Can we get some kind of drama up in here?

[jojoandleo]

Jul 16, 2014 14:14:46 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Jul 16, 2014 14:00:41 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

I think I'm too ADD for two penises.  A girl and a guy gives me options.

Maybe if I was the extra it would be okay for a guy/girl. I don't really want to watch someone I'm with hook up with someone else. Ginger can tell me about having sex with someone else and I'm fine with it. But watching it wouldn't work for me. 

I'm one of those crazy jealous people. I don't want to hear about H fucking other people before me. I know it happened, and I don't care, but I don't need details!

I could not watch H go down on another girl. Nope. He can go down on me, or she can and he can watch, but no fucking way am I watching him give someone else an orgasm. I GET ALL THE ORGASMS!!!!!!!

I wish I wasn't so jealous, because a threesome SOUNDS hot, an if I wasn't in a relationship with either party maybe I could, but not with H. nooooooooope!

[jojoandleo]

Jul 17, 2014 11:16:21 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Jul 17, 2014 10:41:27 GMT -5 mp said:

See above. The "haha" was supposed to make it lighthearted and a little sarcastic. I really don't believe that the whole board hates me.

It could have been said "well the board dynamic is such that my personality annoys many of the posters there, and it seems as though I'm not a welcome participant" ... But alas "TIP hates me" was short and sweet.

Ok.

To be fair, the few times I've read something on TiP lately I have seen negative comments aimed at MP. I have also seen a poster flat out tell her to leave TiP. I don't know the whole story or what went on to create this rift, but I wouldn't feel comfy posting there if I was MP at the moment. I don't think MP was trying to create drama by saying TiP hates her, more saying- it's a welcoming board if others want to post there, but she will not be moving (with some TiC.)

[Muddled]

Jul 17, 2014 14:22:03 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Jul 17, 2014 11:16:21 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Ok.

To be fair, the few times I've read something on TiP lately I have seen negative comments aimed at MP. I have also seen a poster flat out tell her to leave TiP. I don't know the whole story or what went on to create this rift, but I wouldn't feel comfy posting there if I was MP at the moment. I don't think MP was trying to create drama by saying TiP hates her, more saying- it's a welcoming board if others want to post there, but she will not be moving (with some TiC.)

Ok.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Jul 17, 2014 14:22:03 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

Jul 17, 2014 11:16:21 GMT -5 Muddled said:

Ok.

To be fair, the few times I've read something on TiP lately I have seen negative comments aimed at MP. I have also seen a poster flat out tell her to leave TiP. I don't know the whole story or what went on to create this rift, but I wouldn't feel comfy posting there if I was MP at the moment. I don't think MP was trying to create drama by saying TiP hates her, more saying- it's a welcoming board if others want to post there, but she will not be moving (with some TiC.)

I have too, and this all makes me sad.  Every time I pop over to see what's up because people I like are hanging out over there, I see comments that aren't quite that veiled about the GTG shit.  Jesus.  It makes me sad.  I felt weird too right afterward because the inside jokes were banging, but I figured it would die down.  Now it feels like it's more inside-jokier than before.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Jul 17, 2014 16:04:21 GMT -5 pinkplasticdoll said:

Jul 17, 2014 15:05:46 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

I have too, and this all makes me sad.  Every time I pop over to see what's up because people I like are hanging out over there, I see comments that aren't quite that veiled about the GTG shit.  Jesus.  It makes me sad.  I felt weird too right afterward because the inside jokes were banging, but I figured it would die down.  Now it feels like it's more inside-jokier than before.

The only inside joke that keeps getting thrown around is me saying NO INSIDE JOKES ARE ALLOWED. So I am not sure how more inside jokes are being thrown around now than before.

Okay, so what I mean is, several people, but mp most vocally indicated that the jokes after the gtg made her feel excluded. So there was shit that happened over that. Now there are references to the event still (and I'm pretty sure the woot no drama posts an the gated community jokes are related but I suspect that will be denied so whatevs) and that also feels exclusionary. It bums me out to see posters I like go a little mean girls over there.

[idahome]

Jul 17, 2014 15:05:46 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

Jul 17, 2014 14:22:03 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

To be fair, the few times I've read something on TiP lately I have seen negative comments aimed at MP. I have also seen a poster flat out tell her to leave TiP. I don't know the whole story or what went on to create this rift, but I wouldn't feel comfy posting there if I was MP at the moment. I don't think MP was trying to create drama by saying TiP hates her, more saying- it's a welcoming board if others want to post there, but she will not be moving (with some TiC.)

I have too, and this all makes me sad.  Every time I pop over to see what's up because people I like are hanging out over there, I see comments that aren't quite that veiled about the GTG shit.  Jesus.  It makes me sad.  I felt weird too right afterward because the inside jokes were banging, but I figured it would die down.  Now it feels like it's more inside-jokier than before.

I agree.  I thought I was imagining things, but am comforted to know other people noticed it as well.

[starburst604]

Jul 17, 2014 19:25:07 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

Jul 17, 2014 16:04:21 GMT -5 pinkplasticdoll said:

The only inside joke that keeps getting thrown around is me saying NO INSIDE JOKES ARE ALLOWED. So I am not sure how more inside jokes are being thrown around now than before.

Okay, so what I mean is, several people, but mp most vocally indicated that the jokes after the gtg made her feel excluded. So there was shit that happened over that. Now there are references to the event still (and I'm pretty sure the woot no drama posts an the gated community jokes are related but I suspect that will be denied so whatevs) and that also feels exclusionary. It bums me out to see posters I like go a little mean girls over there.

Yup. It's pretty high-schoolish over there. It's been kind of sad to see some people behave this way, because I don't think it's who they really are.

[winecat]

Jul 17, 2014 20:59:09 GMT -5 starburst604 said:

Jul 17, 2014 19:25:07 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

Okay, so what I mean is, several people, but mp most vocally indicated that the jokes after the gtg made her feel excluded. So there was shit that happened over that. Now there are references to the event still (and I'm pretty sure the woot no drama posts an the gated community jokes are related but I suspect that will be denied so whatevs) and that also feels exclusionary. It bums me out to see posters I like go a little mean girls over there.

Yup. It's pretty high-schoolish over there. It's been kind of sad to see some people behave this way, because I don't think it's who they really are.

The whole thing is seriously bumming me out. 

[jigsy]

Jul 17, 2014 9:16:36 GMT -5 winecat said:

Jul 16, 2014 23:54:08 GMT -5 jigsy said:

WineCat - it's not the fact that you didn't want to post the local board info for all to see, it's that you announced you would pm the info. You can just pm people without making a public announcement.

Gotcha.  Thank you for letting me know.  On other boards I always see people telling people they have PMs. Often times people will create a whole separate post to tell someone they have a PM.  I'm guessing that would be a cardinal sin on ML.  From what I've read when you're on the app, it doesn't tell you if they have notifications or PMs, so I thought I was being nice/helpful. 

Eh...some people are just weird about it...the ones who were picking on you. But you will see other poster announce PM's...so really, there is no hard and fast rule, but if you are not on the "beloved by all" list, you will probably get shit. 

[winecat]

Jul 17, 2014 23:06:49 GMT -5 jigsy said:

Jul 17, 2014 9:16:36 GMT -5 winecat said:

Gotcha.  Thank you for letting me know.  On other boards I always see people telling people they have PMs. Often times people will create a whole separate post to tell someone they have a PM.  I'm guessing that would be a cardinal sin on ML.  From what I've read when you're on the app, it doesn't tell you if they have notifications or PMs, so I thought I was being nice/helpful. 

Eh...some people are just weird about it...the ones who were picking on you. But you will see other poster announce PM's...so really, there is no hard and fast rule, but if you are not on the "beloved by all" list, you will probably get shit. 

Which brings us back to the "ML is scary" perception.  Ends meat.  

[stephreloaded]

I feel sooo fucking lost!