A poll about sex or lack of

[Deleted]

Since you have started having sex, what is the longest you have gone, while in a relationship without.

For app users
Less then a week
Less then a month
1-3 months
4-7 months
8-11 months
12 months or more

[awick14]

4-7 months

[nerdicorn]

Once the baby started moving we stopped having sex because it really freaked me out. So 4-7 months?

[wambam]

1-3 months.

[iamgrace]

Does this include pregnancy and post partum? I feel like those are special circumstances.

[rupertpenny]

7ish months when I was single in college.

[thecatinthehat]

I voted for less than 1 month and completely forgot about those 6-7 weeks post-partum. Actually this is not the longest stretch since DH and I were apart for over 8 weeks due to work/school related travels.

[Dumbledork]

Final trimester sex was not good so we abstained for most of it. He deployed about a month after she was born. I think it was around 12 moths total of no sex.

Not counting ldr, work or pregnancy related dry spells. I don't think it's been more than 1 - 2 months.

[Jalapeñomel]

I hate these polls.

[underwaterrhymes]

I said 1 - 3 months originally because we waited for the all clear to have sex postpartum.

But then I remembered when H lived overseas and I was in the States it was 5 months, so I changed it to 4 - 7.

Otherwise,I think maybe 10 days due to illness is the max.

[isabel]

A month or so? I can't really recall.

[bornbaker]

4-7ish months. Long distance relationship!

[pandorica]

1-3 months. We've been long distance a couple times.

[meganew]

12 months+ due to pregnancy, a bad tear during delivery and then the scar tissue from that tear. There were attempts in that time period, but Ollie was over a year before we could have actual, good sex again until completion.

Kids, man. Why are we doing this again?? Lol.

[Captain Serious]

1-3 months

[eddy]

4-7 months
I was on pelvic rest during pregnancy

[katfco]

Is this not including pregnancy? About a month. Including pregnancy, 6 months, but that's because I was on pelvic rest during pregnancy.

[JamaicanPineapple]

1-3 months. I was on pelvic rest for part of my 2nd pregnancy. Then no sex for 6 weeks postpartum.

[CurlyQ284]

8 weeks postpartum. Other than that maybe 2-3 weeks?

[Deleted]

I can't vote because the misuse of "then" means I am too busy hulksmashing something.

[NothingWrongwithOhio]

Three months, but that was due to a medication that killed my sex drive. Other than that I think it was six weeks post partum.

[pooh8402]

Less than a month

[SKP82]

When H (then BF) was deployed to Iraq, I think it was 10 months.

[thatgirl2478]

2 pregnancies and 2 deployments do not make for a lot of sex.  On the other hand since DD2 took 2 yrs to conceive, it sounded like a construction zone up in here what with all the banging...

[rex]

if pregnancy counts then 4-7 months.

[Deleted]

I'm currently at the 9 month mark, by choice.

ETA: My first relationship though was long distance and I waited an entire year then. 

[lexxasaurus]

Right around a month is the longest I've gone I believe, relationship or not.

[blueballoon]

10 days

[cville]

I answered truthfully (4-7 months), but the husband was deployed so it wasn't like then I was turning him down or vice versa. We've had drier spells related to the whole bullshit that is pregnancy and delivery, too.

[karmasabiotch]

I could give it up forever and not think twice. I'm not a fan.