Post by riverpestie on Jul 18, 2014 12:13:39 GMT -5
Saturday night I received inappropriate texts from a guy that I have been friends with since 1999. He has been married for almost ten years now and I had no idea he ever felt this way about me and he wanted to exchange pictures as well as other things and he wanted me to keep everything "pc."
His wife is awesome, and I love her to death.
While I continued to text him, I did not send any pictures to him and I didn't say anything inappropriate, I asked several times about his wife, their kids, etc...
I apparently continued to engage (is that the word I am thinking of?) him with the conversation and I shouldn't have... (In my defense, I honestly didn't feel as though I was doing this, however, FI felt differently).
At the time I already had a few drinks, so I wasn't thinking completely clearly and as soon as I met up with FI later on that night, I told him about it and let him read all the texts that were exchanged. FI wasn't upset with me, but he certainly was upset with the guy, especially when one of the texts that this guy called me his "unicorn" and something along the lines that he wants to please me. :?
Next time (if there is a next time) that happens, I am just going to say "this conversation is over" and not respond anymore.
Stbx lost his job last week (which is NBD, he could have a great job tomorrow if he wanted). Instead, he is going to collect unemployment and spend the rest of the summer on the Cape with his family, and I am SO jealous. AND, I am a little sad that he will no longer be sitting in our old apartment, feeling bad about himself and begging me for another (or in reality, millionth) chance.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by Wanderista on Jul 18, 2014 13:35:55 GMT -5
My mega flameful is that I don't like basketball, no interest. I also don't like Kris Humphries because he is not exactly the brightest crayon in the box. Generally speaking, ick. Apparently, he is now going to be playing in DC for a couple of years and I might possibly go to a game sometime just to check out his body. This might have some purely visual appeal. I'd go if a friend wants to go. I have one who probably would.
Post by pantsoffdanceoff on Jul 18, 2014 15:00:25 GMT -5
Also, I'm pretty sure I'm bad at flirting. A guy on match last night messaged me and said "You're pretty." Honestly, I was impressed that he used the proper "you're" so I responded with "You had me at 'you're'." and then a winky face emoji. He did not respond.
Also, I'm pretty sure I'm bad at flirting. A guy on match last night messaged me and said "You're pretty." Honestly, I was impressed that he used the proper "you're" so I responded with "You had me at 'you're'." and then a winky face emoji. He did not respond.
Ha, I think it's hilarious. If a guy said that to me I would totally be into him. For me, bad grammar = deal breaker. It would drive me insane!
Post by pinkdutchtulips on Jul 18, 2014 16:56:44 GMT -5
its been bugging me the last few days ...
when it comes to kitchen appliances they are designed for a specific use NOT to be museum pieces. if your housekeeper scratches the stainless on your 3k Wolf range UNDER the grates, it's not worthy of a snitfit involving claims to multiple insurance companies.
bought to you by someone LIVID over their housekeeper accidentally scratching their 3yo Wolf stainless steel cooktop ... dude it's a stove, do you really expect it to stay scratch free while .. gasp .. cooking with it.
when it comes to kitchen appliances they are designed for a specific use NOT to be museum pieces. if your housekeeper scratches the stainless on your 3k Wolf range UNDER the grates, it's not worthy of a snitfit involving claims to multiple insurance companies.
bought to you by someone LIVID over their housekeeper accidentally scratching their 3yo Wolf stainless steel cooktop ... dude it's a stove, do you really expect it to stay scratch free while .. gasp .. cooking with it.
I like the idea of a MMW threesome, but I was thinking about whether I'd be willing to do it with my SO. I realized that the idea of being with a guy who was also really into guys would be a huge turnoff to me. Which is completely hypocritical, because I'm occasionally into women and have been a regular part of a MWW back in the day. I feel like a homophobe, because I'd have trouble dating a bisexual man. I've been thinking about it, and it really has more to do with vanity and insecurity, but it still makes me feel like a gross jerk for not being more open-minded.
I like the idea of a MMW threesome, but I was thinking about whether I'd be willing to do it with my SO. I realized that the idea of being with a guy who was also really into guys would be a huge turnoff to me. Which is completely hypocritical, because I'm occasionally into women and have been a regular part of a MWW back in the day. I feel like a homophobe, because I'd have trouble dating a bisexual man. I've been thinking about it, and it really has more to do with vanity and insecurity, but it still makes me feel like a gross jerk for not being more open-minded.
I don't think the men necessarily always participate with each other in MMW threesomes. At least in my fantasy ones they don't lol. All the focus can be on the woman.
I like the idea of a MMW threesome, but I was thinking about whether I'd be willing to do it with my SO. I realized that the idea of being with a guy who was also really into guys would be a huge turnoff to me. Which is completely hypocritical, because I'm occasionally into women and have been a regular part of a MWW back in the day. I feel like a homophobe, because I'd have trouble dating a bisexual man. I've been thinking about it, and it really has more to do with vanity and insecurity, but it still makes me feel like a gross jerk for not being more open-minded.
I don't think the men necessarily always participate with each other in MMW threesomes. At least in my fantasy ones they don't lol. All the focus can be on the woman.
I like the idea of a MMW threesome, but I was thinking about whether I'd be willing to do it with my SO. I realized that the idea of being with a guy who was also really into guys would be a huge turnoff to me. Which is completely hypocritical, because I'm occasionally into women and have been a regular part of a MWW back in the day. I feel like a homophobe, because I'd have trouble dating a bisexual man. I've been thinking about it, and it really has more to do with vanity and insecurity, but it still makes me feel like a gross jerk for not being more open-minded.
I don't think the men necessarily always participate with each other in MMW threesomes. At least in my fantasy ones they don't lol. All the focus can be on the woman.
That's how they are in my head. I'm always the guest of honor!