it's weird you shared. I wear H's boxers sometimes, so... I think I'd be offended if he threw them away afterward lol.
Post by starrieskies on Jul 9, 2014 14:02:03 GMT -5
Muddled. Here's the dress. I am wearing it with my red peep toe heels. although I think I might wear it more if I had some cute red or black flats to wear with it.
Muddled. Here's the dress. I am wearing it with my red peep toe heels. although I think I might wear it more if I had some cute red or black flats to wear with it.
Muddled. Here's the dress. I am wearing it with my red peep toe heels. although I think I might wear it more if I had some cute red or black flats to wear with it.
You look great! That dress is awesome. I would totally wear it.
Doriswe how did you find out that he was wearing them? This is so J.Edgar Hoover. I am fascinated.
Honestly, I can't really remember how it all came about. I just know it was the norm in our relationship and I didn't even bat an eye. I was young. He was weird. It's what I knew!
Hey, mp. It seems to me that you perhaps hurt people's feelings with the defriendings. I'm not sure why you are overlooking that. They will say if I'm right or wrong, if they want to talk about it.
Starries, I love your dress. You should wear it all the time. What pattern did you use?
Muddled. Here's the dress. I am wearing it with my red peep toe heels. although I think I might wear it more if I had some cute red or black flats to wear with it.
Muddled. Here's the dress. I am wearing it with my red peep toe heels. although I think I might wear it more if I had some cute red or black flats to wear with it.
I very well may have hurt their feelings, and I am not overlooking it.
I was hurt. I was disgusted at how people were acting. And I decided to distance myself from certain friendships because of it. It became clear that our opinions on things were very different and that a friendship was not viable.
I reached out and had discussions with most of the people I defriended, because I wanted that open door of communication.
If they were hurt, they didn't communicate that to me. Instead they've taken to TIP to talk negatively about me.
This right here is the problem. It's not all about you.
As I said to you in a pm, life's too short to put up with drama. If it's alllll about you and your hurt feelings, you can keep that shit on SO. And to your FB friends. I'm cool with that.
Can someone tell me what happened that was so bad that it was disgusting? Because all I know that happened was some inside jokes and talking about a gtg for a week. Anyone want to fill me in?
Hey, mp. It seems to me that you perhaps hurt people's feelings with the defriendings. I'm not sure why you are overlooking that. They will say if I'm right or wrong, if they want to talk about it.
Starries, I love your dress. You should wear it all the time. What pattern did you use?
I very well may have hurt their feelings, and I am not overlooking it.
I was hurt. I was disgusted at how people were acting. And I decided to distance myself from certain friendships because of it. It became clear that our opinions on things were very different and that a friendship was not viable.
I reached out and had discussions with most of the people I defriended, because I wanted that open door of communication.
If they were hurt, they didn't communicate that to me. Instead they've taken to TIP to talk negatively about me.
Nah, I brought you up.
I suspect that the joking is part of mourning the friendship, but I could be wrong.
Hey, mp. It seems to me that you perhaps hurt people's feelings with the defriendings. I'm not sure why you are overlooking that. They will say if I'm right or wrong, if they want to talk about it.
Starries, I love your dress. You should wear it all the time. What pattern did you use?
I very well may have hurt their feelings, and I am not overlooking it.
I was hurt. I was disgusted at how people were acting. And I decided to distance myself from certain friendships because of it. It became clear that our opinions on things were very different and that a friendship was not viable.
I reached out and had discussions with most of the people I defriended, because I wanted that open door of communication. ETA bullygirl979 & doriswe being the exceptions. We had solid conversations though we agreed to disagree on many points.
If they were hurt, they didn't communicate that to me. Instead they've taken to TIP to talk negatively about me.
LOL, sure if you consider a discussion as a one-sided conversation that you yourself wanted to be in control of and say what you wanted to say rather than have an actual "discussion" which does imply two people are having a talk. Also, your "discussion" included a lot of assumptions that you stuck by because of your feelings rather than having a talk about why certain things were said or agreed to.