@cse1960, I like you. But you really really need to stop recommending to people to just go out and buy vibrators.
It's so aggressive and clinical. Like "I know you need SEXUAL RELEASE, so you should VIBRATE YOUR CLITORIS. So often that you probably should purchase TWO MECHANICAL DEVICES for the SEXUAL VIBRATION you need for variety and backup so that you DON'T HAVE INDISCRIMINATE SEXUAL P-IN-V INTERCOURSE INSTEAD."
Yeah it must be the fact that I've lived on my own for 5 years, have a degree and am in a professional program that makes me immature.
Why do I even justify myself to you people? Silly, vapid little me!
Things like this response - hell, like this entire post - make you seem petty and defensive. Maybe you're not, but when you keep reacting like this, what are we supposed to assume about you.
Now go ahead. Say something about my tits or how I'm bitter and old.
Of course 'strangers' judged you. Hell, I judged the crap out of you over that silly border hook-up thing.
The very few comments you got about going out dancing after your break-up and your subsequent "fuck you" to Queen Dick, Hibernating Bear confirms to me that you're a lovable ninny. But girl...you need to grow a thicker skin here. Or if you keep making posts like this, you're going to get hurt.
And about @cse1960's comments: that IS how she rolls, and I see no reason for her to slow it.
ETA: And it HASN'T been two years, because this board has only been in existence since May 2012. Unless you were dating this ex-bf while on your border excursion.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Suesue, I like you. But you really really need to stop recommending to people to just go out and buy vibrators.
It's so aggressive and clinical. Like "I know you need SEXUAL RELEASE, so you should VIBRATE YOUR CLITORIS. So often that you probably should purchase TWO MECHANICAL DEVICES for the SEXUAL VIBRATION you need for variety and backup so that you DON'T HAVE INDISCRIMINATE SEXUAL P-IN-V INTERCOURSE INSTEAD."
Dude. Enough.
Lolol! Omg
I never noticed, she recommends it a lot? That's too funny.
The thing about adults is they do what they feel is right for them, regardless of what other people think. Part of maturity is realizing that you shouldn't live your life based on the opinions of others.
The flip side to that is, as an adult, you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. So the lesson here is:
Suesue, I like you. But you really really need to stop recommending to people to just go out and buy vibrators.
It's so aggressive and clinical. Like "I know you need SEXUAL RELEASE, so you should VIBRATE YOUR CLITORIS. So often that you probably should purchase TWO MECHANICAL DEVICES for the SEXUAL VIBRATION you need for variety and backup so that you DON'T HAVE INDISCRIMINATE SEXUAL P-IN-V INTERCOURSE INSTEAD."
Dude. Enough.
Lolol! Omg
I never noticed, she recommends it a lot? That's too funny.
Every.single.time someone is going through a breakup and/or expresses loneliness and a desire for intimacy without a defined partner.
I seriously want to know which divorcee she's calling out. That's some kinda balls.
I apologize in advance bc this is a post and run, but I *think* I might know who she's referring to but a) I don't want to say her name in case I'm wrong and b) the poster I'm thinking Of does get shit, but not exactly for dating post divorce too soon (that I'm aware of) so I could be wrong
Suesue, I like you. But you really really need to stop recommending to people to just go out and buy vibrators.
It's so aggressive and clinical. Like "I know you need SEXUAL RELEASE, so you should VIBRATE YOUR CLITORIS. So often that you probably should purchase TWO MECHANICAL DEVICES for the SEXUAL VIBRATION you need for variety and backup so that you DON'T HAVE INDISCRIMINATE SEXUAL P-IN-V INTERCOURSE INSTEAD."
I seriously want to know which divorcee she's calling out. That's some kinda balls.
I apologize in advance bc this is a post and run, but I *think* I might know who she's referring to but a) I don't want to say her name in case I'm wrong and b) the poster I'm thinking Of does get shit, but not exactly for dating post divorce too soon (that I'm aware of) so I could be wrong
Ps: it's not you
I'm fairly certain it's me?
I have no cares to give regarding what anyone thinks of my choosing to date or not though.
I feel like everyone needs to focus on helping her with the outfits, because that's where the real tragedy is happening.
Meh. Hindsight has shown me that all young people in bars look both fabulous and ridiculous at the same time. Youth and confidence are pretty much the only requirements for looking good in a fun, social setting.
ETA: Well, not the only requirements of course. I should say if you have those two in combination you can pull off pretty much anything.
I feel like everyone needs to focus on helping her with the outfits, because that's where the real tragedy is happening.
Meh. Hindsight has shown me that all young people in bars look both fabulous and ridiculous at the same time. Youth and confidence are pretty much the only requirements for looking good in a fun, social setting.
This is true. I found a picture of my and my bff when we took a trip to Miami. I am wearing what appears to be one of Dorothy Zbornak's flowy tunics, cut off at the midriff, and a pair of blue corduroy shorts (REALLY SHORT shorts).
I apologize in advance bc this is a post and run, but I *think* I might know who she's referring to but a) I don't want to say her name in case I'm wrong and b) the poster I'm thinking Of does get shit, but not exactly for dating post divorce too soon (that I'm aware of) so I could be wrong
Ps: it's not you
I'm fairly certain it's me?
I have no cares to give regarding what anyone thinks of my choosing to date or not though.
No one was judging you. No one cares if you start dating right away or not. Really. It's not a big deal. People think you're immature because of reactions exactly like this. Stop with the whole "HOLY SHIT, HOW DARE YOU!!!"
Meh. Hindsight has shown me that all young people in bars look both fabulous and ridiculous at the same time. Youth and confidence are pretty much the only requirements for looking good in a fun, social setting.
This is true. I found a picture of my and my bff when we took a trip to Miami. I am wearing what appears to be one of Dorothy Zbornak's flowy tunics, cut off at the midriff, and a pair of blue corduroy shorts (REALLY SHORT shorts).
I look FANTASTIC. And young. And tan. And thin.
Yes. I thought I was hot shit. Turns out I was, although I objectively looked a lukewarm mess.
My H said that I should have just pulled out some of my old shorts from college instead of buying N a bunch of new ones. Lol. I'm sure some of my shirts would have fit her nicely too.
I apologize in advance bc this is a post and run, but I *think* I might know who she's referring to but a) I don't want to say her name in case I'm wrong and b) the poster I'm thinking Of does get shit, but not exactly for dating post divorce too soon (that I'm aware of) so I could be wrong
Ps: it's not you
I'm fairly certain it's me?
I have no cares to give regarding what anyone thinks of my choosing to date or not though.
Ok I'm really post and running now, but I wasn't thinking of you.
I apologize in advance bc this is a post and run, but I *think* I might know who she's referring to but a) I don't want to say her name in case I'm wrong and b) the poster I'm thinking Of does get shit, but not exactly for dating post divorce too soon (that I'm aware of) so I could be wrong
Ps: it's not you
I'm fairly certain it's me?
I have no cares to give regarding what anyone thinks of my choosing to date or not though.
Ok I'm really post and running now, but I wasn't thinking of you. Sorry double post
Post by underwaterrhymes on Jul 30, 2014 9:39:59 GMT -5
This is so tiresome.
Look, if you post anything here, people are going to have opinions. They are not always going to be opinions you like.
This is the nature of not just message boards but fucking LIFE, dude.
People who roll with the punches get far more support than those who get all huffy and call people names.
I have zero problem with someone going on a date or going out with friends post-breakup. But, given your attitude toward people I adore (like Que?) paired with stuff like the saggy tits comments, I'm not inclined to defend you.
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Jul 30, 2014 9:42:54 GMT -5
Oh, study, you don't actually need to have a public hissy fit because two people out of a board of hundreds were all "oh...maybe soon for dating?" You were getting decent advice and you totally missed it. Calm your tits, girl.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."