If you have a really bad day and DH has plans that night...

[VdkaLime]

What we deserve and what we get is often different. Is there anyone else you can call who could help you? If not, call him home and make it up to him another day.

[Yankees21]

If I really needed him, yes I would ask unless what he was doing was extremely important. In your case, I would definitely call. Sorry you're struggling

[lilac05]

If I felt like I was having a legitimate panic attack or a full migraine, I wouldn't hesitate to call. I would apologize profusely & encourage him to reschedule ASAP. He would be upset if I didn't do that.

If I just had a terrible day & a bad headache, I would push through the night & let him have his night out.

[sawyerthedestroyer]

Generally I suck it up, but if I am vomiting I call H.

[idoinjuly]

If my kids were still up and I had a migraine, I probably would.

[lime]

In this situation, I would absolutely call him.

[ZoeHart]

In the situation you are describing, yes I would absolutely call him. I would think that even though he doesn't go out with his friends all that often, if he knew you needed him he'd want to be there for you so call him! Sorry you are having such a rough day.

[nerdicorn]

I would. My husband gets upset if I'm struggling but try to hide it. You know he needs a night off and you're good for him "making it up", and in the mean time he probably would prefer being there for you if that's what you need.

I'm sorry you're feeling bad :/

[Alex]

Mine would want me to call. After many years of marriage I have learned to let him help me.

[Deleted]

I wouldn't ask him to come home but if he knew I was having that bad of a day he would probably cancel plans to stay home with me anyway.

[lime]

I'm glad he ended up coming home to help you out, bluesky.

[TrudyCampbell]

If I really had a bad day then yes, I would ask him to come home.

[revolution]

I would've sucked it up and done the bare minimal to get by and keep everyone alive. Unless I was vomiting, then I might call.

[thatgirl2478]

Jul 22, 2014 21:54:46 GMT -5 lilac05 said:

If I felt like I was having a legitimate panic attack or a full migraine, I wouldn't hesitate to call. I would apologize profusely & encourage him to reschedule ASAP. He would be upset if I didn't do that.

If I just had a terrible day & a bad headache, I would push through the night & let him have his night out.

This.