Post by muppetinma on Jul 30, 2014 20:36:49 GMT -5
I said SS. We're done having kids, but I'm still on the fence about it. Most days, I'm happy. That being said, I just spent my evening making a little girl dress. It'd be fun to be able to make clothes for my own little girl.
Post by honeybee503 on Jul 30, 2014 20:37:51 GMT -5
No, and mostly happy. H had a vasectomy in April. The only times I really feel sad about it are when Nolan gets another month older, and when I have to pack away any of their clothes. Then I think about the logistics of our home/vehicles/life with another and I am feeling better quickly.
No. Mostly happy except today. I came home to the high chair outside for trash. I may have told him it was like seeing my baby thrown outside. Dramatic yes but feelings man. She hasn't used it for several months but man that chair is family, its been here for almost 4.5 years. It's so final. Drama llama, yes and I own it because feelings.
Post by DesertMoon on Jul 30, 2014 20:41:05 GMT -5
This is it for us. The end is now. I wouldn't mind a tubal ligation, and I'm getting on mirena after she's born. I definitely don't ever want to be pregnant again.
I am struggling with this so much. I really want one more. H does not for financial and my-wife-sucks-at-pregnancy reasons. I think he would agree to another if I went back to work full time but that really didn't work for our family when I went back after A. I am really sad this may be my last one.
C25K...it works Seaside 5K...........40:45(2012) Turkey Trot..........41:30(2012)/37:08(2013)/37:40(2014) St Pat's 5K..........39:27(2013)/38:48(2014)/35:12(2015) Belair Town Run......38:09(2013)/36:27(2014) Back To Football 5K..37:36(2013)/43:44(2015) Balt Run Fest 5K.....34:59(2013)/41:50(2014)/35:54(2015)
I'm a very very remote maybe. I love being a mom a million times more than I thought I would, and I love the idea of more. But....sleep. And money. And flexibility. And age. It makes much more sense to stick with two.
I chose maybe. We really can't afford it but I still feel it may happen. Maybe when Matilda is in school or something. Or maybe we will enjoy the opportunities not having an infant in the family presents us and decide not to go there again..
Pros: kids are awesome I have pretty easy pregnancies
Cons: money. Sleep. Money. Vag and Stomach getting stretched out again. Months of nipple pain. Money
Emerson Kate, born 38w5d on 4/6/12 at 6:02 p.m., 5 lbs 13 oz and 18 3/4 inches. Lucas Matthew, born 39w5d on 4/11/14 at 8:20 a.m., 7 lbs 4 oz and 20 inches.