My mother is engaged

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What the actual fuck. @blueyes623 I'm so so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine how hard it has been for you. Big huge hugs.

[WinterIsComing]

I am so sorry I can't imagine how had it is to lose your stepdad and your good relationship with your mom. Hopefully they will take it slow before rushing into the wedding. ((Hugs))

[sharic]

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. This is way too much to absorb in such a short amount of time:(

[cuddlyevil]

Gah...I am sorry.

[1confused1]

Oh wow. I am so sorry.

[mel]

I am so sorry. Hugs.

[tiffany81]

ugh. I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))

[LoveBug]

Oh wow, that's really hard. I'm so sorry.

[bullygirl979]

Oh my. I'm sorry. I can't imagine how you feel right now. Hugs!

[mcc]

I'm so sorry

[onedayatatime]

So sorry - for the news and the way she chose to deliver it.


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[udscoobychick]

Hugs, @blueyes623.

[riverpestie]

I am so sorry!

[Deleted]

I'm sorry, I know how painful this is for you.

[naeljun]

I'm sorry.

[sweetchix]

I'm sorry @blueyes623

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Thanks guys...I posted and ran earlier, have had a busy day at work. Finally done and about to head home. I think I need a cocktail and a hug. :-(

[locarb]

(hug) &  :drink:

im sorry, not the news you wanted to hear.

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Jul 15, 2014 16:03:53 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Do you guys normal have a decent relationship? Do you know her fi?

Yes, I'm an only child and my mom and I have always been very close.  I do know her "fi"...I posted about their relationship a while back.  I know him (M) my whole life, my mom knows him since the 1970's.   He was friends with my biological dad( my dad passed when I was 5)-one of his hunting partners.  When my stepfather married my mom, he became part of that hunting group and was friends with M as well.  

They do not plan to actually get married.  My mom would lose her benefits if she did.  

[doriswe]

Wait...they're engaged but not actually going to get married? What's the point of that?

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Jul 15, 2014 18:02:13 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Wait...they're engaged but not actually going to get married? What's the point of that?

Ugh...I don't know.  I found out it's actually his family heirloom ring.  My mother said, "it's to show his commitment to me".  They've already purchased a house together FFS.  

[winecat]

Big hugs...

[hazel]

Oh goodness, I'm so sorry.

[MyName]

Oh, wow. I'm sorry.

[blanca]

I'm sorry, that sounds difficult

[lexxasaurus]

I'm so sorry, that sounds like a lot to deal with. Hugs to you.

[stephreloaded]

I am really sorry. I do remember you posting about your mom's fast relationship.

I do not understand what their point is if they are not getting married.

[liubot]

Sorry, girl.

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Jul 17, 2014 11:17:24 GMT -5 stephreloaded said:

I am really sorry. I do remember you posting about your mom's fast relationship.

I do not understand what their point is if they are not getting married.

Thanks.   :? I don't get it either.  The whole thing is abnormal.  

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Thanks all for the hugs and understanding my being upset over all this.  It's really a lot to absorb.  I feel like I've gone through so many life changes in the past 2 years (beginning with divorce) --it's a wonder I haven't ended up more mentally shaken than I am.