It's going to be so hot today. My new kitchen doesn't have AC so it got to 100 degrees yesterday. I'm trying to leave early but just got my coffee brewed.
Post by onedayatatime on Jul 20, 2014 8:48:58 GMT -5
Whew, I had a close call yesterday - I was going to take my visiting friends to a local brewery yesterday but we were running late. Good thing- via Facebook I see that stbx was there with his friends and possible gf ( he still won't admit it). That would have been awkward.
My potential date didn't happen this weekend. We couldn't coordinate our schedules. Maybe sometime this week would be better.
On another note: I have my doctor's appt tomorrow. Please keep me in your thoughts, prayers, or whatever you do! No human or animal sacrifices please! I need "no kidney stent" vibes!
Post by WinterIsComing on Jul 20, 2014 9:15:28 GMT -5
I got back from vacation last night and have so much to so before tomorrow. I feel like I need a vacation from my vacation since it was such a busy trip.
Glad you avoided that situation onedayatatime! It was definitely not fun!
Post by jellymankelly on Jul 20, 2014 10:56:19 GMT -5
I'm sad. XH has let me down on several things lately, all work-related on his part, but it's just a reminder that I'm going to spend the next 14 or so years trying to cover up his lack of accountability to try to protect the kids' feelings. I don't care if he lets me down about taking them for certain weekends so I can do things I want to do (I'm a big girl, I can handle it), but I do care that I can't tell them about things he has planned for them until the last minute because I'm afraid "something will come up" and they'll be let down. I wanted so much better for them than that. Whomp whommmmp.
I feel dumb for being frustrated about it, because it's all so trivial (he backed out on his scheduled vacation week with the kids, backed out on taking them for a weekend I was supposed to be going OOT for a concert a for a band that he's been consistently keeping me from seeing in one way or another since 2009, and backed out on taking them the night of my BF's birthday because he's going to be OOT), but I feel like the things I put on our shared "Kid Calendar" are seen as optional and his are always more important.
Unrelated: I wish I could have worked it out to come to Nashville this weekend!
I need to make my grocery list. I am going to a fancier version of Kroger (still a Kroger, just fancier) that I found up the road. I may pick up some Chinese food afterward.
I'm suppose to help my friend paint his house. I'm hoping he's too hungover and cancels. I'm still laying in bed and it's glorious! Later today some grocery shopping and then more laying around.
I had fun taking the kids to Orlando for the weekend with my friend and her kids. But by the end of the day I was a bit sad that I wasn't there as party of a "whole"family with a husband/dad instead of my gf. I don't want to be married to my ex, but I was a bit sad about being divorced at the end of the day. If that makes any sense.
I get this. I took DS2 to a birthday party yesterday and had this feeling.
I had fun taking the kids to Orlando for the weekend with my friend and her kids. But by the end of the day I was a bit sad that I wasn't there as party of a "whole"family with a husband/dad instead of my gf. I don't want to be married to my ex, but I was a bit sad about being divorced at the end of the day. If that makes any sense.
I've been getting this feeling a lot when I'm out with ds and see other happy families. It sucks
Shift #7 out of 9 tonight. Parents come on Tuesday and I have to work that night. I have to find time to clean my house. Ugh. Excited to see them but not so excited about the lack of sleep coming up.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."