That makes me so sad for her even if she knows. Poor girl could probably do so much better and get guy who actually appreciates her and treats her right
x2, thats so sad - i can't see anyway that she she will end up happy in that situation.
It is sad. A part of me wants to be all "you're an adult! You know what this is! GTFO!" But a bigger part wants to hug her and take her away. Fortunately I'm not really around it. No one likes RM, so I rarely see him.
Also, another random...I think I want to get some therapy...I feel like it would be valuable to talk to someone about everything going on in my head.
But the whole process is a little daunting to me. Call a pre-approval line, pick a random person, go and hope you like them.
I just want to feel better right now.
Hugs & hope you feel better soon.
Therapy has been good for me - talking everything out with the counselor and also with the girl she introduced me to has been invaluable. I was fortunate to find someone I really like through the pre-approval/EAP system. I initially set up an appointment with two people just to hedge my bets and I did as much research as possible beforehand. I looked at the list of available people on the EAP website and searched for ones with websites. It probably isn't the best method, but I find that doctors & professionals with good quality websites and useful information on them tend to be better. Plus I totally judge on the picture they post on the website - are they smiling, frowning...
Also, another random...I think I want to get some therapy...I feel like it would be valuable to talk to someone about everything going on in my head.
But the whole process is a little daunting to me. Call a pre-approval line, pick a random person, go and hope you like them.
I just want to feel better right now.
Hugs & hope you feel better soon.
Therapy has been good for me - talking everything out with the counselor and also with the girl she introduced me to has been invaluable. I was fortunate to find someone I really like through the pre-approval/EAP system. I initially set up an appointment with two people just to hedge my bets and I did as much research as possible beforehand. I looked at the list of available people on the EAP website and searched for ones with websites. It probably isn't the best method, but I find that doctors & professionals with good quality websites and useful information on them tend to be better. Plus I totally judge on the picture they post on the website - are they smiling, frowning...
That's basically how I found mine too. I knew I wanted a female that was slightly older so I didn't feel like it was a peer. After I got a list from my work EAP I looked for owns that had websites with good info. I honestly picked that woman I am seeing because she looked nice in her picture (like a motherly type figure) and she had some great quotes about relationships and healing from grief on her site. Maybe not the best method but it works out well. I love talking to her.
I only went to a therapist because I promise my parents I would try it but I can honestly say that seeing a therapist has been the best thing I have done.
onedayatatime I wish I could find someone like the girl your therapist introduced you too. It would be so helpful to have someone to talk to that gets it cause they are going through it right now - rather than looking back on it.
I was going to go to visit Utah for the weekend, but my jiggle-care fell through.
I'm meh about it. While I wanted to get out, it's a lot of work to be the strong person everyone seems to think I am.
Aw, hugs. My house is crazy tiny for FIVE dogs, lol - but if you're ever in a bind know that jiggles would be welcome to come play and cuddle at my place for a weekend.
Let me know if you ever coming to Utah and we can have our own therapy bitchfest