Post by feelthelight on Jul 22, 2014 9:59:56 GMT -5
Wwyd? Best friend and I have been hanging out with an old college friend of hers and his friend. She was initially interested in someone else and I told her I was into this guy “Sam.” We all hang out frequently. I’m shy and she is outgoing and very beautiful. I’m always a little insecure about my looks/weight when compared to her. She gets a lot of male attention. I really have not made a move at all. I have had the feeling he is into her, but tried to chalk it off as my insecurities. I know she likes him….we have had this conversation. She wants me to go after him and says she won’t ever risk our friendship .
This whole dynamic has gotten weird for me. We don’t want any problems in our friendship. I’m thinking I should just keep it all friends. We don’t want to ruin the friendship with the guys as well. Should I make a move and see if he’s interested? Or should I talk to her and we can agree to just stay friends with him? i feel like i am in high school..haha
Post by cuddlyevil on Jul 22, 2014 10:08:30 GMT -5
Do you think it would cause a problem if you approached him and he said "no thanks" but then started dating your friend? If so, then you both may want to let it lie.
Post by feelthelight on Jul 22, 2014 13:32:28 GMT -5
I guess that's what I'm not sure about. Is it my insecurities or is her really interested in her. If he wasn't interested in me and started dating her i would feel jealous. I may not be able to hang around them for a while until i got over it. I would get over it. thanks ladies.
Wwyd? Best friend and I have been hanging out with an old college friend of hers and his friend. She was initially interested in someone else and I told her I was into this guy “Sam.” We all hang out frequently. I’m shy and she is outgoing and very beautiful. I’m always a little insecure about my looks/weight when compared to her. She gets a lot of male attention. I really have not made a move at all. I have had the feeling he is into her, but tried to chalk it off as my insecurities. I know she likes him….we have had this conversation. She wants me to go after him and says she won’t ever risk our friendship .
This whole dynamic has gotten weird for me. We don’t want any problems in our friendship. I’m thinking I should just keep it all friends. We don’t want to ruin the friendship with the guys as well. Should I make a move and see if he’s interested? Or should I talk to her and we can agree to just stay friends with him? i feel like i am in high school..haha