Post by timorousbeastie on Jul 31, 2014 20:40:21 GMT -5
Babies almost always look totally androgynous, which is why it doesn't bother me that DD is always mistaken for a boy - she doesn't look like a boy or a girl, she just looks like a (ridiculously cute) baby.
This is a boy in a girl's sleeper. Because lemons are feminine I guess.
Your comment about lemons being feminine reminded me - on more than one occasion, I've had people insist that DD was a boy specifically because she had on a giraffe print. Apparently giraffes are only for boys.
Post by matildasun on Jul 31, 2014 20:52:55 GMT -5
I don't think there is really a difference. A wore a lot of gender neutral clothes and you wouldn't have been able to tell she was a girl.
I think, even at two, the only things that makes M look like a boy are his haircut and his clothes. I put a barrette in his hair the other day, because he asked me to, and I think if I had put him in more gender neutral clothes people would have not known.
C got called a boy all the time. It didn't help that things I considered gender neutral, everyone else seemed think were totally boyish. Here she is in all her masculine glory.
Yes, I think boys and girls look the same as newborns. People thought DS1 was a girl until he was three despite being dressed in, what I thought anyway, were fairly boyish clothes.
This is J in a white onesie at 8 months old. You cannot convince me that she looks like a girl vs a boy yet people would always tell me "oh I can tell she's all girl" (an almost equal number of people would call her a boy, lol).
I think she has a very pretty face and eyes which makes me think girl. Some boys are very "pretty" too though. I'm thinking tulips ds but in a good way .
Dd has lots of hair now so it's easier but I would make sure to have headbands on her when she was really little.