Maybe if I was the extra it would be okay for a guy/girl. I don't really want to watch someone I'm with hook up with someone else.
This is where I'm at. I'm not sure I'd ever do a threesome, but I think me being the 3rd would be the only way that could ever work for me. I wouldn't be able to watch my bf fucking another girl or going down on her...I also have no interest in being with another guy.
I don't want him to fuck anyone else. Pretty much everything else is hot to me though. It's like watching a porn, only you can actually have the D!
It's totally meant for couples, but I'm going with one of my close girlfriends. The experience looks impeccable and we both just want to relax, eat and drink on the beach. The singles places looked kinda gross and the family places weren't for us. So couples resort it is!
I got first class tickets to fly there and back. Basically it's like a honeymoon. Hhaha.
My BFF and I have talked about doing this too. Couples resorts are just so nice and relaxing! The package we looked at has a romantic dinner on the beach and a couple massage. It sounds awesome - I would rather be there with her than STBXH!!
Yeah, I just noticed they are posting over there and not here.
To be fair, they're pretty welcoming to people that aren't overly sensitive.
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
well TIP hates me, haha, but I'm getting more active on ML. It's a mixed group over there, but a lot more people.
I've never understood the "ML is scary" mythology. Then again, it's my home board, so I'm biased.
I love ML. I'm glad you're chiming in more over there!
Post by starburst604 on Jul 16, 2014 16:59:14 GMT -5
Don't know if anyone remembers my friend I posted about a month ago or so. We were out with her and her FI and they got into a big fight and she revealed some stuff that confirmed all the reasons I've never liked him
Her bachelorette weekend is this weekend and she messaged me and a few friends this morning that she's 10 weeks pregnant. I felt like someone punched me in the stomach, for more reasons than she is having a baby with that dick :/
To be fair, they're pretty welcoming to people that aren't overly sensitive.
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
This is where I am at too...I have been a bit afraid to jump into other boards. And I think I was taking the titles too literally, like ml and tip, and assumed it wasn't fully open to people not in that situation (anymore).
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
This is where I am at too...I have been a bit afraid to jump into other boards. And I think I was taking the titles too literally, like ml and tip, and assumed it wasn't fully open to people not in that situation (anymore).
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With so many posters on some other boards it seems hard to stand out unless you post a lot. I'm sure I am not super memorable over here either but feel easier with fewer people even though that has its downsides too since it's kind slow. Basically it's me being slightly insecure which I think I just need to get over.
A friend at work has offered to let me meet up with a friend of his. It kind of sounds like the perfect situation because this guy apparently has commitment issues and is good looking.
I feel like I just need a safe "first time" where strings won't be attached. Lol.
I've also felt like my trip to Vegas next month could also be a great opportunity for this.
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
well TIP hates me, haha, but I'm getting more active on ML. It's a mixed group over there, but a lot more people.
Not really sure where this assessment is based from.
Not really sure where this assessment is based from.
The "haha" is my light hearted assessment. I know you and several others don't hate me and I made a generalization, but it's clear from others that I am not a welcome poster at the current time.
Just reading through this and I had NO idea people moved over to TIP. I rarely lurk on other boards, I just post here and S&B. What prompted the move???
Not really sure where this assessment is based from.
The "haha" is my light hearted assessment. I know you and several others don't hate me and I made a generalization, but it's clear from others that I am not a welcome poster at the current time.
I get it, but generalizations got us in to trouble the first time around, yes?
I don't mean to come off as harsh, but I don't want to be lumped in to a category.
A friend at work has offered to let me meet up with a friend of his. It kind of sounds like the perfect situation because this guy apparently has commitment issues and is good looking.
I feel like I just need a safe "first time" where strings won't be attached. Lol.
I've also felt like my trip to Vegas next month could also be a great opportunity for this.
I had my first post-separation one night stand in Reno and it was so amazing and empowering!!!! I wanted to get on the roof of the hotel and yell "YEA BITCH, I'M BACK!"
The "haha" is my light hearted assessment. I know you and several others don't hate me and I made a generalization, but it's clear from others that I am not a welcome poster at the current time.
Just reading through this and I had NO idea people moved over to TIP. I rarely lurk on other boards, I just post here and S&B. What prompted the move???
Same here. I've been busy the past few weeks and noticed that this board seemed a bit dead but I had no idea that we got ditched again.
well TIP hates me, haha, but I'm getting more active on ML. It's a mixed group over there, but a lot more people.
I've never understood the "ML is scary" mythology. Then again, it's my home board, so I'm biased.
I love ML. I'm glad you're chiming in more over there!
It doesn't feel like a mythology to me. Maybe not 'scary' but something. Like when I posted links to the local board in PMs I was definitely given a hard time by several people. I wasn't doing it because I thought pm's are "safe" but because I was following the wishes of the local board. What was I supposed to do? Give a big ol' 'fuck you' to what the board wants? I guess I could have said nothing but I know that the local board does like new members. Instead of saying nothing or acknowledging that my reason was valid, I was given a hard time for it and definitely felt put down by some posters.
WineCat - it's not the fact that you didn't want to post the local board info for all to see, it's that you announced you would pm the info. You can just pm people without making a public announcement.
Say what? You're crazy, of course moving in after a week of dating makes total sense. I mean, she totes knows errythang about him and it's all on the level.
(huh)
Right? She's also 35 and he's 24, so there's that. This is going to go spectacularly, I'm sure of it.
This sound like me and my XH. Went on vacay 2 weeks in, came back work luggage and added more stuff overtime until I was completely moved in. Worked out swimmingly!
I need to do something to get over my fear of other boards. I have seen what a great community these boards can be to people but it is still hard to start posting when everyone seems to know each other so well.
well TIP hates me, haha, but I'm getting more active on ML. It's a mixed group over there, but a lot more people.
WineCat - it's not the fact that you didn't want to post the local board info for all to see, it's that you announced you would pm the info. You can just pm people without making a public announcement.
Gotcha. Thank you for letting me know. On other boards I always see people telling people they have PMs. Often times people will create a whole separate post to tell someone they have a PM. I'm guessing that would be a cardinal sin on ML. From what I've read when you're on the app, it doesn't tell you if they have notifications or PMs, so I thought I was being nice/helpful.
Just reading through this and I had NO idea people moved over to TIP. I rarely lurk on other boards, I just post here and S&B. What prompted the move???
Same here. I've been busy the past few weeks and noticed that this board seemed a bit dead but I had no idea that we got ditched again.
See above. The "haha" was supposed to make it lighthearted and a little sarcastic. I really don't believe that the whole board hates me.
It could have been said "well the board dynamic is such that my personality annoys many of the posters there, and it seems as though I'm not a welcome participant" ... But alas "TIP hates me" was short and sweet.