I don't know why I am bothering, but she did. She created a troll by the name of BettyWhite and trolled people. And BettyWhite was not a nice troll.
Remember that Annica?
I mean, obviously you can believe what you want Scotty, but she admitted it and some members even got messaged apologies.
Let me see the receipts. anja is more genuine than most. Maybe she had a bad day, and got sassy or spoke up for herself. I've seen her go down in flames for simply being too nice.
OUPink didn't want to discuss her stepkids I think? I feel like that was the root of a greater argument? I was bummed to see her go but the flounce was dramatic. Then again I am the type to just disappear without comment, lol
Yes that's it. Well I think it was more that she revealed her H had a child somewhere and people were all WUT and she was breezy . Idk that was a long time ago
My brain came out with the baby because I totally forgot about that BettyWhite business. That was some crazy shit. Also hi ESD!!
*waves*
I'm surprised you forgot since she trolled you too.
Reading that thread is a trip, lol!
The only person I remembered outright is JL because of the viciousness and personal-ness of her attacks and she just wouldn't stop. It was like she was obsessed which creeped me out.
Obviously I put a lot of stock in internet people, lol.. Unless I met you, then me love you long time!
In any case I think of myself as a MLer now, and I swear I wasn't trying to start shit by asking about this. I thought this was like gypsy business and there was a definitive conclusion. Sorry if I've upset anyone.
My memory is shit, but I was around for it. I will say I don't think there was personal info posted, I can't recall, maybe @kuus can elaborate. But she was a regular who created a very hurtful AE.
OMG. Are you serious? Common, Motzie. I never once outed anything. I did create BettyWhite and the purpose was to ask $ issues on MM. I then didn't log out and went into TIP with it. I got into it with HS/Imoan and called them bully's. I was outed quickly and that was it. There was nothing more to it than that. I called them bully's. Man, you accuse me of some shit and then admit that you don't think there was personal info outed. WTF.
I have no issue with you, whether or not that concerns you. My only issue with everything back then was that I really loved the group and people and the climate changed almost overnight when Imoan/Habs became what they are known for today. People took sides and I was one of a few who called their shit for what it was.
I'm sorry. Kuus generally doesn't forget so I have her the benefit of the doubt. I sincerely apologize. You and I always got along, and the board as a whole forgave you because it was just so out of character. I should clarify, calling them out as bully's is fine if that's your opinion, it was only the AE that everyone objected to.
I hope this isn't going to turn into one of THOSE threads!! ::shudder::
On TN Amber both scared the shit out of me and pissed me off so much it felt like my heart was going to jump out of my chest. This was years ago. I've since calmed down and gotten over it. In fact we kind of kissed and made up at one point.
I think it's important not to let internet discussions and internet strangers not get so important in your life that you're stressed about it. Life is too short.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I started reading the flameful post and got to page 4 and didn't understand most of it, so I gave up. But, I saw a few posts by jaylea. What happened to her? I didn't "know" her, but she was one of my favorite old posters. She'd post on MM sometimes.
She got a new job. I haven't talked to her in a while but last time I did, she was doing well. I hope she still is.
I liked Habbs from our days calling the crazies out on Blended Families.
I only knew her briefly on here, but from what I saw, she kinda seemed like unhinged trash.
She was more put together on BF. I think because it was more of a specific topic over there about how most of the posters resents their step kids/bio mom's.
So kuus, you weren't talking shit about ML peeps on the FB chat? You disappeared for quite a while after that.
I was talking shit about Mekia in one thread, sure, but it was nothing I hadn't also said here. No, I was gone for career reasons (still why I'm kind of spottily here).
OMG. Are you serious? Common, Motzie. I never once outed anything. I did create BettyWhite and the purpose was to ask $ issues on MM. I then didn't log out and went into TIP with it. I got into it with HS/Imoan and called them bully's. I was outed quickly and that was it. There was nothing more to it than that. I called them bully's. Man, you accuse me of some shit and then admit that you don't think there was personal info outed. WTF.
I have no issue with you, whether or not that concerns you. My only issue with everything back then was that I really loved the group and people and the climate changed almost overnight when Imoan/Habs became what they are known for today. People took sides and I was one of a few who called their shit for what it was.
I'm sorry. Kuus generally doesn't forget so I have her the benefit of the doubt. I sincerely apologize. You and I always got along, and the board as a whole forgave you because it was just so out of character. I should clarify, calling them out as bully's is fine if that's your opinion, it was only the AE that everyone objected to.
BettyWhite was the first AE, yes. That wasn't what had Annica asked to leave this time.
Yeah, I was LovelyMissNikki! I changed my name when we came over here because I felt like my nest name didn't register as a joke like I had intended, lol. I got a lot of "YOU AREN'T LOVELY AT ALL!!" comments.
In any case I was definitely a bitch on wheels back then (maybe I still am?? I think I've mellowed and changed considerably but maybe I'm not the best judge of my own character). I was going through shitty relationship stuff, some misdiagnoses of my PTSD, and was in general a pretty unhappy person, not that it necessarily excuses any cruelty I expressed towards people. I've never really tried to hide that that's who I was so I hope no one feels like I showed up here and tried to be secret squirrel about who I was back on TN. I took a hiatus from the internet in general to get my shit in order and maybe start to be a better person and then came back because I'm at home a lot more now and dealing with PPA, and shooting the shit makes me feel better and fills a lot of social needs I have since I don't get out nearly as much. I'M USING YOU ALL.
So you have a baby? (Obviously.) Congrats! Sorry about the PPA. I feel like we didn't get along back in the day(?), but we are getting along fine now, so okay. lol
Yes, I had him just a few days before you had E I think! And I'm happily married! And despite the PPA my life is going really well after a few years of hell (late term pregnancy loss and some fertility issues) and I feel like a much happier person, lol. My perspective on things have changed quite a bit. And yeah we didn't get along (though it's not like we had cat fights) I don't think, but I definitely like you now and am like "wtf was my issue?"
Same with SueSue. I think I called her obnoxious back on TN and now I'm all "I love SueSue!"
Haha, no, anxiety. The lesser known cousin of Post Partum Depression. Sometimes it manifests as OCD, etc.. in my case, I just get random panic attacks about the dumbest shit ever.
Can someone PM me what exactly happened? I fell off the face of the planet and then when I came back everyone was like "fuck them". I've done some Google fu in an attempt to piece shit together but apparently I suck.
Eh. It was a lot of arm waving conspiracy theory nonsense that happened several times when discussions that happened here spun off into something related on the (not at all secret) Facebook TIP group (that existed from when the Nest used to randomly go down from crappy upgrades).
Every so often someone on the FB board would turn into that crazy aunt who tries to convince two other family members that they're talking shit about each other, and come here all "did you know that this fb board that everyone was publicly invited to join several times EXISTS, and that occasionally something on ML is discussed there?" then cue the conspiracy panic.
The most recent time this happened was after we asked Coconut to leave the fb group, I believe, but I haven't been around much, so there could have been something more recent.
That's actually not what I meant at all. I meant that they were talking shit about me personally. And when it got back to me, I was done.
Eh. It was a lot of arm waving conspiracy theory nonsense that happened several times when discussions that happened here spun off into something related on the (not at all secret) Facebook TIP group (that existed from when the Nest used to randomly go down from crappy upgrades).
Every so often someone on the FB board would turn into that crazy aunt who tries to convince two other family members that they're talking shit about each other, and come here all "did you know that this fb board that everyone was publicly invited to join several times EXISTS, and that occasionally something on ML is discussed there?" then cue the conspiracy panic.
The most recent time this happened was after we asked Coconut to leave the fb group, I believe, but I haven't been around much, so there could have been something more recent.
That's actually not what I meant at all. I meant that they were talking shit about me personally. And when it got back to me, I was done.
I honestly have no memory of anyone there having anything bad to say about you, and apparently neither does anyone else.