Seems appropriate to XP...

[berbles]

It's OW day on ML!  Thought I'd share my coincidentally-timed story with SO too!


The 19 year old (well, she's 20 now, like that matters) approached me yesterday.



XH and I are friendly, we both still go to soccer games and see each other at the tailgates frequently. Last week, XH and my BF hugged it out and put all the drama behind them.



Yesterday was a game day. I'm standing at my car putting my jersey on, and she walks up and asks to talk. Uh, ok, I guess. She blabbed on and on and on about being sorry, feeling guilty, etc. They aren't dating any more, but they're still friends. She says, "You have every right to hate me, blah blah blah." I said, "Look, I don't have time or space in my life to hate anyone. Move on, because I have. I'm not angry with you. You didn't make a vow to me. You didn't cause the problems in our marriage, they were already there. You did some stupid shit, but I've always known that you would come to regret that. I don't care anymore."



She cried. I tried really hard not to let her see me rolling my eyes, lol.



Read more: pandce.proboards.com/thread/351157/woman#ixzz38QFwTXb9

[mcc]

Wow. I think you handled it really well.

[WinterIsComing]

HAHA!! Apologizing you to try to get over her guilt is such a selfish thing to do.

You handled it well though!

[WinterIsComing]

I just read your post on ML. Her crying and you hugging her just to end it makes this story even better!

[berbles]

Why be angry when you can laugh at the stupid allllll day long?!

[kanga1]

You handled it great!!!

[locarb]

You handled it very maturely. :::applause:::

You are in a much better place than her or your XH. Continue to be happy!!!

[lexxasaurus]

I'm impressed at how you handled it. I think I'd be so thrown off that I'd get out something like "What the motherfuck?" and be unable to think of anything else, lol.

[onedayatatime]

I'm very impressed with how you handled that - you definitely are in a better place than she is.


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[MauMau]

You are a much better person than me. Because if I ever saw the OW of my story. I would slap her across the face and call her a cunt. But mostly because she cyber stalked me and sent me the most vague and disgusting FB messaging asking me to be friends with her.

[1confused1]

You're amazing!!

[berbles]

Jul 24, 2014 22:29:57 GMT -5 MauMau said:

You are a much better person than me. Because if I ever saw the OW of my story. I would slap her across the face and call her a cunt. But mostly because she cyber stalked me and sent me the most vague and disgusting FB messaging asking me to be friends with her.

I don't blame you! 

This is girl isn't vicious, just dumb as a box of rocks. 

[MauMau]

pandora I trust karma will get them all.

Yes, she was a peach. Absolutely crazy. My ex could not deal with my mental illness at all but went and comforted her through her own. *eyeroll* I'm relived to know that it want because he couldn't be there for me but because he has a wandering dick. Oh well.

[berbles]

Jul 25, 2014 11:52:37 GMT -5 pandora said:

Jul 24, 2014 22:29:57 GMT -5 MauMau said:

You are a much better person than me. Because if I ever saw the OW of my story. I would slap her across the face and call her a cunt. But mostly because she cyber stalked me and sent me the most vague and disgusting FB messaging asking me to be friends with her.

She sounds like a real peach. When I say real peach, I mean crazy. I'm glad that you're done with both of them! Good riddance! I'm sorry that that happened to you.

berbles , I bet she wishes she were like you or could be like you when she grows up. Seriously. I'm shocked that she's hanging around YOUR group since they're done now. Karma gets people. It'll get her and MauMau's OW, too. Trust. 

It shocks me too.  90% of the people in the group know exactly what she is.  Which only reinforces my zen attitude.  I love sitting back and watching people drown in their own drama.

And luckily, she's in college about 4 hours away, so she's not around most of the time.

[MyName]

Good for you. You are so much better than that shit!

I would have been rolling my eyes all over the place though. I can't control it. lol

[peppermint]

You handled that like a fucking boss. Good for you. I admire your strength!